In Chinese New Year's Eve 2012, a video went viral on the Internet, showing a three-year-old boy named He Yide, who was in the cold winter moon, when the temperature was only minus 13 degrees, but he was wearing only a pair of yellow underwear, running in the snow shivering with cold.
He Yide ran and cried, and the poor child constantly begged his father to hug him, but the father who focused on shooting videos did not give the child the slightest response.
The way father He Liesheng educates his children quickly caused a hot discussion on the Internet.
While questioning He Liesheng, everyone sympathized with the boy who ran naked in this big winter and affectionately called him "Naked Running Brother".
In February 2008, He Liesheng was promoted to become a father, and for various reasons, he and his wife did not have children after marriage, so the arrival of this child made the 40-year-old happy.
But soon the doctor informed them that because the child was premature, the brain development was not yet perfect, and the brain loss was very serious, in other words, He Yide was a child with cerebral palsy.
He Liesheng, who had been a teacher before and was serving as a director of a company at the time, was obviously shocked by the news.
But he quickly made the decision to resign, because he was going to focus all his energy on the child, and at the age of 6 months, He Liesheng started his eagle education and was about to systematically rehabilitate him.
He Yide, who is less than one year old, does various physical exercises every day, even including swimming, taekwondo, etc., and does it for 8 hours.
After he had just learned to walk, he was taught by his father's eagle to hike every day, from the first few meters to the last 1 kilometer, and even climbed to the top of the 500-meter mountain by himself at the age of two.
He ran naked in the snow at the age of three, was asked by his father to drive a boat alone at the age of four, and flew over the Beijing Wildlife Park at the age of 5.
At the age of 7, accompanied by his father, he completed the crossing of Lop Nur .
While paying attention to physical training, He Liesheng attaches great importance to He Yide's education.
From kindergarten to primary school, He Yide took less than a month, and this was only the beginning of his skipping career.
After He Yide entered primary school, he was very disciplined in his study and rest, and under the strict requirements of his father, his every minute would not be wasted.
At the age of 8, he successfully passed the examination of the first grade of the primary school and graduated from the experimental primary school of Nanjing University of Science and Technology.
After that, He Yide did not enter the middle school to continue his studies, because he had completed the 6-year course of junior high school through self-study.
Under his father's arrangement, he took the self-examination of Nanjing University, and unexpectedly received the school's acceptance letter, and this year, he was only 11 years old.
At the age of 12, you are ready to study for both a master's and a doctorate.
It was from this time that He Yide received the title of prodigy.
He participated in the strongest brain and became a household name for the little star. But that didn't change his life, and He Yide was still the child with extreme self-discipline and a focus on learning.
Eagle education is not replicable
1. Financial support
He Yide's childhood did not have his own time at all, because there was too much learning content waiting for him.
In some ways, this means that families must have sufficient financial means, otherwise it is difficult to get their children a sufficiently comprehensive education.
2. Accompany your child
The focus of eagle education is actually on parents, because only parents spend enough time and energy, and even accompany their children's growth throughout the process, can they truly achieve the so-called eagle education.
Obviously, this is not something that all parents can do, and more often than not, they are subject to various conditions.
3. The child's ability to bear it
Because of children's age, their minds are often not yet fully developed, especially in terms of anti-stress, it is difficult to be as mature as adults.
Eagle education has high requirements for children's endurance, parents must pay attention to their children's psychology in time, otherwise children are likely to have psychological problems.
What should parents do about their children's growth and education?
1. Correct frustration education
Setback education is simply to let children suffer setbacks in the process of education, so as to stimulate their potential and enhance their ability to resist setbacks.
As a result, many parents artificially create various setbacks for their children, but they do not know that their behavior has planted the seeds of rebellion in the hearts of their children, and they may only be one fuse away from the final outbreak.
2. Reasonably guide the child's energy
Under the eagle education, parents hope that their children can develop in an all-round way, but in fact, their children's energy is limited.
If the learning areas involved are too complicated, it will make the children unable to take care of them because of their distraction, and eventually lead to the fact that each learning is only a superficial and cannot be mastered.
3. Respect the growth of children
Children's growth has its own laws, but many parents artificially promote the growth of seedlings, allowing children to do things that do not meet their age.
Perhaps at a certain stage, children will indeed be better than their peers, but when the child's mind is mature enough, this eagle education will often become the last thing they want to recall in their childhood.