in Chinese New Year's Eve 2012, a short video of "child abuse" exploded on the Internet.
The video content is:
A little boy who looked to be only three or four years old, wearing only a pair of underwear and a pair of sneakers, ran back and forth through the streets covered in thick snow.
Because it was too cold, he ran and wrapped his hands around his body, and his mouth kept shouting: "Mom, Mom, hug me." ”
His mother did not answer him, but his father said very firmly: "No hug, just run like this." ”
Seeing the netizens here, in the Chinese New Year's Eve night that should be joyful, they have been grumpy and leave messages:
"Is this your biological child?"
"How could there be such a cruel father as you?"
The words "child abuse" and "psychopathy" at the bottom of the message board are endless.
Some netizens even took out this "fierce" father, human flesh, and everyone found that he was a very famous and successful entrepreneur.
This makes the majority of netizens wonder very much, already have such a superior family situation, why should they be so harsh on their children?
This little boy who ran naked has now grown into a teenager, what has happened to his life in the past ten years? Now what?
The "fierce" father was named He Liesheng, who was a physics teacher in the early days.
After not doing long in the post of teaching and educating people, he felt very bored, uneasy about the status quo, he immediately chose to resign and join the large army of independent entrepreneurship after a serious consideration.
In his words: "I worked as a teacher for a year, except for a lot of gray hair, there was nothing, and Chinese-style education, which is completely different from my philosophy, is tantamount to adding to my own blockage." ”
Since then, He Liesheng has gone to the sea to do business with a rush, and has experienced many failures in the middle, not only spending all the savings in the family, but also owing a bunch of debts.
However, he did not submit to defeat, restrained himself with the strictest requirements, and finally successfully counterattacked, becoming a big entrepreneur who did everything himself.
He Liesheng, who has a successful career and is loving by husband and wife, at this time, his greatest wish is to have a cute child, so that his little family will be complete.
In 2007, the god of luck descended on the He family, and He Liesheng's wife became pregnant.
This news brought endless joy to the He family, and every day they look forward to seeing this hard-won child sooner.
Perhaps the heavens heard their call and really made a big joke about them, and the child came to report more than three months in advance, which made He Liesheng and his wife panic, and their hearts mentioned the throat eyes.
In February 2008, He Liesheng waited anxiously outside the hospital delivery room, watching his wife in the delivery room for a long time, he was really uncomfortable, and he kept walking around the door with his hands in hand.
Little by little, the time passed, the delivery room door finally opened, and He Liesheng quickly ran forward to inquire about the doctor's wife and children.
The doctor looked at him sweating profusely, sighed, and told him: "Pregnant women are safe, but because the child was born prematurely, accompanied by four major cardio-cerebral diseases, it is very likely that he will have cerebral palsy." ”
The news was like a thunderbolt on a sunny day, He Liesheng was silent for a while, did not speak for a long time, and watched the doctor send his child to the intensive care unit and return to his wife.
This year's He Liesheng is more than forty years old, it is not easy to have a child in middle age, he comforted his wife to recuperate, and he will definitely do his best to treat and love the child.
The two men also set the name of their son together: He Yide, nickname: Duoduo.
After comforting his wife, He Liesheng went to the doctor at the first time and asked about his son's specific situation.
The doctor took out Duoduo's birth report and said: "It says that the child is a left ventricular hemorrhage, low brain protein density, cerebral edema, hemangioma and other symptoms, we are not completely sure to cure this child, at present can only take conservative treatment." ”
After listening to the doctor, He Liesheng felt pain in his heart, and after he asked the doctor to do his best to save his child, he wandered in the corridor of the hospital and looked into the intensive care unit from time to time.
The son in the intensive care unit, with tubes all over his body, with instruments tied to his hands and feet to detect physical indicators, and received purple light, is undoubtedly very cruel for a newborn baby.
Looking at his son's look of such pain, He Liesheng's eyes became moist.
As a premature baby, the first two months are the most dangerous time, during these two months, the doctor and He Liesheng always observed a lot of situations, fortunately, it was safe.
After his condition stabilized, Duoduo could finally go home, but the doctor still told He Liesheng: "Although the child is temporarily out of danger, he will often get sick in the future, and the probability of complete intelligence is not very large, and it cannot be taken lightly." ”
"Rest assured, Doctor, I know all this." After He Liesheng thanked him, he returned home with his wife and children.
Back at home, He Liesheng spent ten days looking for information on how infants and young children exercise correctly, and accidentally saw a book that read: Swimming can enhance children's resistance.
Therefore, after ten days of arriving home, He Liesheng put on a swimming ring by his father He Liesheng and put it in the bathtub for swimming training, and Duoduo, who had just entered the water, was frozen by the water temperature of only about 25 degrees, and his facial features were twisted together, looking very painful.
But He Liesheng still soaked his son in water for a whole hour.
In exchange for this, the son kept diarrhea and cried uncomfortably all night.
Hearing his son crying heart-rending, how to coax is not good, the wife tears, has been complaining that He Liesheng is too cruel to the child, no matter how unwilling to let the child receive such inhuman training.
He Liesheng said that he still could not let his wife relax, and finally, he agreed with his wife that after a week, if Duoduo still rejected swimming like this, he would not be reluctant anymore.
On the sixth day, the water actually laughed happily, and the two little feet were still fluttering and playing in the water, which made He Liesheng's confidence increase greatly, and he was very happy, thinking that his training method for his son was still very feasible.
Since then, the carefully planned training for his son has officially begun, and he has also given his plan a very loud name, "Eagle Education".
What time of day to get up, what the child eats, drinks, and even what time to defecate, he has to make a schedule.
When the child was slightly older, a few months later, he began to deliberately push down his son, practice crawling, crying in front of his son, he did not allow anyone around him to help, and he must let his son climb up on his own.
When Toto was less than three years old, he had already trained his son to walk up to three kilometers, no matter how difficult it was, he must let the child persevere to the end, but he would also lead by example and accompany the child.
Of course, in addition to physical exercise, the brain power is even more than enough.
In order to develop his son's brain, he gradually increased the number of learning times, in addition to massage and swimming, including picture recognition, word reading, and color discrimination.
Can you imagine that a child less than three years old already knows more than 3,000 Chinese characters?
When Duoduo was three years old, He Liesheng decided to go to the United States and send Duoduo to the Flushing Rainbow Kindergarten in New York, USA.
In kindergarten, Toto's performance exceeded the standard of small classes, and the intelligence test had reached the level of first-grade children, which made american kindergarten teachers praise one after another.
The birthdays of children from other wealthy families are all bright and lively, but in order to celebrate the upcoming birthdays to Duoduo, He Liesheng actually took him to New York University in the United States for a visit, walking and visiting the university for 3 days, a journey of nearly 100 kilometers.
During this period, Duo duo was too tired and clamored for his father to hold him, but He Liesheng only let him sit down and rest for a while, and then continued to walk.
This year Chinese New Year's Eve, He Liesheng and his wife took Duoduo to wander the streets of Flushing, looking for the smell of the New Year.
He suddenly pulled Dodo to his side and said, "Daddy, play a game with you, and see how long you can hold out." ”
"Okay, good, good." Hearing that he wanted to play a game, Toto was naturally very happy.
With that, he took off Toto's clothes, leaving behind only a small pair of panties and a pair of sneakers.
In New York this year, there was a lot of snow, and the snow piled up was enough to pass an adult's ankle and creak when stepped on.
He Liesheng told Duoduo, who was only 4 years old: "Dad and you compete to see who runs to the opposite stone pillar first, if Duoduo wins, today's taekwondo lesson can be reduced by half an hour." ”
When Dodo heard this, he cried out loudly, "Yeah, okay. ”
However, in the blizzard weather of minus 13 degrees, the young Duoduo was frozen and shivering, and soon his body was frozen red.
Duo Duo shouted to He Liesheng, "Daddy, Daddy, I don't want to play." ”
"Come on, a lot." Seeing that his father did not agree, he cried to his mother, "Mom, hug." ”
However, at the suggestion of his father He Liesheng, his mother did not help him.
He Liesheng encouraged Duoduo while recording the video: "Run hard, don't stop, Daddy will give you strength." ”
Because he was very confident in his parenting style, this video was personally uploaded to the Internet by himself, and he did not expect that his "eagle education" had attracted a lot of reprimands.
But he didn't care, he thought he was saving his son, but slowly, his mentality also changed slightly, from wanting his son to recover his health gradually changed to hoping that his son could become a talent.
Under the personal creation of He Liesheng, Duoduo opened his own open life.
In the same year, Duoduo participated in the Qingdao International OP Class Regatta and climbed Mount Fuji in Japan in 15 hours.
At the age of 5, he won the 7th National Golden Pagoda Bead Mental Arithmetic Elite Competition. Accompanied by an instructor, a man operated a fixed-wing aircraft alone and flew over the Beijing Wildlife Park.
At the age of 6, he crossed Lop Nur with his father 3 times.
Lop Nur is known as the "Sea of Death" and many people have lost their lives here.
So as with running in the snow, the news spread, and many people questioned that He Liesheng was deliberately hyping up taking his son through Lop Nur to make fun of the child's life and a very irresponsible risk-taking.
However, He Liesheng said: "I am from an education background, and naturally I know what kind of education method is good for children." ”
But He Liesheng not only wants to make his child's physique stronger, but before his son is ten years old, sending him to a top university is the end of his first step plan.
In He Liesheng's heart, Tsinghua, Peking University, Cambridge, and Harvard are the places where his son should go.
This way of parenting, there are also some people who are in favor of it.
He contacted him and wanted him to help his children get on the "right path."
Slowly, the number of people increased, and He Liesheng thought why not directly set up a company and use the eagle education he founded to benefit more children?
Ben is a successful entrepreneur, the start-up capital is naturally not a problem, so He Liesheng said to do it, in 2016, he set up an education and training institution "Eagle Education" in the name of his son He Yide, so that his son became the largest shareholder, accounting for 60% of the shares.
There are still people who keep questioning that he is just putting on a show.
But He Liesheng believes: "If my education method can affect 10% of parents to be strict with their children and less doting, then my goal will be achieved." ”
Moreover, his son Duoduo was originally a child who was likely to become a child with cerebral palsy, under the training of He Liesheng, at the age of 11, he passed the self-examination and obtained a college degree from Nanjing University.
At the age of 12, he successfully obtained a bachelor's degree from Nanjing University.
Toto, 13, has completed an MBA from Wukang University in Spain.
Not long after, he became a phD student at the University of São Paulo in the Philippines.
It can be said that the learning progress of 13-year-old doctoral students has far exceeded the normal range of children in this age group, which is really enviable and worrying.
Under the guidance of He Liesheng, his son Duoduo's life seems to be arranged clearly, and his ultimate goal is to make his son an excellent entrepreneur as quickly as possible.
But growing up, Dodo had never eaten a hamburger, never drunk a Coke, or even tasted candy.
Only because father He Liesheng did not allow it.
Perhaps in terms of education, He Liesheng was very successful in his son's training, but when the child should have the happiness of an ordinary child, he was killed one by one in such high-intensity training.
I don't know if it is happy to have such an extraordinary life.
Author: Da Tang in the dream