There are often parents who complain that their children can't learn well, and bad ones don't have to be taught, and they learn all at once. I believe that many parents also have such difficulties.
Go to school, there are teachers responsible for teaching, children from the psychological positioning also know, go to school is to learn, not to play, after all, the school's specific atmosphere environment is placed there, children will follow the unnatural into the learning, but at home how to better guide the education of children.
For the problems that exist in the child, most parents can endure once or twice not to get angry, but if the same mistake occurs again and again, there will be two results, one is that the parents are eager to solve the problem for the child, and the other is to give up the "treatment" of the child. All in all, neither way can solve the problems of children.
In the process of children's education, parents need to learn to observe their children, and when the child's state is better, use unintentional ways to give children some purposeful education.
To put it simply, when walking with children, seeing sanitation workers cleaning hard, parents can tell their children at this moment that sanitation workers are very hard, they must pay attention to hygiene, do not litter, and if they litter at home, parents will become sanitation workers, which is also very hard.
Although it seems simple, but at the moment the child's heart is in an open state, parents use unintentional ways to express some educational content, the child can absorb it, although it is not expressed in time, but this educational content is easy for children to absorb. Over time, naturally, habits have also formed.
Maybe too many parents in the education of children, more accustomed to the child to tell the big truth, this is actually tantamount to the child to talk about space physics, listening to it is reasonable, but always can not understand the specific, it is better to let the child touch the kettle, let the child know that this thing will be hot, can not touch the real.
In the process of real education, it has been found that many parents are used to calling their children aside when their children have problems, and educating their children like negotiations, in fact, at this moment, it is more criticism and blame, and for the problems that arise, they are ignored. In this case, the child's heart is extremely nervous, and more attention is paid to whether it will be cleaned up, so that the words spoken by the parents are almost inedible.
To educate children, we need to seize the usual, grasp the child's heart, and even more to seize every moment with the child. The reason why parents need to accompany their children more in the process of their children's growth is not to say that they can give their children any material things, but more importantly, in this process, they will give their children some education and guidance, starting from the little things around them, and educate their children with one image, visible and tangible things, so that children can understand and open their hearts to accept and learn.
It is not that the child is not smart, nor is it that the parents are not careful enough, but there is a problem in the way of educating and guiding the child. I always want to give the best to the child, but I ignore whether the child can digest and accept it.
Good family education, never a standardized and unified text, parents need to grope and try according to the child's situation, and finally pass it on to the child in an effective and pleasant way.