The flowers and flowers are unintentional, only the truth remains in the heart
The first time you go to your boyfriend's house, should you live with your boyfriend? I believe that the vast majority of people have one answer: no.
When Xiaoyuan went to her boyfriend's house for the first time, due to some delays, she had to live in her boyfriend's house at night, but her mother-in-law cleaned up a house, so Xiaoyuan was very embarrassed, and she had to say to her mother-in-law more gently: Auntie, do you have extra rooms in your home?
But the mother-in-law said: There is only this room in the house, and there is no spare.
At this time, Xiaoyuan turned her eyes to her boyfriend for help, but the boyfriend pretended not to see it. In an instant, Xiaoyuan had a number in her heart, and her mother-in-law wanted to let herself live with her boyfriend and save some bride price. But where Xiaoyuan is willing to suffer losses, in the end, because of the act of the mother-in-law, she broke up with her boyfriend and ruined a beautiful marriage in vain.
01 The first time I went to my boyfriend's house and chose to stay overnight
Xiaoyuan and her boyfriend have been in love for several years, and finally reached the point of talking about marriage, according to local customs, the parents of both sides need to meet each other before the girl can visit the man's home.
Of course, when meeting, the parents of the two sides talked more about the issue of the bride price, jointly discussed a number, and waited until the man's family agreed to it, and then discussed the next marriage.
After Xiaoyuan met with her boyfriend's parents, Xiaoyuan's parents put forward a bride price request, and the man's family did not refuse, which was considered to be a promise, so next, wait until the boyfriend went to Xiaoyuan's house, let Xiaoyuan's uncle and uncle see it, and then go to Xiaoyuan's boyfriend's home.
In fact, from the very beginning, Xiaoyuan's parents said to Xiaoyuan that this bride price is just a number that tests the sincerity of the boyfriend's family, and when Xiaoyuan gets married, she will let Xiaoyuan bring her back to her in-laws' house unchanged, and will also accompany the dowry, when Xiaoyuan sees that her parents are so understanding, she can't help but be very moved.
But Xiaoyuan did not tell her boyfriend about this matter, because she also wanted to test how much her boyfriend valued herself.
Xiaoyuan specially took the noon time to go to the boyfriend's home, of course, Xiaoyuan arrived at the boyfriend's home, naturally by the boyfriend's family warm welcome, when Xiaoyuan had lunch at the boyfriend's home, originally thought of leaving, but did not expect to be pulled by the future mother-in-law to go shopping in the afternoon, so that a visit to the evening, to the meal, the boyfriend family let Xiaoyuan eat dinner and then go back, Xiaoyuan thought that this is the future mother-in-law's home, she agreed to come down.
However, after dinner is already very late, if Xiaoyuan wants to go home, the road must not be safe, at this time the mother-in-law advised on the side: Xiaoyuan, this is your home after this, you see outside is too late, don't leave tonight.
Xiaoyuan agreed after a short period of consideration, and after hearing Xiaoyuan's consent, the mother-in-law was very happy, turned around and went to clean up the room, while Xiaoyuan and her boyfriend sat on the sofa in the living room and chatted.
02 was placed in the same room to rest
After a while, the mother-in-law cleaned up the room, and asked Xiaoyuan to go to rest, and when Xiaoyuan arrived at the room, there were two pillows on the bed, and a set of double quilts, the meaning of the mother-in-law was already obvious, she wanted to let herself and her boyfriend rest together.
However, after all, it is a girl who has not passed the door, before getting married, going to the future in-laws' house for the night is already a very small number, and she also has to rest in the same room as her boyfriend, which is how Xiaoyuan can't accept it. In desperation, she could only look at her boyfriend for help, but the boyfriend had obviously found Xiaoyuan's help but chose to turn a blind eye and twisted his head to the side.
Suddenly, Xiaoyuan clearly understood her boyfriend's thoughts.
In desperation, she could only tell the truth to her mother-in-law, saying that she could not live in the same room with her boyfriend to rest, and asked her mother-in-law if she had any extra room.
However, the mother-in-law's next words made Xiaoyuan stunned on the spot: there was only this room.
That night, finally at Xiaoyuan's insistence, the boyfriend slept on the sofa and slept through the room cleaned up by the mother-in-law.
03 finally chose to break up
Xiaoyuan is not stupid, she clearly understands the meaning of the mother-in-law, nothing more than to save some bride price, once she chooses to rest in a room with her boyfriend, not to mention whether she will be looked down upon by her boyfriend's family in the future, at least her current status in the heart of her boyfriend's family will be greatly reduced, and it is not possible that the mother-in-law will deliberately reduce the bride price for this reason.
The boyfriend's attitude also made Xiaoyuan feel cold, obviously the boyfriend knew in advance and acquiesced to the mother-in-law's approach.
After experiencing this incident, Xiaoyuan recognized the true face of her boyfriend's family, and she did not want to fall into the depths of life in the future, so she proposed to her boyfriend to break up after leaving her boyfriend's house.
And the future mother-in-law can not think of it in any way, because she uses "no extra room" as a reason to let the future daughter-in-law and her son rest together, hoping to reduce some dowry, but in the end it ruined this beautiful marriage, and her heart is also extremely regretful.
Conclusion: In fact, as a mother-in-law-to-be, in the face of the arrival of the future daughter-in-law, we must think twice about anything, do everything according to our ability, and sometimes even change the impression of the future daughter-in-law on the family because of one of her own actions.