During the New Year, a new way of gathering between relatives began to quietly become popular, and those who attended were full of praise, and they were still unsatisfied, saying that they would live like this in the future.
Recently, a netizen posted a video of their family relatives gathering. According to the netizen, more than a dozen of their cousins gathered the old and young in the family and gathered in the hotel. And make an appointment with each other in advance, don't buy gifts, don't give the children money, just simply lively and lively to eat a meal.
So the question is, so many people eat, the money will certainly not be less, then who is out of this money?
Their cousins also agreed on the issue. The cost of the meal is shared equally among their peers, and the elders in the family are not allowed to pay for it.
Netizens said that in the past, during the New Year, just a few days of vacation were almost used to visit relatives and friends. And to buy boxes of gifts every time, it is expensive, laborious, and a waste of time. And now the children's pressure on the age of money is also rising, if there are a large number of children in the family, the elderly wallet pressure immediately becomes huge.
So, they came up with such a solution. Everyone made an appointment, and then they took the elders and children of the family to get together in the restaurant, and simply had a meal, reminisced about the past, and chatted. Dozens of people gathered together, it was called a lively, and the atmosphere of the New Year was even stronger.
In this way, a lot of time is saved at once, and the rest of the holiday time can be well rested at home, or the family can go out to play, and you can arrange it as you want.
Moreover, to their surprise, the elders in the family also like this way of gathering, not to mention the children.
What do you think of this novel way of meeting?
Netizen comments
We've been executing for more than a decade, and gifts, and pressed money back and forth, are time-consuming and laborious. Every year on the fourth day of the first year, several generations go to the hotel and take turns to pay the bill. And the economic gap is not helped to make up for some. Added hilarity and affection. In the nearly three years of the epidemic, it has been ordered and withdrawn. Only phone calls to say goodbye to the New Year. I hope that next year there will be no illness to follow the family affection.
If you are exempt from giving gifts to the elders during the Spring Festival, and then exempt from pressing the money for the younger generations, it is best for everyone to eat a meal under the AA system.
Some people in our rural areas have long done this, and they directly rented the things for the seats. Dozens of families run their own seats
Our family has always been like this, generally after the third year of junior high school, because the first year of the first year of their own family reunion, the second year of the first year, the third year of the first year is to go to the aunt's house. It is better to have a family reunion after the fourth year of junior high school. It's just that we usually pay for it from my family organization. Because if AA, hotel grade, price, location all need to be discussed, too much trouble. Once you have a dinner, it is only 2000-3000. We also need so much money to press the age, it is better to take it out and eat and drink everyone.
Our family was such a party 30 years ago, more than 30 people, the annual cost is paid by our family's 5 sons, 3 daughters and 2 nephews do not pay the fee, only to the elderly to wrap a red envelope. I don't buy things or pay for the years, and my grandchildren don't pay for them.
This year, my family is such a model, five sisters together, but one family wants to pay for the old age, especially dislike. In fact, my family has two little granddaughters, which I firmly do not want, and share the meal expenses equally.
My husband's five brothers, twenty years ago, it was like this, before the house was small, the New Year took turns to eat in the restaurant, eating and eating felt unhappy, 12 o'clock, the dumplings could not be eaten, and then gradually gradually the family changed the big house, just do it at home, and then later felt too tired, and in the way, a family are four dishes, five dishes, so that in whose home will not feel very tired
Our family has been saving time and energy for more than 30 years, everyone gets together to enjoy and integrate a large family, very peaceful and kind can do so, but some big families always have some people, using big parties, holding high and stepping low, making the atmosphere strange.
This approach is suitable for families that are developing the same class. It is not suitable for families with large development gaps and stratifications.
We are like this in the fourth year, more than 40 people, 4 tables, get together a few years ago, and next year in the fifth year, we will return to the original way of visiting the New Year, because it is only lively [cover your face]
My mother-in-law can't do it, we have to let us buy gifts, don't want the big New Year's family is not happy, they can only buy, buy, buy. If you don't buy it, you will cry twice and hang yourself three times.
We have long been like this, and several sisters take turns to do the east. Then gather the elderly people in the family to have a meal. Even if it is the year of the regiment. Children of each other do not have to pay for the age.
It's good to get together once! Several brothers and sisters run to each other and gather with each other, and the hostesses of the family are tired
Good is good, children do not have the feeling of the New Year, press the old money or give, the amount of money can be less. Once a year, don't worry too much about you more and me less.
We've been executing for more than a decade, and gifts, and pressed money back and forth, are time-consuming and laborious. Every year on the fourth day of the first year, several generations go to the hotel and take turns to pay the bill. And the economic gap is not helped to make up for some. Added hilarity and affection. In the nearly three years of the epidemic, it has been ordered and withdrawn. Only phone calls to say goodbye to the New Year. I hope that next year there will be no illness to follow the family affection. If you are exempt from giving gifts to the elders during the Spring Festival, and then exempt from pressing the money for the younger generations, it is best for everyone to eat a meal under the AA system.
Brothers and sisters at home every year to do the east, do not have to buy prayers do not have to give red envelopes, my family is, all year round, everyone gathers, as long as do not abandon the cuisine on the line, turn to my family, let you all eat and drink enough to go home happily
Our New Year is like this, Shanghai Chongming Island found a farm, wrapped in food and 3 days, from the Chinese New Year's Eve to the second day of junior high school, every day is to eat, sleep and play, no one has the burden of cooking, bring their own drinks and fruits, no. 30 relatives gather together.
