Chinese culture is broad and profound, with a long history. Our Chinese name contains the family's surname inheritance, carries the hopes and expectations of our parents, and is a walking ID card that accompanies life. But some parents think that naming is a very random little thing, nothing more than a code name.
Mr. Wang is a big grinning businessman who doesn't pay much attention to names and doesn't think it's necessary to spend too much time on this matter. Seeing that his wife's delivery period was approaching, he had not yet given the child a good name, and he had not even thought about it. Therefore, the husband and wife duo quarreled a lot.
In the blink of an eye, it was the wife's delivery period, a big fat boy who was white and clean, and the family was very happy together. In addition to being happy, the family asked Mr. Wang what name Mr. Wang gave to the child, and for a moment Mr. Wang did not know how to answer, and then remembered that he had been listening to Teresa Teng's sentimental "Xiaolou had the east wind last night", and replied "East Wind".
The wife is reluctant at this time, the name is indeed somewhat ordinary, but Mr. Wang has always emphasized the view that "it is just a code name", and the wife can't help it, so she agrees with the name. When the opportunity was made, Mr. Wang rushed to apply for a birth certificate for the child, but a mistake by the nurse turned "Dongfeng" into "Dongfan", the nurse apologized and said that he wanted to change the past, but Mr. Wang said: "Don't change, Dongfan is also very good." ”
Some children in life will not like the names given by their parents, because the names are not good, and children may not lack "nicknames" from an early age. This also has a certain impact on the physical and mental health of children.
What are the implications of parents naming their children by their own name?
1. Children will be ridiculed by others
Children are the most innocent group, and they may nickname their friends because they just think it's funny. But it's a mockery of the nicknamed kid. There is a child named "Cai Wang", there is a naughty child called him "Wang Cai", the big guys are coaxed together to shout like this, the child is not less because of this kind of thing crying nose, and even with other children to fight.
2. Lack of self-confidence, resulting in inferiority complex
As children develop, self-esteem will become stronger and stronger, and they will be ashamed to talk about it when others ask for names, and even become less confident or even inferior. Such thoughts have a great impact on the growth of children, and serious ones will also lead to children's dislike of social interaction and become a withdrawn personality.
So what should parents pay attention to when naming their children?
1. Avoid strange words
Some parents will pick some strange words in order to make their children's names special, but this will not only not personalize the name, but also bring unnecessary trouble to the children. Strange words are not common in life, many people will not write and will not read is normal, but being mispronounced by others will make children feel embarrassed, but also because of the complex writing of strokes to delay excess time, over time the child's name will become the focus, bringing a lot of trouble.
2. Reference Word Dictionary
Most parents want to make their children's names catchy, but they have no clue, at this time may wish to consult the dictionary, which summarizes the specific meanings of many words, understand the ancient and modern meanings, so that not only the child's name becomes elegant, but also cleverly avoids the wrong meaning of the name.
Taking names is also a special science, as parents, we all want our children to be healthy and happy, and the name is the first gift that their parents give them when they come to this world, and this gift does not need to be special, but it must be careful, so that the baby can feel valued.
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