"Daddy! Hold me! Hug me! ”
A young boy in a pair of underwear and a pair of transporters on a street in Flushing, New York, On January 22, 2012
Move your shoes.
Running and crying in the ice and snow, every inch of his skin had long been frozen red in the cold wind.
At the same time, behind it was a middle-aged man in his early 40s, constantly "encouraging" the boy:
"Keep running, don't stop!" Daddy is behind you! ”
At that time, China had entered the Internet era, and netizens abroad quickly filmed this picture and put it on
It spread to the domestic media platform.
As the video went viral on major media platforms, the father and son became "Internet celebrities" for a while.
And it was also given the titles of "Eagle Dad" and "Naked Running Brother" by netizens.
Jokingly, for the practice of "Eagle Dad", many netizens still maintain a skeptical attitude.
They believe that this way of educating children is very extreme, which will seriously affect the physical and mental development and physical development of children.
Therefore, while the father and son are "prosperous", they are also caught in a huge public opinion storm.
Born with a disability, his father changed his life against the odds
The father, who was called "Eagle Dad" by netizens, was named He Liesheng, and he grew up in an ordinary family since he was a child, but he grew up
The achievements created later are not ordinary at all.
He Liesheng's parents are ordinary workers, and due to their busy work on weekdays, their discipline of He Liesheng is very loose.
In the eyes of most children, it is a good thing that parents teach themselves, but He Liesheng does not think so.
He Liesheng feels that parents are very irresponsible, and he always believes that parents' strict discipline of their children is the best education for children.
Without the education and supervision from his parents, He Liesheng could only discipline himself, which also made him have most of them from an early age
The ability to think independently that their peers do not have.
Under the long-term strict self-discipline, He Liesheng was successfully admitted to Nanjing Normal University, and after graduation, he became a physics teacher.
He has always been keen on independent thinking, and after starting his work, he always felt that the education system at that time was not what he wanted.
The teaching profession was called the "iron rice bowl" at that time, because this profession was very stable, but the problems behind stability were accompanied
It's the upper limit of this profession as well as boring.
After careful consideration, He Liesheng quit his job as a teacher and resolutely chose to join the team of going to the sea to do business.
Just as everything is difficult at the beginning, He Liesheng suffered repeated setbacks in the early days of entrepreneurship and owed a large amount of debt, but he did not choose to back down.
Under great pressure, he is constantly improving his company's business model and setting an example on his employees.
Not afraid of challenges, self-reliance and strict with others, this is the main reason why he succeeded in starting a business and became a big entrepreneur.
As the saying goes, Da Ze also helps the world, and after He Liesheng became famous, he has been doing charity work within his reach.
At the time of the Wenchuan earthquake, he donated 7.5 million yuan of relief materials to the disaster area, and during the Yushu earthquake, he donated another 350 yuan to the local area
10,000 yuan of relief materials.
In addition to his philanthropic work on these natural disasters, he often volunteers to help students in poor mountainous areas so that they can get the opportunity to learn.
However, it is such an entrepreneur who has the world's life in mind, but when his son was born, he was unfair to heaven.
On February 12, 2008, at the Affiliated Hospital of Anhui Medical University, He Liesheng was anxiously pacing back and forth outside the delivery room.
According to normal circumstances, He Liesheng's wife should be in labor in half a year, but now compared with the expected date, it is enough to advance
Nearly 4 months.
Premature birth can have a serious impact on both the wife and the child, which is also the worry in He Liesheng's heart.
As the closed door of the delivery room slowly opened, He Liesheng rushed forward at the first time to inquire about the doctor's wife and children.
And his original throbbing heart completely fell to the "bottom" because of the doctor's words.
The doctor told He Liesheng that because his child was born prematurely, according to the current examination situation, the child is likely to suffer from congenital cerebral palsy.
While waiting outside the delivery room, He Liesheng has been silently praying, hoping that his wife and children will be fine.
And when He Liesheng's wife was just pregnant, they had already given their children a good name, if they were born
A boy, he was named He Yide, and the nickname was Duoduo.
However, now that his son has been born, he is very likely to suffer from the disease of cerebral palsy, which makes He Liesheng, who was originally full of expectations, a little unacceptable for a while.
Cerebral palsy is a disease that is described as "vegetative person" in other words, and there have been reports of congenital cerebral palsy in the media before, but most of them are "scandals".
Because some parents can't stand that their child is a vegetative person and can't afford to bear the huge medical expenses needed to treat the disease.
So soon after the birth of the child, they chose to end the child's life with their own hands.
The situation is different for He Liesheng, as an entrepreneur, he has seen too many storms and waves in his early years, and the cost of treatment is right
It wasn't a problem for him, so he didn't choose to give up on his children.
After discussing the treatment plan with the doctor, He Liesheng guarded He Yide every day and night in the hospital.
Whenever he saw He Yide with various instruments and equipment inserted in his body, he felt a pinprick-like pain in his heart, and this stay was nearly 2 months.
As He Yide's condition stabilized, the doctor told He Liesheng: "The child's current condition can already be discharged, but."
The risk of cerebral palsy still exists, and it still needs more attention on weekdays. ”
After returning home with his son, He Liesheng began to treat his son's condition in his own way.
In these two months, He Liesheng has not been idle, he has been looking for a way to treat congenital cerebral palsy.
After consulting numerous materials, he found that swimming can effectively enhance the physical fitness of newborns.
So when he returned home, he prepared an inflatable pool, and filled the pool with warm water every once in a while, allowing He Yide to flutter in it.
After all, He Yide had just been born, and the various functions of his body were already extremely fragile, because he could not adapt to this "high intensity" for a while
During the exercise, He Yide had diarrhea that night.
The sudden situation made the family feel anxious, and after sending him to the hospital for examination, he found that He Yide's body was not
After something went wrong, the family's tense nerves gradually eased.
Although He Yide was at peace, He Liesheng's wife still accused him of not doing such radical things in the future.
At that time, He Liesheng's heart was also uncomfortable, and when his son appeared unusual, he also felt extremely anxious.
However, He Liesheng always believed that one thing would not bear fruit in the short term, so he fought for his wife and family
At the end of the week, let He Yide continue to try his own treatment during the week.
All things are conserved, and after suffering and suffering, there is bound to be a ray of hope.
After a week of swimming exercise, He Yide's physical fitness has been significantly improved, not only the quality of sleep has become better, but the amount of meals on weekdays has also increased a lot.
The treatment plan was effective, and He Liesheng became more confident, and in addition to physical exercises, he also began to target He Yi
De's hearing and vision have undergone a series of targeted exercises.
He Liesheng's wife and family are also obvious to all about the effect of this exercise method, so they don't worry too much and let He Liesheng let go.
After He Liesheng's training, He Yide was able to start walking slowly on his own when he was 6 months old.
Although he often fell and cried bitterly during the period, He Liesheng always endured the pain in his heart and encouraged He Yide to climb up on his own.
It is also under this independent training condition that He Yide's physical fitness has become better and better, and when he is one and a half years old, he can walk 3 kilometers alone.
Devil training is also the path to talent
He Liesheng, who experienced "changing his life against the sky" when he was young, also saw great potential in He Yide.
He wanted to cultivate He Yide's mentality of not being afraid of fate and facing difficulties like himself.
Therefore, He Liesheng decided to train He Yide more rigorously, and at the same time he also gave his own education style a domineering name
"Eagle Education".
Because any creature can only maximize its potential in the face of great challenges and life and death crises.
But after all, He Liesheng is He Yide's biological father, and he will not ignore the safety of his children's lives.
Therefore, before officially implementing his own eagle-style education, he specially found experts from the General Hospital of the Nanjing Military Region for his own education
The way is explored in depth.
Recognized by the experts for his training plan, He Liesheng no longer had any scruples, and soon he began to treat He Yide
More intense training was taken.
In November 2010, He Liesheng began trying to get he Yide, who was only 2 and a half years old, to climb the Purple Mountain in Nanjing.
The steep mountain road is a challenge for the average adult, not to mention that He Yide is just a young child.
He Yide's mother, He Long, would want to rush up to help at the first time when she saw her son almost fall down many times, but each time she was killed
He Liesheng stopped it.
In the end, without the help of any external force, He Yide climbed to the top of purple mountain step by step on his own.
After about 1 year of devil training, when He Yide went to the hospital again for a review, the examination report showed that He Yide's body was different
The indicators are normal, which means that he is now a "normal" child.
In September 2011, healthy He Yide was sent to Nanjing Experimental Kindergarten for preschool education.
Considering that He Yide was about to contact many people and make friends, He Liesheng began to conduct social training for He Yide.
Teach him what he needs to do when dealing with others, what to pay attention to, and how to share it with others.
With the enrollment of He Yide, everything gradually returned to calm, until 2012, when the He Liesheng family traveled to the United States near the Spring Festival
Wait, the life of their family has once again set off a wave.
Although he traveled abroad, He Liesheng never stopped training He Yide, and he let He Yide wear only a pair of underwear and
Shoes run in the snow and ice.
After someone uploaded this "naked running" video to the Internet, many enthusiastic netizens criticized and recognized this education method
Why Liesheng has domestic violence and abuse tendencies.
But He Liesheng did not think much of these opposing voices, and he even said frankly in an interview with reporters: "Education."
It's my old profession, I can't be clearer about how to teach a child well, and I and eagle education seem to be very harsh, but it is real
It is not violence education. ”
For He Liesheng's education method, Wang Linghua, director of the Department of Psychology of Guangzhou Women and Children's Medical Center, commented on the media.
She believes that there is nothing wrong with He Liesheng's education method, although the child runs naked in the snow, but He Liesheng has always followed He Yi
Behind Him, he Yide's safety was guaranteed.
Everyone is in a different position, even if there is an affirmation of experts, there are still a large number of people for He Liesheng's way of education
He Lisheng himself did not care about this.
On February 6, 2012, He Yide, who had undergone rigorous training, matured too much more than children of the same age, aiming at He Yide's article at this time
He Liesheng sent him to the International Department of Nanjing Youfu West Street Primary School for study.
In school, He Yide was not only very young compared to other students, but also much smaller, but he was in some international countries
The results shown at the event surprised many people.
After an international sailing event, he was received by members of the International Olympic Committee and the Vice President of the International Sailing Federation.
During the National Day in 2012, He Liesheng took He Yide to Japan for a tour, and he Yide was accompanied by He Liesheng
It took 15 hours to climb the top of Fuji Mountain alone.
In July of the following year, He Liesheng took He Yide to Gu'an County in Hebei Province and asked He Yide to participate in a month-long "flight training" here.
On the afternoon of August 31, 5-year-old He Yide piloted an ultralight plane and flew at an altitude of 150 meters above the ground3
In 5 minutes, he completed a flight around the Beijing Wildlife Park and became the youngest flyer in the world.
After one success, the subsequent successes seem to become taken for granted.
At the age of 7, He Yide crossed Lop Nur in Xinjiang three times, and at the age of 8, he was successfully admitted to Nanjing University.
At the age of 10, he successfully passed 20 self-study exams and subsequently graduated from Nanjing University.
At the age of 12, he entered the University of Bukang in Spain to complete all the master's programs in business administration.
At the age of 13, in September 2021, He Yide received a phD "OFFER" from the University of São Paulo in the Philippines.
He also became the youngest Doctor since the founding of the University of São Paulo.
He Yide's success lies not only in his own potential, but more because of his father's way of educating.
But such a harsh education model is not suitable for everyone, but the ending is always good, with these experiences, the future is what
Yide's life will inevitably be more exciting.