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In Korean dramas, there will always be a sweet love between a young man and a sister, how many people smirk at the screen every day? In fact, in reality, sister-brother love has also become a major trend of marriage and love.
Some time ago we launched the topic #What is the experience of sister-brother love? #有的幸福圆满, some of them ended in dismal light... What kind of story is it? Let's take a look.
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Happiness is perfect
Two years younger than me, he spoiled me like a little princess
My first love was a younger brother who was two years younger than me, and as of now, we have been together for 7 years and 3 months! But my mom was against us being together because she was worried that in life, many things needed to be considered and judged personally.
But in these more than 7 years of love time, I didn't feel that there was an age difference between the two of us, and I couldn't communicate. Many times he was protecting me, taking care of me, and letting me live like a little princess. A happy life doesn't need to be tied to age, but is based on whether the other person loves you or not.
Twelve years younger than me, willing to break the world with me
My boyfriend is twelve years younger than me and I have one child divorced.
Although he is younger than me, he is mature and stable in mind, but sometimes he is more shy and passive. We have been aware of it for almost three years, and there have been small awkward emotions in the middle, but we will soon reconcile and solve the problem, and in general, we are very sweet and attached to each other now.
Of course, I can also anticipate the crisis that follows us, certainly in the face of worldly judgment, but I am not afraid, because I have thought hard about it.
In fact, no matter whether it is sister-brother love, homosexuality, heterosexuality, it is the same, and what kind of person to fall in love mainly depends on personal choices, the most important thing is to learn to grow in love and become a better self.
Although younger than me, but my male mother
In terms of age, it is a brother and sister, in fact, it is a male mother and a weak chicken that has escaped, if it were not for him "feeding" me all the way, I may fall back to the "mother's circle" that I have always wanted to break free of for the nth time in my thirties, and die in the strangulation of my mother like a poisonous parasitic vine.
And now, after finally pulling away from the physical distance from my original family, I have a weak force, piecing together fragments of myself little by little (which may not be achieved by a counselor alone).
Another advantage of the year is that it is easier to understand the difficulty of marriage, and it is more accepting to Dink, because the environment in which they grew up is already a period of relatively rich and convenient access to information, so they are less likely to be affected by the dross of traditional ideas.
In fact, age should not be a hard standard, a person's maturity is reflected in having a relatively stable mood and flexible and soft problem solving, and this is not necessarily positively correlated with age. And the older, the higher the probability of meeting a high-quality brother, ah ~ women, but also can be backwards compatible. Let's all embrace the diversity of this world
He called me Niu Zong, and I called him Cao'er
He was only two years younger than me, but standing together I looked at least 5 or 6 years older than him. His appearance is relatively small, after determining the relationship, I always feel that my old cow eats tender grass, so he has always called me Niu Zong, I call him Grass.
Although I am older than him, I may not be as cautious in my work, and he is relatively stable. He would tell me that I would never have to be rational or reasonable in front of him.
Occasionally, my conscience will find that he will blame himself for not indulging me too much, but he said that I can be myself, we learn from each other and grow, and we all hope to be a better self
My brother, who is three years younger than me, has really good physical strength
My boyfriend and I play games and I'm three years older and have been together for over a year.
Sister-brother love is actually the same as ordinary couples, there is not much difference in getting along, but the younger brother is really not so mature, and his handling will be more childish, in addition to which it is still very fragrant. He will be very clingy to you, will be spoiled, will listen to you, and the brother's physical strength is really good aha...
He said, "You're my little cutie."
We met in a dating group, and he had a nice voice and an interesting opinion.
At the beginning, everyone was just chatting blindly as netizens, chatting and chatting and starting to flirt with each other, only to know that the other party was four years younger than me! But he is mature in his thinking, there is no generation gap in communication, and even because of the same hobbies and the same retro feelings, he can always understand each other's ideas in seconds.
After the face base, he thought I looked younger than him, and he called me all day long. Later, I inadvertently talked about it, when I was a freshman, he seemed to be only in the third year of junior high school, I laughed for half an hour, and then touched his head with my feet and said, "Brother, my sister took you to play a game, please eat fried chicken..."
Before he could finish speaking, he slammed his backhand against him and said, "Shut up, you're my little cutie!"
A dismal end
The other parent couldn't accept our age difference
It's really amazing that the suitors I meet after work are all three to seven years younger than me... I have also been on a blind date, but I have found that boys my age or older than me always carry the traditional idea of male superiority and female inferiority, they do not like my independent personality, do not like me to reason with them, and always want to tame me into a meek and obedient little woman who does not resist.
And the boys younger than me know how to respect me, respect me for having my own ideas, never bind me, and when they encounter disagreements, they can actively explore problems and seek solutions acceptable to both sides, in short, I can be myself without scruples.
But these sister-brother relationships have not come to the end, and they are separated because the other parents cannot accept the age difference and strongly oppose... Therefore, before the sisters are ready to start the sister-brother relationship, consider whether to enjoy only the moment or be ready to go to the end, find out the attitude of the other parents, so as not to waste time, this is my most personal experience.
Fun-loving, bad temper
In a word, it is summed up: the younger brother is really fragrant, but the younger brother ≠ little boy.
When he chased me, he was very kind to me and spoiled me when he didn't agree. After falling in love, I am also very clingy, will accompany me to class, and I am very energetic, and when I stay with him, I feel that I am back to eighteen...
But the little boy loves to play, and after the greasy and crooked love period has passed, he began to play with himself. Our professional courses are tight, and we want him to learn more, but he thinks I have a wide range of management; students want to take him with them at work, and he thinks that I don't believe in his ability and underestimate him.
Every three forks and five games missing, asked is to go out with friends to play / dry food / KTV / play games without looking at the phone, a lot of bad temper to me to tolerate, make a fuss to hurt max.
In the end, we broke up, he mentioned, on the grounds that we all had things to do and were not suitable.
Immature and exhausting
The mother-fetus solo met his brother who was very good at straight ball, obedient and cute, and always praised me in various unexpected ways, because his praise felt that he was confident a lot, and finally decided to try to fall in love.
Unexpectedly, after a long time, I found myself always solving each other's emotional problems in love. When there is a problem between two people, I am always trying to find a way, and he can only be silent, saying "I will definitely change", next time it will still be...
Feeling tired, he took the initiative to break up and did not plan to fall in love again in the short term.
He wasn't ready to marry me
My ex was a year younger than me, he was an extremely gentle, lovely boy, and we were together for five years, and these five years were very happy.
He surprised me a lot, and we really want to be together for the rest of our lives, but when it comes to getting married, I can feel that he's not ready. I'll also have age anxiety, I'll be anxious, and I don't want to spend all the time on whether we want to get married or not. I can't wait for him to be rich and mature before marrying him, I also need to realize the value of my life.
In the end, I proposed to break up, although after the breakup, we also complained about each other, but in the end I still want to wish him happiness and happiness all the time.
Also tell the sisters, never wait for a boy to mature, and don't give up on yourself for the sake of others.
Although the story has a perfect ending and a hasty ending, from these sharing, you can feel the sweetness of sister-brother love.
There are reasons for the beginning and end of a relationship, but it can't be completely attributed to age, learning to love people and growing up with each other is the most important.
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