"You raise me small, I accompany you old", how many people's good wishes, but in fact, parents raise their children, and how many children can really accompany their parents? More often, it is the parents at this end, the children at that end, looking at each other from afar, holding their stomachs.
Many people feel that it is unreliable to adopt a daughter, because if a daughter marries far away, it is equivalent to being born in vain, but will the son be able to accompany his parents? The answer is also no, the son grows up to have his own job, his own family, whether he can accompany his parents is also an unknown.
"Children travel thousands of miles mother worry", behind every long-distance wanderer, there are parents worried eyes, watching the child's gradually distant back, the heart is like being hollowed out, but can not show loss, but also have to force a smile, only when the child goes far, can silently cry.
On February 11, in Zhangzhou, Fujian Province, a mother watched her son's family go out to work, hiding in a corner and secretly crying. The daughter-in-law said they worked in Xinjiang, 3,000 kilometers away, and could only be reunited once a year.
According to the daughter-in-law, her husband is a native of Fujian, and after working in Xinjiang and knowing her, she settled in Xinjiang. In fact, men are the same, where the work is, where the lover is, where the home is.
Because the work is busy, because it is too far from the parents' home, so it can only go back to the hometown at the end of the year to reunite, and every time they come back, the parents are happy and smiling, and every time they leave, the parents are very lost, and the mother even can't help but secretly cry.
According to the daughter-in-law, the mother-in-law is a person who has worked for her children all her life, and all her focus is on the family and her children. Every time I go home for the New Year, my mother-in-law is very happy and makes them all kinds of delicious food, afraid that they will be frozen and hungry.
This time home for the New Year, stayed for more than twenty days, the in-laws were busy making food for them every day, taking their granddaughters to the village to walk around, and everyone introduced that this was their granddaughter who had returned from Xinjiang, and the old man enjoyed the joy of heaven.
At the end of the year, the family will return to Xinjiang again. A few days before leaving home, the mother-in-law seemed to be thinking about tea and dinner, doing things in a daze, and looking confused. In fact, every time I leave home, my mother-in-law is like this.
This time, when the son's family started the car to leave, the mother turned around and hid in the corner of the wall and secretly cried. She knew that this was another long year, and the number of times they saw their son for the rest of their lives was also countless.
Netizens watched, but also tears, thinking of their own fathers, thinking that they could not accompany their parents, feeling empathy.
Some netizens said: No matter how old the child grows, in the eyes of parents, it will always be a child, and there will always be a concern.
Some netizens said: If you can, or often go home to see your parents, parents are old, the heart is also very lonely and helpless, I hope that my children will accompany me.
Some netizens believe that "parents are here, not far away", you can find a job near home, do not need too high income, as long as you can accompany the elderly and children.
In this world, the most precious affection is the affection between parents and children, parents bring their children into this world, give them selfless love, pay for them without complaint, and only hope that their children can be happy.
As children, we must accompany our parents as much as possible, parents are old, their health is not good, they need to take care of, they need a sense of security, and they need the company of their children. But when parents are old, it is inevitable that there will be nagging, and children must learn to be tolerant.
The best way to get along is not to live together when your parents are healthy and able to take care of themselves, you just need to live not far away to see at any time, parents need to take care of the obligation, this kind of companionship is the best.
May every parent be treated tenderly by the world, may time be slower, do not let parents grow old so quickly, and may every child be filial piety in front of their parents.