Many mothers-in-law regard their daughter-in-law as their natural enemy, they think that their son who has worked so hard to raise is actually snatched by the daughter-in-law's horizontal knife, it is inevitable that they will be displeased, and many mothers-in-law like to provoke trouble from it, resulting in a disharmonious relationship between the son and the daughter-in-law.
When children grow up, they will naturally have their own lives. As parents, you just need to bless them. If you always like to make something out of nothing and provoke the relationship between children, it is inevitable that you will be hated by the other party and affect the relationship between family members.
Wang Shan is the only child in the family, and his family regards him as a pearl in the palm of his hand, especially his mother, who almost regards Wang Shan as his own lifeblood, and praises his son every time.
Wang Shan and his wife met in college, and the two have always had a good relationship. After graduating from college, the two got married. After getting married, because the mother-in-law was picky eaters, the two were angry at both ends for three days.
The mother-in-law dislikes Chen Hua for not doing housework, deliberately adjusts Chen Hua, and arranges a lot of housework for Chen Hua, Chen Hua in addition to going to work, returning home, almost has been working, but once the mistake is made, the mother-in-law will not be spared.
Chen Hua made a phone call with a male colleague at home, and her mother-in-law would tell Wang Shan that Chen Hua secretly called the man. Hearing this news from his mother, Wang Shan felt very shocked and questioned Chen Hua after returning home.
Chen Hua confessed that he and his colleagues called, but Wang Shan did not believe it, and had to let Chen Hua call his colleagues again to prove it. In the end, although Chen Hua made a phone call, this also made Chen Hua very embarrassed.
The mother-in-law went to the hospital, and she had to let Chen Hua take care of it. Obviously, Chen Hua took good care of her mother-in-law, but the mother-in-law did not say that Chen Hua did not let herself eat and complained to her son. Slander Chen Hua for being distressed about money and not buying himself food.
Wang Shan hit Chen Hua in a fit of rage. However, when the other patients in the hospital bed told Wang Shan about the incident, he learned that his mother had been lying.
Since then, Wang Shan has stopped obeying his mother. Wang Shan told his mother that in his heart, his mother was unmatched, but he also wanted to live a good life with his wife, hoping that her mother would not always target her wife. However, for Wang Shan's words, the mother-in-law has always been the wind in her ears.
The husband and wife quarreled over small things, Chen Hua's voice was relatively large, obviously occupying the upper hand, the mother-in-law provoked Wang Shan next to him and said: "Son, your monthly salary is more than 10,000, why do you still have to be angry with her?" "Hear mom say that. Wang Shan knew that his mother wanted to target his wife again, so he said angrily, "Mom, you shut up!" ”
Seeing Wang Shan's angry look, her mother-in-law did not dare to continue. Since then, he no longer dared to stir up dissension in front of Wang Shan. And Wang Shan naturally takes into account the past love, often booing and greeting his mother-in-law, but the two rarely talk about Chen Hua.
When the children grow up, the elderly should gradually withdraw from the children's world. Learn to return freedom to the children, if you want to insert a lever in everything, it is likely to help more and more, but also affect each other's feelings, it is better to learn to withdraw with dignity, they end up clean, and the children can have their own lives.