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During the New Year's visit to relatives and friends, the Easter egg father found that many children have not yet reached the age of kindergarten, but the family wants to send the baby to the kindergarten to go to the transition small class.
Those who are not ready to send are also gradually being "lobbied", which has the meaning of "sorry for the baby if you don't give the baby a small class".
Why are people now so keen on small classes?
The small class of kindergarten transition really has so many benefits for babies?
For full-time mothers, if the baby goes to a small class, then she will finally be liberated;
For the elderly, after passing the age of their children, they begin to be better educated than their grandchildren, and they want their grandchildren to receive a better education;
For children, everyone agrees that children can improve their self-care ability and communication ability in a small class, and then officially go to kindergarten and can be more adaptable.
In this way, the baby goes to a small class, and the benefits seem to be really many. But parents, have you found that you seem to be taken to the "ditch"?
Kindergarten transition small class, 3 types of babies must not go
The official age of kindergarten, why is it three years old, have parents ever thought about it?
3-year-old children, have a certain degree of self-care ability;
3-year-old children, able to communicate normally with adults;
3-year-old children, who begin to want to be independent;
3-year-olds, no longer completely self-centered...
From the perspective of child development, 3 years old is like a watershed, so letting children go to small classes in advance is really not adapting in advance, but interrupting the development of children who should have and should have.
The benefits of a small class for the baby are really not so much.
Therefore, according to the development law of 3-year-old children, there are 3 types of children, and they must not be sent to small classes.
The first: babies who are particularly clingy to their parents
Before the age of 3, it is the period of attachment of the baby to the parents, especially the mother. At this stage, the thing that the baby is most afraid of is to be separated from the mother, which will produce separation anxiety.
But 3 years old, just a rough limit, some babies will have a particularly long attachment period.
For those babies who are very clingy to their mothers, it is not recommended to send children to small classes. Because in the small class, the baby is not only separated from the mother, but also exposed to a completely unfamiliar environment, which will greatly damage the baby's sense of security, and the separation anxiety period is particularly difficult.
The second type: a baby with a poor physique
Children are particularly susceptible to illness since they enter kindergarten.
First, because the environment is complex and prone to cross-infection;
Second, because the baby's cold and warm care is not so meticulous, it is easy to catch a cold;
The third is to enter a new environment, and the baby's anxiety makes the physique worse.
When a child is sick, the most distressed person is the parent. It is not an exaggeration to say that the Easter egg father is a relative's child, the physique is not good, must go to a small class, and then a semester of 4 months, in school time is not more than 1 month.
The child's physique will gradually increase with age, so babies with poor physique and easy to get sick are really not in a hurry to go to the small class.
The third type: babies with poor self-care ability
Today's family, the care of the baby, is really the "nanny" level, feeding, chasing, helping to dress and undress, etc., are very common. After entering kindergarten, children have to complete themselves.
A class, dozens of children, but only a few teachers, not to mention whether the teacher is meticulous, just say so many children, the teacher wants to take care of the complete, but also has a weak heart.
Therefore, babies with poor self-care ability, entering a small class, it is difficult to take care of themselves, and they are prone to various situations such as peeing pants and getting cold, not eating enough, not taking off clothes and sleeping.
Instead of giving their children a small class, parents may wish to do these 4 things well
Really from the perspective of children's development and kindergarten learning and life, parents should not pin their hopes on the small class, but before the baby officially enters the kindergarten, do these 4 things, more realistic!
First thing: Let your baby "do his own thing"
Doing your own thing is to cultivate your baby's self-care ability. After entering the kindergarten, children with strong self-care ability are very popular with teachers, and they will also make children more confident, because children feel that they will have more things!
If you want to do this, you must communicate well with all the staff in the family, return the opportunity to dress and wear shoes, and give the child back, and when the child takes care of himself, he needs the coordination of various parts such as the hand, eye and brain, which is also good for the development of the child's brain.
The second thing: pay attention to diet, sleep, dress, etc., to improve physical fitness
It is undeniable that some babies are born with a poor physique. However, the vast majority of children can improve their physical fitness through careful care of the day after tomorrow.
Diet: nutritional balance, three meals a day fixed point ration, healthy snacks, do not feed;
Sleep: Go to bed early and get up early, give the baby a comfortable sleeping environment, and improve the quality of sleep;
Dressing: do not cover, do not freeze, just right, is to do a good job, guide children to learn to express hot and cold;
Exercise: Ensure a certain amount of exercise every day, especially when the weather is good, and often carry out outdoor exercise.
The improvement of children's physique is not achieved overnight, but accumulated over time.
The third thing: the "psychological preparation" before entering the kindergarten needs to be done
For children, kindergarten is the first social group they come into contact with, at this time, what they need to go through is the psychological stage, which is "separation anxiety".
In order to successfully survive the separation anxiety, Easter Egg's father highly recommended the "I Love Kindergarten" series picture books that Easter Eggs read at that time.
"I Love Kindergarten" has a total of 6 books, which are 6 themes: "I am the best in kindergarten", "You are my good friend", "Eat more, grow up", "Teacher, I want to go to the toilet", "Mom, I want to go to kindergarten", "After school, who will pick me up".
Each picture book is through the form of stories, scenes, etc., so that the baby is "immersive" and more acceptable.
The reason why these 6 themes can alleviate a large part of the child's separation anxiety is mainly because of the content in the picture book, so that the baby can understand the kindergarten life in advance, so as to eliminate the fear of entering the kindergarten, and can read faster to adapt to the life of the kindergarten.
In addition, the "I Love Kindergarten" series of picture books also cultivates the baby's emotional intelligence, which is conducive to the baby's getting along with teachers and classmates after entering the kindergarten.
If you have children who are about to enter the kindergarten, then this set of picture books may be of great help to parents!
Of course, in addition to the picture book "I Love Kindergarten", parents can also help their babies to overcome separation anxiety and fall in love with kindergartens as soon as possible by taking their babies to visit kindergartens and experience kindergarten life.
The fourth thing: take your baby more "contact with the crowd"
The main purpose of "contacting the crowd" with the baby is to make the baby become "bold", dare to play with strange children, and dare to explore new environments.
The more times this happens, the easier it will be for the baby to adapt to the new life in the kindergarten in the future.
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Of course, for extroverted babies who are particularly eager to go to kindergarten and want to find children to play, it is not impossible to go to the small class in advance. Different children have different personalities, experiences, and lifestyles, and parents also need to respect their children.
For the baby, the best way for the baby to better adapt to the kindergarten and adapt to the society is not a small class, but the daily care, guidance, communication and so on of the parents.
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