The wives who live together in their old age should support each other and spend their old age together. However, when the partner's wife refused to share the bed, the uncle was angry and wanted to break up, shouting: "What do you pay attention to at this age?" "What's going on? Let's uncover this ironic story of old age.
In this busy and noisy world, people are always in constant pursuit of happiness and stability. And when they enter their old age, many people choose to live together, accompany each other, support each other, and spend the rest of their lives together. However, this seemingly simple life as a partner is also full of unexpected challenges and contradictions.
Recently, an uncle encountered such troubles. He has been living with his wife for several years, and the relationship between the two has always been good. However, recently, his wife suddenly refused to share a bed with him, which made the uncle feel very puzzled and angry.
The uncle feels that both of them have reached this age, and they should no longer pay attention to those vain things, but should cherish each other's company and feelings more. He believes that his wife's refusal to share a bed is an act of disrespect for him, which makes him feel very hurt and disappointed.
So, the uncle found his wife and wanted to find out why she refused to share the bed. However, his wife's answer made him even more angry. The wife said that it was not because she didn't like the uncle or had any dissatisfaction with him, but because she felt that both of them were so old that there was no need to pay attention to these formal things like young people. She prefers that the two can maintain a certain distance and independence in order to better maintain each other's freshness and respect.
Hearing such an answer, the uncle was simply angry. He felt that his wife was deliberately angry with him and deliberately made him sad. So, he said to his wife: "What do you pay attention to at this age? We are not young and need so many tricks to maintain our relationship. If you do that, you're only going to get us farther and farther apart! ”
However, my wife did not change her mind because of this. She insisted that the way the two get along with each other should be adjusted according to each other's needs and feelings, rather than blindly pursuing formal intimacy. She hopes that her uncle will understand her thoughts and respect her choice.
In the face of his wife's insistence, the uncle felt very helpless and confused. He didn't know how to deal with it, and he didn't know how to continue with his wife. He felt that he had done his best, but he could not get the understanding and support of his wife.
Actually, on this issue, the uncle and the wife are not wrong. They just look at it from a different angle and position. The uncle hopes that the two can be closer and more dependent on each other, while the wife wants to maintain a certain independence and distance. This difference is not a question of who is right and who is wrong, but requires both parties to understand and respect each other's choices.
It is very important for couples who live together to understand and respect each other. Everyone's habits and preferences are different, and we can't ask others to live exactly what we want. Instead, we should learn to adapt and accept each other's differences, and respect each other's choices and decisions.
At the same time, we also need to realize that in the process of living together in our later years, we will inevitably encounter various challenges and contradictions. When faced with these problems, we need to remain calm and rational, and communicate and solve them with a calm mind. Only in this way can we better maintain each other's feelings and relationships, and make our later life better and happier.
Of course, in this process, we also need to constantly adjust our mindset and expectations. We cannot expect others to live exactly as we want them to, nor can we expect others to fully understand our thoughts and feelings. Instead, we should learn to adapt and accept each other's differences, and try to understand and think from each other's perspective.
In short, in the process of living together in later years, mutual understanding and respect are the key to maintaining mutual feelings and relationships. Only when we can truly do this can we make our later years better and happier.