If "sister-brother love" is to succeed, it is first necessary to forget each other's age, and the change of roles can increase each other's feelings. "Sister" can also be "sister" and "younger brother" can also be "older brother".
A few days ago, friends met Dayang at the party, saw him radiant, the corners of his mouth are almost raised to the corner of the eye, they quipped to ask him if he won the lottery, he said that he was happier than winning the lottery, and his wife added him a "little lover".
Friends know that Dayang's wife is a full 6 years older than him, when 24-year-old Dayang ran sales at a company, and his wife was the middle management of his client company. No one was optimistic about their relationship at first, but they entered the marriage without any danger. Now they have been married for 10 years, their sons are 8 years old, and their little days are full of taste. Dayang has always wanted to have another daughter, did not think, his wife gave birth to a daughter at the age of 42, really wanted something, let many peers envy.
Dayang joked that his wife was too good, and if he didn't have a whole routine and didn't use a snack machine, it was impossible to marry her into the door. He simply summed up his routine in one sentence: first call sister, then call sister, and finally call wife.
Calling her "sister" first, the relationship became close, and the closed door of her heart was inadvertently opened, and they improved their understanding of each other.
Because of the business relationship, Dayang met the financial manager of the customer company Lin Ping, Lin Ping was serious, did not smile, at the beginning, Dayang said "Manager Lin" politely shouted, business, never thought what would happen with this elderly woman.
Once, because of the traffic jam, when Dayang rushed to Lin Ping's company, it was already after work time, and the front desk told him that the accountant had left and asked him to come back tomorrow. He did not die, ran to the finance room, saw that Lin Ping was still there, and begged her to help him check the documents, it was not easy for him to come over. Lin Ping saw that he was sweating, poured him a glass of water, took the bill and asked him to wait for a while. Dayang said flatteredly, "Thank you sister! Lin Ping smiled and shook her head. Dayang found that in fact, she smiled very well, and the important thing was that people were quite good.
Since then, Dayang has directly changed "Manager Lin" to "Sister Ping", sometimes directly called "Sister". The two people who came and went got much closer. Sometimes, he encountered something unhappy at work, and he liked to tell her that every time he was enlightened by her, his mood would always calm down a lot. Lin Ping also slowly accepted Dayang's title for herself from the beginning of unnaturalness, and became acquainted with him without distraction.
After Dayang was sure that he liked Lin Ping, he often invited her to dinner under the pretext of asking for advice and thanks, and often cared about her as a younger brother. Gradually, Lin Ping was also accustomed to the days when she was around him, and she would also ask this younger brother for help when she encountered any difficulties.
Later, Lin Ping said that when Dayang confessed, she was very surprised, although she did like Dayang quite a bit, but because she was so much older than him, Dayang called sister naturally, so she never and did not dare to think about that aspect.
Dayang said that if he was not called Lin Ping's sister, he would not be able to get close to Lin Ping at all, and a "sister" would bring them closer, allowing her to have a chance to understand her, and also let her put down her burden and interact with herself.
Because of her love and cherishing, and truly being her "sister", she finally removed her armor and showed her weakest side.
One of the most common problems with sister-brother love is the wrong role positioning. Dayang knows that Lin Ping is capable and knowledgeable, but he also understands that no matter how powerful a woman is on the outside, she is only a little girl on the inside. After he confessed to Lin Ping, suddenly some big men came out. Once, Lin Ping had a fever, but because the company had a job to deal with, she took the illness to work, and after Dayang knew, she went directly to her company without saying a word to pick her up and take her to the hospital. Dayang solemnly told Lin Ping that he must tell himself as soon as he got sick in the future. Lin Ping smiled at his flat face, "Yes, big brother." Dayang patted her face: "Well, little sister." ”
When they first fell in love, Dayang always felt that he could not walk into Lin Ping's heart, as if there was always something between the two people, Lin Ping always showed independence and self on his surface, and never showed weakness in front of him. But Dayang knew that she must also have her own weak side, but she refused to show it easily. One day, Dayang couldn't contact Lin Ping all day, the phone was turned off, he couldn't go to the door of Lin Ping's apartment to wait, more than one o'clock in the morning, Lin Ping saw him in tears, saying that her girlfriend had a car accident, she was really afraid that she would not wake up. Dayang saw Lin Ping's tears for the first time, and in an instant, he was heartbroken. He hugged her and said, "It's all right, silly sister, there's me." ”
Although Lin Ping is very strong in work, she does not have much experience in life. Dayang likes Lin Ping, a shrewd and capable workplace woman, and also likes Lin Ping, a stupid and weak home woman. Dayang will ask Lin Ping for advice or advice when he encounters problems at work, at this time, he regards her as a sister, and he accepts her guidance. As for Lin Ping's problems in life, Dayang will also clearly point it out and make her position clear, at this time, she will become a sister.
Since Lin Ping fell in love with Dayang, she has become more and more sunny and playful, dressed more fashionably and youngly, changing her previous professional style. Dayang said that in fact, there is a small woman living in the heart of the woman, and the woman who has removed the armor is even more cute.
He called her "wife" instead, promised to take care of her and accompany her for a lifetime, and made her smile like a flower.
Dayang and Lin Ping's "sister-brother love" is not a smooth road, at first it was Lin Ping's family who opposed it, they felt that Dayang was too young and emotionally unstable, and it may only be a moment of freshness to be with Lin Ping. It was not easy for Lin Ping's family not to object, and Dayang's parents did not approve of it, saying that Lin Ping was too big, and if nothing else, it would not be easy to have children and raise in the future.
Lin Ping also once wanted to retreat, thinking that after all, she was 6 years older than Dayang, and the woman was getting old fast, afraid that when she really got married, Dayang would regret it. Dayang used his persistence and efforts to make Lin Ping dispel all worries and agree to marry himself. Then do the ideological work of their parents, and finally let them accept Lin Ping.
When they received the marriage license from the Civil Affairs Bureau, Dayang said to Lin Ping: "First call sister, then call sister, and finally call wife." Wife, I can finally call you wife! Since then, Dayang and Lin Ping have officially opened their happy "sister-brother love" marriage.
The success of a relationship has nothing to do with the age of the person you choose, but rather whether you will deal with the problems that arise between you and whether you will skillfully manage your love. And most importantly, whether you really love each other.