Wen/Xiao Jia'er said
Loving children is the most important thing in a teacher's life. —Sukhomlinsky
Education has always been the object of social concern, and many parents have made various efforts to prevent their children from losing at the starting line, and have paved the way for their children since kindergarten.
Many people seem to be simple-minded and can do everything as long as they lay a good foundation. But in fact, children also have children's troubles, they will also experience some so-called setbacks, parents should do a good job of positive guidance.
Kindergarten is also a "small society"
In adult society, full of competition, some people with poor strength may experience some setbacks, and even be disliked by others, which we often describe as a social reality.
Although children are still as students, a social circle has also formed among them. In this circle, although it will not experience the harsh reality of the adult world, it will also leave a "shadow" for children.
After sending their children to kindergarten, parents will also worry about whether their children can handle the school's affairs well and whether the teacher will be unfair to their children.
In fact, it is precisely because of the simplicity of children that some small things that may appear around them will have a bad impact on children. A word that the teacher accidentally says may affect the child, so parents must pay attention to it.
Kindergartens also have "unspoken rules", and these 3 types of children are easily disliked by teachers
Kindergarten is a social circle of children, if students in kindergarten are not liked by teachers, it is likely to bring some invisible trouble, parents should also pay more attention.
Do things slowly
In kindergarten, a teacher has to take care of several children, one after another. If one of the children behaves slowly and delays the teacher's time, the teacher will also behave impatiently.
Even if the teacher has helped the child complete the task, in the teacher's mind, the score of the student may be reduced, and slowly he is not willing to pay more attention, and there will definitely be trouble with a concern.
Get used to being taken care of
Kindergarten students are no better than elementary school students, and many times they can't take care of themselves. Coupled with the family's doting on children, many times can not solve their own problems, in the end have to turn to the teacher.
Although the kindergarten teachers are very patient, they will still feel some impatience in the long run, and the teachers are more reluctant to contact these children, and slowly they do not like these children who come to stretch out their hands and eat.
Friction is frequent
Conflicts between children are common, often because of small problems, which are not things at all in the eyes of adults. But some children don't have a good temper and always have conflicts with other people.
If there is a friction every few days, the teacher will not be willing to take care of it, even if it is to find a parent, it will still not be compatible with other children. This also creates contradictions in the work of teachers, and is naturally unpopular.
analyse:
Kindergartens are the first steps for children to officially step from family to society, and during this period they will experience a variety of things. What parents have to do is to actively guide their children and not let their children deviate in the first step.
Kindergarten teachers are not only the identity of teachers, more like children's mothers in school, when taking care of several children, it is inevitable that there will be places that are not well-
Parents need to be prepared before sending their children to kindergarten
Kindergarten is a transitional period for students to enter the campus life, and they will maintain the state they were in when they were at home in terms of living habits, and learn some knowledge superficially, such as numbers, Hanyu Pinyin, idioms and so on.
Many parents think it will be much better to send their children to bilingual kindergartens, and also remind everyone that before sending their children to school, they should still be prepared and adapt to school.
Going to kindergarten means that children can't be at home all the time, and it is inevitable that they will not adapt when they leave home for the first time. Parents can communicate with their children in advance, and teach their children some ordinary self-care skills, so that children can develop good living habits.
Even if the kindergarten teacher does not have any eccentric behavior, these preparations can make the child add points to the teacher's mind. Therefore, the guidance of parents is also very important.
Is it necessary for parents to let their children win at the starting line?
Education does affect a person's life, and many parents may have given advice and pressure to their children at the kindergarten stage in order to let their children win at the starting line.
Bilingual kindergartens, as the name suggests, are to learn Chinese and English, but the cost will be much more expensive compared to ordinary kindergartens, which brings certain economic pressure to many ordinary families.
Therefore, it is not recommended that parents give their children such a great pressure to learn from an early age, but step by step. Bilingual education does have certain advantages, but there is no need to directly reduce their quality of life for children.
Children in the kindergarten stage are mainly based on play, and learning is carried out. If you put your child under the pressure of learning too early, it is likely to cause resistance to learning.
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