"4-year-old boy running naked in the snow", when you see these eight words, do you feel frightened? Even think that this can only happen to fighting peoples or other countries? How can it happen to Chinese, who is known for "spoiling children"!
Didn't his parents care about him?
Are such parents incompetent?
I just don't deserve to be a parent!
This thing is not only incomprehensible, it is even incomprehensible!
He Yide running in the snow
Because in Chinese families, as long as the weather cools down, they are all in autumn clothes and pants, hats and gloves, and they are eager to wrap their children in quilts! How is it possible to make a 4-year-old boy run naked in the snow?
However, what is surprising is that this incident really happened to a Chinese father and son:
In 2012, a video went viral: a Chinese man forced his 4-year-old son to run naked in the snow, the little boy was frozen and shivering, but the father was still smiling and encouraging, but this smile made people look indignant.
But the father explained that he was conducting "eagle education":
In order to train the chicks, the eagle will directly throw the chicks off the cliff, so as to force the chicks to learn to fly freely.
This sounds like a little reasonable, but thinking about it carefully, can the child be compared with the eagle? In case something happens, what about you, the father?
So why did this father carry out an "eagle education" for such a young child that is difficult for ordinary people to accept? After 10 years, what happened to that child? Don't worry, let's look down together!
1. A child running naked in the snow
In February 2012, as soon as a video was uploaded, it exploded, and people consciously forwarded it while speaking in the comment area:
In the video, a boy who looks to be only three or four years old, wearing only a pair of yellow shorts, is running on the thick snow while shivering, although it can still be seen from across the screen that it is a very cold environment, and the little boy's face is blown red by the cold wind, and the whole person is trembling. Outside the picture, a Chinese man's voice came: "Run! Don't stop! ”
The boy in the video is named He Yide, nicknamed Duoduo, who just turned 4 years old in 2012, and the person who urged him to run outside the picture was his father, He Liesheng, who ran in New York, USA.
This makes people even more curious: Isn't child abuse forbidden in the United States? Haven't you heard that parents who physically punish their children may be punished? Why did He Liesheng force his 4-year-old child to run naked in the snow, and no one cared?
With the popularity of the video, it soon spread to the country, which directly fried the pot, and for a time the public opinion almost one-sidedly accused the father:
"Are you educating?" I see you're child abuse! Are you a biological father? ”
"Will you bring small children?" So the little children are too late to cover, you let the family run naked? ”
In the face of such remarks, He Liesheng did not pay attention at first, after all, so many netizens, can they take care of it?
However, as the remarks intensified, He Liesheng felt that it was still necessary to clarify it.
So in an interview, he told the story behind his "forcing his son to run naked.".
Eagle Daddy's heartache
Because the "naked running" video has attracted more and more people's attention, in order not to let too much speech disturb his life, He Liesheng decided to accept an interview to explain why he was so cruel and why he used a way that ordinary people could not understand to educate his son.
In the interview, He Liesheng admitted that if his son is an ordinary child, he will never bear to do this: children are the heart of their parents, and we feel painful when we look at the screen, not to mention his biological father?
So what is so special about He Yide that his father wants to be harshly educated in an almost "vicious" way?
It turned out that He Yide was a premature baby, only 7 months old at birth, accompanied by a variety of complications, facing cerebral palsy, and was born directly into the intensive care unit, until more than two months later, he was discharged from danger, but just when He Liesheng was ready to take his son out of the hospital, the doctor's words made him fall into the ice lake: "He Yide was born prematurely, congenitally insufficient, and now it is only temporarily out of danger, and in the future, his intelligence may not be as good as his peers, and he is certainly weak and sickly!" ”
Although the doctor said it very euphemistically, He Liesheng still heard the meaning of the words: "This child is not normal!" ”
However, he was only happy to love his son in his 40s, and he was really unwilling to face the doctor's words!
Why is it that his only son cannot be a normal person when he has a successful career? Besides, cerebral palsy is also cured! As long as you intervene early, there must be a way to cure it!
So he made up his mind, no matter what method he used, as long as he could make He Yide grow up healthily, he must try!
In fact, every parent is the same, and the most important thing is that the child can grow up healthy and strong.
Therefore, when learning that the child may be cerebral palsy, He Liesheng is actively looking for ways to improve cerebral palsy, through consulting various scientific publications, He Liesheng came to a conclusion: "Cerebral palsy can be improved by exercise, and cerebral palsy children need a lot of exercise!" ”
3. Crazy Daddy
When parents are facing their children's illness, once there is a folk remedy that can cure the disease, then their view must be "try it again!" ”
He Liesheng was the same, although he did not know that this conclusion he came to was unreliable, it was still immediately implemented on He Yide's body:
He took He Yide, who was born, and began to practice swimming for one hour a day.
Since then, He Yide, who wears a neck ring, has pedaled around in the constant temperature pool, and the cold and summer have never stopped! And every time he swims, He Liesheng is always watching with concern on the side, and he is also worried about whether his son can hold on, fortunately, his son has persevered in his father's ardent expectations!
Swimming alone is not enough, He Liesheng must also let his children's intelligence keep up with their peers, and even surpass their peers! So he began to teach He Yide, who was only 6 months old, to distinguish colors and read pictures.
If you change to an ordinary family, especially a family with an elderly person, you must have been dissuaded a long time ago, after all, the child is still so young, how can it be learned? Wouldn't it be useless to learn?
In fact, He Liesheng was also dissuaded in this way, but he insisted that the stupid bird must fly first! Once you can't learn it twice, if you can't do it twice, then three times, anyway, your son, what does it matter if you use it or not?
Unexpectedly, He Liesheng's efforts actually received a surprising reward: Duoduo, who was only 2 years old, could already know more than 3,000 Chinese characters! And this literacy level may not be achieved even for children in kindergarten!
2-year-old can read 3,000 words, which is a child with cerebral palsy?
This is clearly a prodigy!
Such results made He Liesheng more and more surprised, he felt that this was the effect of his training method, proving that sports are useful for his son!
Inspired, He Liesheng decided to continue to work hard, and he used his experience as a teacher for 7 years and the professional knowledge of graduating from a normal college to develop a series of training plans for his son and began to increase the amount of exercise for his children step by step.
So Duoduo's daily training, in addition to the previous pictures, literacy and swimming, was added to jogging 2 kilometers, rope swinging bridge, pulley/scooter/bicycle training, taekwondo, street dance and so on.
Let's not talk about others, just say this "jogging 2 kilometers a day" this, don't say 2 or 3-year-old children, that is, 20-year-old adults, how many can do it? And how many children can accept this way of education?
But education is really different from person to person, and everyone generally feels that the "eagle" education that cannot be accepted is particularly adaptable to many!
He not only strictly completed his father's training indicators, but also often followed his father to "walk around": he followed his father to try a journey of more than 10 kilometers a day for 10 consecutive days, and when he was in shanghai, he also followed his father to walk and visit in the World Expo Park for 3 days, with a trip of nearly 100 kilometers!
It can be said that when I was 2 years old, I walked more in a month than we adults walked in half a year!
It is under such high-intensity exercise that Duoduo's intelligence has indeed been rapidly improved:
When he was 3 years old, Duoduo followed his father to live in the United States, and when he was in kindergarten, Duoduo's intelligence evaluation actually reached the level of the first grade of primary school, which not only shocked the teachers in the United States, but also made He Liesheng finally breathe a sigh of relief: the child is not cerebral palsy!
At this time, the average family will naturally relax the training of children, after all, Duoduo was only 3 years old at that time! So under the high-intensity training, how much fun was his childhood? Of course, children must have a happy childhood!
But He Liesheng did not think so, he felt that since the child was acceptable before, then it was also possible after that, and the child was not a fish, and he knew the joy of the fish? Fast unhappy this thing, who dares to easily draw conclusions?
Who dares to say that the childhood he arranged for Duoduo is not the most suitable for his son?
Not to mention that the son's current intelligence and physical strength can completely keep up with his own rhythm, which means that it is OKAY, and then increase the intensity of training! Therefore, there must be a parent of God's logic behind the prodigy!
When he saw that his training was small and successful, he continued to arrange a full training schedule for Duoduo: cultural classes, chess, taekwondo, martial arts, sailing, anyway, he could think of training projects, all arranged for his son!
He also arranged for XiaoDuoduo to "visit the Golden Eagle Mall to learn", in his opinion, the sooner he cultivates children's business awareness, the better!
4, open and hanging life
It may be that you are used to it, or it may be that these courses are designed for him, so it is really interesting, anyway, more than face the training list handed over by dad, directly according to the order!
In this way, day after day, year after year, under the high-intensity training project that He Liesheng personally created for his son, Duoduo opened the "open and hanging life":
When you were 4 years old, one more person drove a sailboat on Taurus Lake, do you think it was just playing or posing? No, because in that year he also participated in the Qingdao International OP Regatta; it was also this year that he followed his father for 15 hours to climb the top of Fuji Mountain;
One winter of this year, in order to enhance the child's physique, He Liesheng began to take his son on a winter run in the snowy New York, running He Liesheng felt that the intensity was not enough, simply asked his son to take off his clothes and run naked, which gave birth to the "naked running" video that was talked about.
At the age of 5, Duoduo participated in unpaid blood donation for the first time, becoming the youngest volunteer of the Nanjing Red Cross Society, and in August of the same year, he won the championship of the 7th National Golden Pagoda Abacus Mental Arithmetic Elite Competition. And in this year he also set a Guinness World Record: he operated the plane independently at the age of 5 and flew over the Beijing Wild Animal Park twice in 35 minutes!
Look at what this child did at the age of 4 and 5, how many adults feel envious and jealous! Anyway, I grew up so big that I never even got into the cockpit of an airplane!
People say that "the hour is over, the big is not necessarily better", so how many flash effects are brought in childhood, how will it be when you grow up?
It is reported that because Duoduo's ability to receive education is too strong, he has skipped many grades in primary school, so he completed his primary school education at the age of 9.
This amazing result made He Liesheng feel that the child could completely teach himself, so he let Duoduo teach himself at home to receive a middle and high school education, and at the same time prepare for self-examination.
Since February 2017, Toto has begun to take the specialist self-examination. After two and a half years of hard work, he successfully obtained a specialist certificate and began to take the undergraduate examination on his own.
On December 19, 2021, 13-year-old He Yide received a doctoral acceptance letter from the University of São Paulo in the Philippines, becoming the youngest doctoral student in the history of the university.
Seeing this, many parents definitely want to give their children to He Liesheng for education, even if the moon flowers are tens of thousands!
He Liesheng saw this business opportunity and really opened Eagle Father Public School, but was soon stopped because he did not apply for a school license according to the regulations. Despite this, He Yide's successful education case is still talked about by people, in the words of netizens: "He Yide is a life that has been opened and hung up and multiplied!" ”
But is this kind of education really suitable for promotion? Is it really necessary for parents to push their children to eagle education because of the success of a He Yide? I don't agree with this for the following reasons:
Human development is a gradual process, and it is not right to go too fast or too slow.
At first glance, He Yide is really successful, and he has a number of glorious resumes at a young age, but it does not mean that other children can achieve such achievements in this way, they may have experienced too much pressure in a good childhood, but still do nothing.
We often say that some people spend their lives to heal their childhood, so will some people use their lives to make up for the happy childhood they have not experienced?
Is eagle education worthy of respect?
In fact, just looking at the introduction of eagle-style education, it is already difficult to accept, in the face of the eagle that cannot fly, throw it from the cliff with a fierce heart, if the eagle is born without wings, or the wings have not yet matured, is the consequences unimaginable?
Then refracted to our child, when his intelligence has not yet been fully developed, we have to forcibly develop intelligence, so the damaged brain cells are still small things, if the child has a sense of boredom, is it not worth the loss?
So is eagle education undesirable? Not really. Everything has both good and bad sides, and eagle education is no exception.
In eagle education, it is still very desirable to not coddle children, talk about rules, and exercise more, after all, in the face of future society, good psychological quality is very important!
In fact, no matter what kind of education, behind the parents' efforts and support for "Eagle Dad" to sacrifice their time, put all their efforts into their children, is he Yide can get the most important guarantee of "open and hanging life".
I believe that in the current society, choose a suitable way of education, let your children grow up healthy and happy, accompany the child as much as possible, listen to the child tell the little secrets in her heart, and guide the child in this way, even if there is no eagle education, I believe that the child can become a useful talent!
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