Love is the most elusive thing.
Sometimes, you see him approaching you, but walking past you, you don't know if this is love or not, and you don't know whether you should insist on it or not.
Especially the woman's mind, it is even more difficult to understand, obviously like it, but dare not say it, even the hint is not clear, can only watch the person pass by their side.
In fact, women don't have to be too sensible, you always think about him, give him tolerance and generosity, don't ask him for anything, you think that this way, he will love you more, and this is not the case.
When you don't need anything, the man doesn't feel your love, he will feel that he is superfluous, in this case, he will only stay away from you.
So you have to understand that in the process of getting along between men and women, women who take the initiative to ask for these things are deeply loved by men, and the more they don't want anything, the more they can't get his heart.
01
Ask for time
A woman is the most insecure, and if she likes someone, she will want the other person to be with her and be with her.
But sometimes, men are really busy, and they will not accompany her every day, at this time, some sensible women will obediently wait, will not bother him, will not ask for his time, let him accompany you.
You think that you are so sensible, he can understand your heart, and will accompany you when he takes time, but it is precisely because of your understanding that he feels that you do not need companionship at all, even if he has time, he will do other things, rather than staying by your side, so you can only continue to grievance yourself.
Women still don't know too much, when they should be willful, even if they are willful, it is okay to let him accompany you, the most feared thing is that you think about everything for him, and he will not put you in his heart.
02
Ask for sincerity
The so-called "easy to ask for priceless treasure, rare to have a heart", in a relationship, sincerity is a very important thing, if he can't even give you the heart, what else can you expect?
Sometimes, a woman is just too soft-hearted, and will forgive him again and again after he makes a mistake, hoping that he can change, as long as he can come back to you, you don't care.
But your forgiveness will only make him stay away again and again, and he will only feel that you don't need his sincerity, so it doesn't matter if you have him or not.
Therefore, women still have to learn to ask for his sincerity, and when they find that he has contact with other members of the opposite sex, they should say that they are unhappy in their hearts, rather than letting him continue to contact.
Only when he understands your ideas and knows that you need him, will he be willing to give his heart and pamper you more.
03
Ask for a promise
Every woman looks forward to a great future, and if she is with you without even a basic commitment, she will feel that she loves the wrong person, but sometimes, these are caused by women.
If the other party always "says that the career is not successful, and what to use to build a family", the woman chooses to be inclusive, then it can only be repeatedly backed down, and every time you say this topic, he will use this as an excuse.
In fact, if a woman repeatedly gives in, it will be fruitless, so it is better to ask him for a commitment and be firm, rather than endlessly tolerate it.
Don't feel that he hasn't said anything, what can you do, but you take the initiative to ask for it, let him understand your bottom line, so that he will be afraid of losing you, so that he loves you more.
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Conclusion
Woman, or don't be too sensible, some things can only be asked directly from him, your request, will make him feel the need, so that he will be more and more inseparable from you.
If you always blindly give in and tolerate, thinking that this is the expression of loving him, it will only push him farther, because he can't feel your need.
Two people getting along is a science, not the more you tolerate, the more he loves you, but you have independent thoughts, but also willing to tell him your feelings, he will love you more.
I hope you can meet someone who understands you, and two people support each other and spend time together!