From fear, crying to illness and going to kindergarten, I will guide my daughter's method and share it with you
I don't know if you parents and friends have encountered children crying and not willing to go to kindergarten, like my daughter Youniu on the first day of kindergarten is fine, but fresh and energetic, every morning in the room do not want to go out, it is difficult to coax her to the kindergarten door, suddenly crying heartbreaking, mother's heart is really helpless and uncomfortable.
In fact, it is understandable that children are reluctant to go to kindergarten, after all, it is a "strange" world, and children who have lived under the care of their parents and elders since childhood are very nervous and afraid to go to kindergarten, and it is inevitable that there will be resistance.
However, as a dedicated mother, I have my own skills, and my daughter is under my "tuning", from crying when she goes to kindergarten to getting sick later, I am clamoring to go to school, I only use these methods. Here, too, I would like to share my experience with you.
1. Communicate with your child's teacher
In the matter that children are not willing to go to school, many parents will default to the mistake of their own education methods, embarrassed to communicate with the teachers of the school, after all, many other children are very well-behaved, why do their children always cry?
So many parents will start to search for a variety of strategies, began to "train" the child, but we must not forget that once the child is sent to the kindergarten, the kindergarten teacher and we are a cooperative partnership, so found that the child is not willing to go to kindergarten, the first thing to reflect the situation to the teacher, and ask the child what happened in the kindergarten, let the teacher actively pay attention to the child's emotions.
Because after the child goes to kindergarten, the teacher spends much longer with the child than us at the end of the day, so we must establish effective communication with the teacher, treat the teacher as their friend, and many problems will naturally be solved.
2. Teach your child to express his or her needs
Kindergarten is a small family, but there are dozens of children, the teacher can not cope with it, it is impossible to be like us at home, always can focus on their own children, so we must teach children to express their needs to the teacher.
Like my daughter once cried and didn't go to school because she accidentally wet her pants when she went to the toilet, and the children at school laughed at her behind her back, but the teacher didn't find out quickly.
Fortunately, I later took my child to read the "I Love Kindergarten" series of picture books, and guided my daughter according to the method in the chapter "Teacher, I Want to Go to the Toilet", so that she learned to "ask the teacher for help" when she was in trouble.
The child said that there must be a reason why he did not want to go to kindergarten, and if it was because of such a thing as "trouble", the child's heart must also be blaming himself.
If parents blindly "reprimand" their children at this time, educate them how good and how important they are to learn, such criticism can not convince the child, at this time we must guide the child to say their own needs, and teach them how to solve.
3. Carry out the child's psychological construction in advance
Children go to kindergarten for the first time must have "separation anxiety", not only children, in fact, many parents also have, I believe that everyone hears the child's crying when they are separated from their children, and their hearts are also like a knife cut.
Children go to school, parents are actually more worried about things, like the children mentioned above crying and not going to school, who will not worry about whether the child is not having a good time in school? Is it that you can't get along with other children? Or did you have enough to eat at school?
Parents will always break their hearts for their children, but fortunately, there is a picture book of "I Love Kindergarten", according to the content of the book, I will carry out psychological construction of my daughter step by step, and exercise my daughter's self-care ability, expression ability and social skills.
The following is to introduce you to this set of functional picture books, which mentioned that my daughter wet her pants and did not want to go to school, and the chapter "Teacher, I want to go to the toilet" in this set of picture books just helped me solve my problem.
So how children make friends in kindergarten, this set of picture books in "You are my good friend" also tells, it can teach children how to integrate into the group, through the book interesting stories to teach children to communicate awareness and social skills.
And "It's Time to Get Out of School!" Who's going to pick me up? It is also the correct way to educate parents and children, should the child pick up early or late? You may not know that the different measures you make will greatly affect the child's personality, how to make the child more confident? This chapter will make it clear to parents.
If your baby is in the kindergarten period, it is recommended that you read this book with your child, and even you can replace the protagonist in the book with your child's name, so that the effect of telling the story will be better.
Once you have children, the life of the family will change dramatically, and life may be relatively poor, but everything can be saved, only the cost of children's education cannot be saved. Like this set of "I Love Kindergarten" series of picture books, although it is worth a set of money spent on dinner with friends, its actual value is infinite! If you want your children to fall in love with learning, be more sensible and confident, you must take a look!