There is an idiom called "late completion of the big instrument", which means that people who can take on heavy responsibilities have to go through a long period of exercise, so they achieve later. In real life, the late success of the big instrument should be a relatively common phenomenon, on the contrary, the so-called prodigy, genius and other kinds of people, they are really rare.
Genius prodigies, perhaps gifted, perhaps acquired efforts, in short, with extraordinary intelligence to throw out of ordinary people a big street.
"Naked running brother" He Yide is such an incredible "prodigy", he set off several climaxes on the Internet, he flew an airplane at the age of five, published an autobiography at the age of 6, walked through Lop Nur known as the "forbidden area of life" at the age of 7, and later graduated from university at the age of 11.
In a short and childish time, he accomplished what most people don't yet begin.
What is the story of him? How is he doing at 14 years old?
He Yide
Premature babies born with cerebral palsy are effective in rehabilitation
He Yide's father, named He Liesheng, was fostered in a relative's home since childhood, studied education at university, and worked as a teacher for seven years. Later, He Liesheng followed the trend of the times to the sea to do business, and after more than ten years of struggle, he finally became famous and became the chairman of a well-known company
In 2008, He Liesheng had reached the age of forty, and he and his pregnant wife, He Longhui, were waiting with joy for a new life in a few months. On the fifth day of the Chinese New Year, his wife, who was only seven months pregnant, suddenly felt unwell and was sent to the hospital, so He Yide came to this world early.
Because he was born prematurely, He Yide was born underdeveloped, weighing less than four pounds at birth, and he also suffered from more serious congenital diseases, such as hemangioma, cerebral edema, neonatal pneumonia, etc.
After the doctor's diagnosis, he told He Liesheng and his wife with regret that the child would most likely have cerebral palsy or dementia in the future, and this bad news suddenly diluted the couple's sense of joy.
He Liesheng
He Liesheng, as his name suggests, is not a man who is resigned to his fate and willing to lose, and at the age of forty, he regards this child as extremely important, so he refuses to give up easily.
So in the days after the birth of the child, He Liesheng has been looking for relevant information on the Internet, and personally chased the doctor to inquire and understand, and slowly, a plan took shape in his mind.
The main manifestations of cerebral palsy are the developmental delay of movement and mental retardation, so in addition to drug treatment, there is also rehabilitation through sports training to enhance muscle strength and maintain joint range of motion.
He Liesheng saw this hope, so he planned to train He Yide in special activities, which was later called "eagle training".
He Liesheng's family
As we all know, when the eaglet learns to fly, it is often pushed off the cliff by the eagle and then passively learned, and the eagle training refers to such a training mode with both strength, tension and efficiency.
The newborn babies were all concentrated in the incubator, and He Yide stayed in this warm nest for just ten days before he was taken to the "cliff" by his father - he was put on a swimming ring for babies by his father, and then put into warm water close to the body temperature and began to passively "swim".
At the beginning, as soon as He Yide was put in the water, he would start crying loudly, and at the same time, he would constantly struggle to resist, and after a while he had to take it out, so Rao was so, he still inevitably pulled up his stomach at night.
He Yide and He Liesheng when they were young
In the face of the fierce opposition of his family, He Liesheng did not stop his behavior, but stubbornly continued to soak his son in water.
The location is from the inflatable swimming pool to the baby swimming pool, the time is gradually extended from the first ten minutes to the next one or two hours, and the water temperature is gradually reduced until 25 degrees Celsius.
Miraculously, as time passed, He Yide's physical condition actually improved significantly, not only rarely crying, but also his face began to become rosy, showing a healthy atmosphere.
By the time He Yide had only reached the age of six months, the training time for things like this had been extended to 8 hours a day.
When he was one year old, He Yide learned to walk, and since then, He Liesheng has begun to train his son to practice walking on foot, and the distance traveled has increased day by day.
When he was two years old, He Yide was taken by his father to start learning to climb the mountain, there is a Purple Mountain nearly 500 meters above sea level on the outskirts of Nanjing, He Yide followed his father to climb up and down on foot, so repeatedly, no matter how tired he was, he could not move every day.
In addition, He Liesheng also arranged a wealth of physical exercise training for He Yide, such as rope climbing and swinging bridges, street dance, martial arts, skateboarding, bicycles, etc.
Under such strict exercise day after day, He Yide was not bound by fate, but became a healthy child, and this was also the original wish of his father He Liesheng - to make his son a normal person.
Life presses the accelerator button, and the youth becomes an amazing person
When He Yide was two years old, he was sent to Nanjing Taiping Lane Kindergarten to attend a small class, and when he was three years old, his father He Liesheng felt that the foreign education model was more in line with his own ideas, so he moved to New York with his family, and He Yide entered a local Flushing Rainbow Kindergarten.
Since then, He Yide's life can be said to have been in an accelerated stage - he stayed in the kindergarten for a week and then transferred to the middle class, and then jumped into the senior class two weeks later, and his intelligence level far exceeded that of children of the same age.
In 2012, four-year-old He Yide became completely popular on the Internet, starting with a video. It was on the streets of New York on Chinese New Year's Eve, 2012, when temperatures plummeted in the United States, the outside temperature reached minus 13 degrees, the streets were covered with heavy snow, and people were enjoying the holidays with their families in their warm homes.
In order to exercise physical strength and willpower, He Yide was taken outside by his father He Liesheng and asked to take off his clothes and pants outside, leaving only a pair of yellow shorts, ready to start a "naked run" on the winter snow.
He Yide running in the snow
In the video, He Yide's small body was frozen red, with a look of grievance and did not dare not follow the look of trembling up, in the snow, after a while he could not stand it, crying for his father to hug, but was ruthlessly rejected. He Liesheng held up his camera while shooting, while cheering him up from time to time.
After that, He Liesheng uploaded the video of He Yide running naked in the snow to the Internet, which caused a large wave of attention, most of which were accusatory voices, He Yide was also called "naked running brother", and He Liesheng was named "Eagle Dad" to reflect his harshness and inhumanity.
In the face of people's accusations, "Eagle Dad" He Liesheng has no signs of "repentance", and he admits that such an educational method has a lot to do with his childhood experience and later hard work experience.
It turned out that when he was a child, he was fostered in a relative's house, and he would be called up every day at six o'clock to exercise and study, and when he was a child, he deeply resented this way of education, but when he grew up, he actually experienced the intellectual and physical superiority brought about by this method.
He Liesheng and He Yide
After the age of four, He Yide returned to China with his family and entered Nanjing Yushuiwan International Primary School, because of his superior ability, he continued to skip grades and graduated from primary school at the age of six.
During this period, in order to ensure the efficiency of his son's life, He Liesheng arranged a full schedule for him - getting up at six o'clock in the morning, sleeping at more than eight o'clock in the evening, listening to stories on the way home from school, chess, martial arts and other courses outside the campus, and going out to travel and participate in activities during the holidays.
At the same time, in order to better cultivate business capabilities, He Yide will also be arranged to visit the mall to study.
If at the beginning He Liesheng did this only to ensure his son's physical health, then the subsequent training was more to give his son a foolproof future.
After He Yide was five years old, He Liesheng planned to arrange a meaningful new activity for him every year, most of which was adventurous, because He Liesheng had been on the road to entrepreneurship for many years and knew that the wind and rain were uncertain, so he wanted to cultivate his son's sense of adventure and emergency response ability.
He Yide is studying
When He Yide was five years old, because he had always been interested in airplanes, He Liesheng wanted to arrange for him to fly a plane.
The aircraft operated by He Yide is certainly not the kind of aircraft we commonly see, but a special light aircraft, weighing less than 116 kilograms, without age restrictions, and without the need for a special driving license.
The runway is a dirt road with a width of about five meters between the farmland, and the aircraft usually takes off at an altitude of two hundred meters above the ground.
After a period of training before the official driving, it was August, and in order to avoid the sweltering heat, He Yide came to the training ground every morning at five o'clock.
Under the guidance of the instructor, the four-hour training is generally explained first, and then the test flight is carried out, and after two weeks, He Yide can sit in the front cabin and operate independently under the supervision of the instructor.
He Yide was operating the plane
On the day of the official flight, He Yide changed into a blue air force suit, wore black leather boots on his feet, and sat in the pilot position of the plane, while the instructor sat in his rear cabin.
After the instructor issued the command to take off, He Yide officially flew the plane into the sky and slowly flew around the field three times, the whole process lasted about thirty minutes, and He Yide set the record for the youngest pilot in Guinness.
Unusual education methods, extraordinary ability, so that He Yide has gained a high degree of attention on the Internet, at the age of 6 he published a long autobiographical comic book "I am a naked running brother", all aspects of the people to show people his school and family life, as well as the big things and small things he has experienced.
At the age of 7, in order to cultivate his son's spirit of adventure and wild survival knowledge and ability, He Liesheng and three other parents, with their respective children, planned to cross Lop Nur known as the "forbidden area of life", before that, He Liesheng made preparations for two years, including asking for a guide, buying equipment, and knowledge training.
In October, a group of five cars set off to enter Lop Nur and who knew that on the first day, everyone was lost, and finally it took a lot of effort to find the right route. Because the road is long, everyone can only eat twice a day, and wolves often appear near the tents, and everyone uses the strong light of the flashlight to scare them off.
He Liesheng took He Yide for outdoor activities
In addition, the terrain of Lop Nur is complex and difficult to navigate, and He Liesheng constantly encourages his son to go down, and sings "Dare to Ask Where the Road Is" all the way to cheer up.
On the third day, He Liesheng let the vehicle go first, and he took a few children on foot together, and as a result, the temperature plummeted that day, everyone got lost in the desert, there was no food and no water to drink, or later someone rushed to find the local guide's phone on the Internet several times, and was rescued.
During the 11-day journey, He Yide and a few children, led by adults, set up wooden sticks under the sun to see the shadow to identify the direction, and searched for reed roots in the desert to dig out the rhizomes to solve the water source.
Dig out a rectangular bunker with a shovel and lie inside and cover your body with clothes to protect yourself from the wind and cold, and identify constellations such as the Big Dipper and Vega when the stars are full of stars at night.
On the fourth day, when they came to the monument to the missing adventure hero Pengam, Ho Yide and several children listened to the adults tell the hero's story and saluted them. Before finally preparing to go out, He Yide and the children also cleared the scene together, that is, to solve the garbage left behind, which should be burned and which did not have to be buried, and there were many places to learn.
In the end, He Yide and his party successfully walked out of Lop Nur for eleven days, traveling up to 3,000 kilometers, of which 100 kilometers were completed on foot, and He Liesheng and several friends became the world's youngest explorers crossing Lop Nur .
At the same time, He Yide also became the youngest shareholder in his father's company, with a salary of five hundred yuan per month.
In addition to adventurous attempts and physical training, He Liesheng also attaches great importance to the cultivation of his son's usual habits, once He Yide followed his father to pay homage to the principal of the primary school during the Spring Festival, and was punished with a hundred sit-ups because he did not say hello when he entered the door.
Another time on the way to the recording of the program because of the rush to catch the car, when encountering the begging bride, he just threw down a few dollars and ran forward without noticing the gratitude of the bride, and as a result, He Yide was punished by his father and kept saying apologies, and even the passengers on the car felt that it was too much.
At the same time, under his father's ban, He Yide had no games, carbonated drinks, no Internet, and no leisure time.
He Yide is self-taught online lessons
According to He Liesheng's seven years of teaching experience, he believes that today's test-taking education is more detached from reality, and the learning content is extensive and untargeted, so he has been reducing his son's time waste and energy waste, and he has set up a set of professional education for his son throughout.
In 2015, when He Yide turned 8 years old, he applied for Nanjing University under his father's will and successfully passed, becoming a college student majoring in sales management at Nanjing University.
In order to step up his studies, He Yide spent a long time in his father's self-built teaching building for a long time in the future, from morning to night, except for two sports activities, the rest of the time was spent in online classes, examination papers and books.
At the age of 8, he wanted to finish more than 20 university textbooks as soon as possible, and follow the teachers to learn esoteric professional mathematical knowledge such as labor conflicts and sales growth rates.
At the age of 11, He Yide passed the course assessment with an average score of 70.3, and he posted his college diploma photo on Weibo, and netizens called it incredible.
However, the reporter found in the interview that for knowledge such as materialism, He Yide only memorized it mechanically, and did not really understand it.
Subsequently, He Yide successively participated in the knowledge contest programs "One Stop to the End" and "The Strongest Brain", and became popular again with a colorful resume, but many netizens doubted its authenticity and attacked eagle education.
From physical exercise, to intellectual training, and spiritual training, He Yide was receiving his father's "eagle education" from the inside out, and all aspects of development were also pressed to accelerate the key, which eventually made him "young and old".
Parents disagree and prodigies run endlessly
In the face of a lot of criticism on the Internet, He Liesheng did not think that there was anything wrong with his method, in his view, when he was very young, he did not understand what was valuable and what could really improve himself.
They don't have enough judgment, so if you give them the choice, it will only lead to wasted years, so you have been planning for your son.
In the face of reporters' questions about "control", He Liesheng said that he would not always make decisions for his son in this way, as the child grew up, he would change from coach to chief of staff to adviser, from making decisions to controlling the direction to only giving advice, and when he matured, he would only be an audience member and applaud his son's success.
In short, it is to learn to specialize, to highly condense life, and to reduce unnecessary actions.
Eagle Dad refuses to take too much gentle care of the child, he feels that he should race against the clock to train and cultivate, he is harsh and inhuman, in the face of a strong father, He Yide has also been wronged, more is afraid, he once compared his father to a tiger chasing himself behind him, "once slow will be eaten."
He Yide and He Liesheng
During a snow training camp, He Yide needed to crawl a hundred meters on the ice, when he had worn out both elbows, although he was tired but did not dare to say it.
More often, what He Yide was afraid of, his father would force himself to do something, for example, once when the whole family went to Tianmu Lake Water World to play, when he saw a vertical slide with a length of sixty or seventy meters, he blurted out that sliding down from there would definitely be "scared to death", and his father asked him to try the project on the spot.
After watching the movie "The Climber", although He Yide was very reluctant, his father would still constantly find stories and videos of other climbers to show him, and wanted to take him to climb Mount Everest.
In addition, because most of the time is a relationship between skipping grades and self-study, He Yide has no deep friends in school, and sometimes it is inevitable to feel bored.
Whenever He Yide showed his complaints about learning, his father would arrange physical training for him to make him realize that learning was relatively easy.
Under such high pressure, He Yide also showed fatigue and grievances, and he once said in front of reporters, "If there is a magic wand, I hope to make my father gentler."
Compared with the father's strength and high pressure, He Yide's mother He Longhui is much softer and more normal, He Longhui will watch her son accelerate his growth in the hands of her husband and become unusual, she cannot avoid worrying that such an education method will cause her son's psychological problems and cause bad effects.
Different from the road of successful entrepreneurs created by Eagle Dad He Yide, He Longhui hopes that his son can go to school, return to the ordinary life of normal people, and grow up happily and easily, he does not want his son to mature prematurely.
After He Yide, He Liesheng and his wife gave birth to another daughter Han Han, and He Liesheng wanted to continue to apply his son's eagle education to his daughter, but was strongly opposed by He Longhui.
He Yide and his mother
He Long will not be able to intervene in her son's education, but she does not want her daughter to become the next He Yide, so she will gently comb her daughter's hair, put the hot chaos for a while and then put her daughter in a bowl, and send her to school, prepare water for her to drink, and rarely scold.
And all this, no doubt, was opposed by He Liesheng, who believed that this was not conducive to cultivating children's self-care ability.
As the gap between the concepts between the husband and wife became larger, the two often quarreled, and finally unanimously proposed that from then on, the son would be under the management of He Liesheng and the daughter would be managed by He Longhui, and the two would not interfere with each other.
Therefore, compared with his sister's relaxed and happy childhood, He Yide's childhood is much more tense and boring, and sometimes his sister can escape things by lying a petty, and no matter how reluctant he is, he has to be the scalp.
After graduating from college, He Yide continued to study at home according to his father's wishes, preparing to pursue an MBA.
Since then, He Yide has started a wild running mode in his studies, and a year later, at the age of 12, he obtained a bachelor's degree from Nanjing University as he wished, and at the age of 13, he successfully completed the course and completed the thesis defense, and won the MBA of Wukang University in Spain.
On December 19, 2021, He Yide successfully passed the entrance examination of the University of São Paulo in the Philippines, and now at the age of 14, he has become the youngest doctoral student at the university, due to the epidemic sweeping the world, He Yide can only take online classes at home, but this is also in line with his usual self-learning style.
He Yide, 14 years old, has long been full of honors, he is the youth image representative of the Youth Olympic Games, and also the image ambassador of China's first intelligent sports competition. The exclamations of the prodigy are incessant, and the streamers of genius are still shining.
Many people do not agree with the way He Yide received education, believing that this deprived him of the freedom and happiness of childhood, but He Yide himself began to taste the sweetness of "eagle education" after experiencing the pain and hardship of being persecuted.
Later, when interviewed by reporters, when asked whether he hated Dad's education methods, he said that "I used to hate it, but now I don't hate it."
Because He Yide realized that he would also feel tired in the lively but broad learning state of school, but relatively speaking, self-study was more efficient, and when he adapted to this rhythm, he could still find fun in it.
And as he grows older, his father's intervention in himself will gradually decrease, and he will begin to ask his own ideas on some things, and the space of freedom is gradually released to him, and he has already created a strong armor to meet the storms and rains on the sea of freedom, and this is exactly what "Eagle Father" He Liesheng expected at the beginning.
He Yide and Dad
Throughout the ages, prodigies have always appeared in the world, but most of them have no name in the end, and if they do not get the education they deserve, they can only "disappear into the crowd" like the little prodigies in "Wounded Zhongyong".
Under the "eagle education", it may indeed be possible to create a teenager who can really be talented, but not everyone can resist the pressure and finally become He Yide.
Educational methods have always been controversial, and He Yide's success is after all a minority, while marveling at us, we must also be different from person to person, not blindly imitated.
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