About when the child can walk, can talk, most parents are very concerned, the child's first step out, the first sentence spoken, always can make parents have mixed feelings. However, each child's growth environment is different and their development is also different, resulting in very different times of walking and talking, especially when children can talk. Generally speaking, children can make their parents' voices sound in a few months, learn to call people at the age of one, and there is not much pressure to communicate with adults at one and a half years old, but this is just a reference data.
Some children may be the reason why parents do not guide them, resulting in children who cannot speak at the age of one and a half, and even around the age of two will call their parents and talk, so it is possible to speak sooner or later. As for why children talk later than children of the same age, in fact, it has a lot to do with their parents' guidance skills, and Ah Yan's daughter is a very typical example. Ah Yan and his wife are nine to six migrant workers, due to the mother-in-law's poor health, the child was born with their own, in the child half a year old hired a nanny to take care of the child, they began to busy their careers, earn money to support the family.
Because they are not at ease, Ah Yan and his wife also installed a small monitor at home, and from the monitoring, it can be seen that the nanny is very attentive to the child, as long as the child has every request. But there is a point that makes Ah Yan and his wife very distressed, the girlfriend's child can communicate with adults very normally at the age of one year, and can also recite some simple Tang poems, but her daughter is more than two years old, or just call mom and dad, the call is not clear, let her once doubt whether the child's vocal cords are problematic, and took the child to the hospital for examination. However, the doctor told her that there was nothing wrong with her child's vocal cords, but usually parents rarely guided her, so that the child could speak later than the average child.
Then the doctor taught Ah Yan some skills that allowed the children to speak smoothly, and sure enough, after only two or three months, Ah Yan's daughter had a great improvement in language expression, which made Ah Yan and his wife surprised and happy. Therefore, these guidance skills that the doctor told Ah Yan are very helpful for the child to speak smoothly, and they are worth collecting!
1. Have your child speak up about what they need
Most children have a habit of using "sign language" to communicate with their parents when they are not yet able to speak, to express their needs. And parents are also very good, as long as it is their children's sign language, basically as long as they can know what the child wants, they are used to as long as the child has needs, parents will help the child achieve it in time. Originally, there was nothing wrong with doing so, but it was precisely because parents always unconditionally met the needs of their children that they could achieve their goals without speaking, and over time, they would naturally not take the initiative to speak.
Therefore, parents should not overconsiderate their children's needs, so that children have the opportunity to express their needs in words. Even if you speak crookedly, it doesn't matter, but you must encourage your child to open your mouth, so that your child can learn to speak earlier.
2. Talk to your child more
The cultivation of language ability is condensed by dialogue again and again, but some family compositions may be more complicated, the father is a northerner, the mother is a southerner, and the communication process may use Mandarin. However, whether it is a father or a mother, as long as they talk to their children alone, they may talk to their children in their own hometown dialect. For children, it is undoubtedly more difficult to understand, even if they do not understand, they do not know which one to choose if they want to learn, and naturally let the child want to open his mouth and cannot speak.
Therefore, parents should talk to their children in the same language and speak to their children in a tone that the child can understand, such as "It's time for us to eat!" When the child is bathing, ask the child where some of the body parts are, such as "Where are the eyes?" Where are the eyebrows? Where are the hands? Where are the feet? "This not only makes it easy for children to understand, but also allows children to have a certain understanding of their own body parts, like this kind of scene dialogue, which can help children speak well."
3. Start with simplicity
Generally speaking, the child's desire to speak is in 9 to 12 months, the language sensitivity period is 1 to 2 years old, and the outbreak period is 2 to 3 years old. When the child is in 9 to 12 months, parents can use simple overlapping words to teach the child to speak, such as father, mother, meal, bath, sleep, so that the child can better understand. When the child is 1 to 2 years old, you can say some simple words to the child, which can be obvious things or situational dialogue. When the child is 2 to 3 years old, he can communicate with the child normally and say some relatively simple sentences.
Like this step by step, for children, is a good way to help children how to speak, how to dialogue, naturally will not appear with Ah Yan's daughter, are already two years old or will only call mom and dad, it can be seen that parents have the right guidance skills, the help of children to speak is crucial.
Do not think that it is only a matter of time before you open your mouth, even if the child is more than two years old and cannot speak, he does not pay attention to it, in fact, the child's language ability is related to the healthy growth of the child, and it is also crucial for the child's intellectual development. Children with good language organization skills, most of them have good thinking and logic, are very smart, and will not be like those who have reached the age of speaking, but they are slow to pronounce, and they cannot better express their needs. However, it is also important to note that if the child speaks too late and the pronunciation is not standard enough, it may be because of some physiological problems, then take it to the hospital to see oh!