Uncle Lover's Introduction:
Happy marriages have a hard-working, hard-working and tolerant man, and women will become happier and more beautiful because of such men. Therefore, the happiness of marriage is not so difficult, the key lies in what kind of role each other plays in the marriage.
In marriage, a man's behavior directly affects the happiness of the marriage, and in marriage a man must not have three behaviors, because these three behaviors will make women more difficult than divorce.
Long Cold War
The marriage that two husband and wife can enter is really an easy thing, you have to know how small the probability of two people from meeting to acquaintance to getting acquainted to entering marriage is. This is actually a kind of fate, this kind of fate, we should let it produce the value of happiness, rather than let this fate stop here when it comes to marriage.
In marriage, both men and women should understand a truth: marriage is not a one-person thing, and escape cannot solve any problems.
Many people think of escaping when they encounter problems, they should quarrel when they should quarrel, and they should be patient when they should be patient, instead of encountering problems, you leave, you choose the Cold War. If there is a long cold war between husband and wife, do you think marriage still has a meaning?
A long cold war will make each other's hearts and minds be hit, especially the woman's own soul is very sensitive and fragile, you ignore her for a long time and do not pay attention to her, the consequences are very serious.
Her heart will lose its enthusiasm, so where is your hope for marriage? If you want your marriage to be happy, then you should try to make your life lively, and it is very necessary to reject the Cold War.
Loss of trust
If there is really no love between two people, then divorce may not be a good choice, but many people are not because two people do not love, but because of various misunderstandings between two people and contradictions and estrangement, so it leads to unhappy married life. This actually has a lot to do with mutual trust.
Men, you have to understand that trust is the foundation of marriage. You live with a person, then your bits and pieces are related to her.
We have to trust each other in marriage to make each other feel our attention and dependence. A sense of trust and a sense of dependence actually coexist.
You will only rely on her when you trust each other, and if you let a woman lose this feeling of being dependent on you, you think about how much damage to her heart will be, and it is better to divorce her directly.
Don't listen
If you really don't love someone anymore, you can let go, and if you feel that marriage is really meaningless, then you can leave. But you have to understand that this choice is not what you think in your heart, because once you have made a decision, there is no way to turn back.
Once a man loses her confidence in marriage and loses her expectations for the future in marriage, your marriage is meaningless.
If you feel that your marriage still has the possibility of salvation, if you want to be intimate with your lover, then you should communicate with each other more, understand each other's ideas more, and tolerate each other more, which is the right way to solve the problem.
If you don't pay attention to her in life, her parents' birthday, you don't pay attention to it, you forget the wedding anniversary of the two of you, she wants to buy a gift on her birthday, and you don't pay attention to it. If it's such an attitude, it's better to tell her directly that you want a divorce.
Uncle Epilogue:
The modern divorce rate is getting higher and higher because many people feel that they have not done anything wrong in marriage, and the other party is unreasonable. This is actually an illusion of your own.
Many contradictions and troubles in life are also brought to yourself by yourself, especially if you are a man, you should have the responsibility, the responsibility to take care of your wife and family, to give each other enough sense of trust and security.
The above three behaviors seem harmless, but they are actually sharp blades that hurt women. I hope that every man can guard the woman he chose to enter into marriage in the first place.