Recently, a friend shared with me that her four-year-old son was afraid to go to the toilet in kindergarten and had to pee his pants.
When I first heard it, I thought it was very strange and incredible, but then I thought about it, when I went to the kindergarten to go to the toilet when I was a child, when I saw many classmates around me, I was so nervous that I couldn't go to the toilet, which was actually very common, and many young children were very resistant to going to the toilet in an unfamiliar environment.
In the mouth of a friend I learned the whole thing, one day after school my mother went to pick up my brothers from school, walked to the middle of the road, the younger son said he wanted to go to the toilet, the friend listened to it and quickly took him home, but still did not catch up, on the way peed a pants. When the brother saw the situation, he accused his brother of the teacher at school who told him not to go to the toilet, but after school he soiled his pants, and the younger brother, who was already ashamed, listened to his brother's accusations and was even more sad to cry.
After returning home, the mother cleaned up the young son, called the two children in front of him, asked about the feelings of today's kindergarten, and asked why the younger son did not go to the toilet, the younger son replied: The reason why he did not dare to go to the toilet was because he felt that the kindergarten toilet was completely different from the family, and there were many people, and he would be embarrassed.
The reason why children dare not go to the toilet and dare not play with others is because they lack expression ability, lack self-confidence, and feel embarrassed, so friends gently hug their sons and say that they will help him solve the problem.
After that, friends did it, and the key to solving these problems is to correctly guide them to learn to express themselves. When the child expresses that he does not dare to do anything, do not hit, should encourage him, be bold and social, do not be afraid.
Just like this "I Love Kindergarten" series of picture books expressed, teach children not to be sensitive and inferior, do not have to be afraid, this set of picture books includes "Teacher, I want to go to the toilet", "You are my good friend", "After school!" Who will pick me up", "Mom, I want to go to kindergarten", "Eat more, grow up", "I'm the best in kindergarten" and other 6 themes. It can solve the problems of children in this grade in an all-round way, so that children can spend every day more sunny.
In the "Teacher, I want to go to the toilet" this album, it is a good expression of how children dare not go to the toilet how to solve, the use of the way of storytelling in the album, can better attract the attention of children, let the child into the understanding, the protagonist of the album Tong Tong, because do not dare to go to the toilet in the kindergarten, can only hold urine, once really can not hold back, just pluck up the courage to say to the teacher "teacher, I want to go to the toilet", after saying it, the child feels much better, the original brave is not so terrible.
According to the friend, after reading the child's story, the younger son became no longer ashamed and dared to express his will to others, and even the brother realized very well that it was wrong to blame the younger brother, took the initiative to apologize to the younger brother, and saw the change of the two brothers, which made the friend very pleased.
Moreover, in this set of albums, whether it is not a lunch break, or picky eating and other issues, have been well solved, "I Love Kindergarten" series of picture books, the stories in which are real events, is many children do not know how to express the awkward emotions, this set of albums can be clearly restored, and give solutions.
As a parent, we are very worried that the child will not adapt in the kindergarten, instead of asking the child, it is better to watch this set of "I Love Kindergarten" with the child, it can bring the right guidance to the child, let the child actively face the kindergarten life, fall in love with the kindergarten!