I slammed the door and went out, he chased me behind me, I thought he would be on my side and could understand me, but I never expected that he would let me go back and apologize to his mother.

I slammed the door in a huff and went out, he chased me after me, I thought he would be on my side and could understand me, but I never expected that he would let me go back and apologize to his mother...

My boyfriend and I met through the introduction of friends, as friends for 2 months, the feelings for each other are still good, suddenly one day he confessed to me, I also agreed, and then get along are also very happy, but in the process of getting along, he will ask his mother's consent before doing a lot of things, he is a single parent, this I knew at the beginning, he did things to ask for his mother's consent, I thought he was respecting his mother, let his mother feel that he was needed to satisfy. But this meeting shattered all my illusions.

Before the New Year, he discussed with me, can I go back to his house this New Year? He said his mother wants to see me, I thought to myself, the ugly daughter-in-law sooner or later to see the in-laws, I also gladly agreed, and I also told my parents about this matter, my parents said to meet or good, after all, Xiaoxin This child is not bad (Xiaoxin is my boyfriend), before going my dad also put the wild ginseng that he had not been willing to eat before, sent it to the specialty store to pack and mail it to me, saying that it was brought to the boyfriend's mother, really at that time I was really very moved, this ginseng, was before my father and friends went to the mountains to dig up, has been put, I didn't want to eat it. I didn't expect to use it for me this time.

On January 26, I took a few days off, and with a nervous mood, I met my future mother-in-law, and I have to say that the woman's intuition is very accurate, and the first time I saw her mother, I felt that she did not like me. Although she has always praised me and praised me, I always feel that there is something fake, and I think to myself, maybe it will be better to get along for a while.

The first meal was eaten at home, his mother made his favorite boiled fish, the whole meal came down, her mother did not ask me how I ate from beginning to end, whether there was anything out of taste, and did not ask my parents, my boyfriend may have felt my embarrassment, said that I work very well, usually cooking is also delicious. After a meal, I said a dozen or twenty sentences, and the rest were said by their mother and son. I was a little unhappy. After the meal, I helped clean up the table and dishes. After everything was packed, everyone sat on the couch watching TV, and then I took out the ginseng and said that it was the first time to meet, this was my parents' intention, what I never expected was that she was just a mutter, what is this? At that time, I was standing there like a fool with ginseng in my hand, and my boyfriend saw this scene, he got up and picked up the thing, said that this thing is very rare, very nutritious, and said that tomorrow he would take it outside to beat powder and come back to soak in water to drink. I was really sad at that time, I have not been so wronged since I was a child, even if you don't like it anymore, at least you have to go to the face, and then I said that I was too tired, I went back to the room to rest, the living room only left them mother and son, lying on the bed, a little drowsy, the heart is full of grievances, I really want to run back to the living room to ask well, where am I not good, is not worthy of your son? Why are you doing this to me. Their voices came intermittently in the living room, and they didn't know what to talk about. Lying on the bed, thinking about what happened along the way, I gradually realized that my boyfriend may not be as I thought, he is very likely to be the legendary mother treasure man, everything is listened to the mother, he is doing everything to follow her mother's will, I lie on the bed and cry quietly, I don't know how many times I cried, during this period my boyfriend did not come to the room to see me once, crying and crying I fell asleep.

The next morning when I got up, I found myself lying in bed and there was no sound in the living room, I quietly opened the door and found my boyfriend sleeping in the living room, he saw me up and asked me how I slept? I want to scold my mother, can I sleep well? He said his mother went out to buy something, just right, I told him, what happened yesterday, I asked him, is your mother not like me, he said no, since there is no reason for me so? He said to me impatiently, what has happened to my mother to you? I was really speechless? What happened to me? Don't you see that? Still need me to say? The conversation between us was very unpleasant, and in a fit of rage, I went back to my room with my luggage and went outside, and when I was about to go out, I saw the ginseng on the coffee table, I turned around and picked it up and put it in my backpack, and then I went out. After a few minutes I saw him coming after me, and he asked me why I was going? I said go home, he said what to do when you go home, the first time you met my mother, some strangeness is understandable, what misunderstanding do you have to go back to her and confess a mistake? You know I was going to explode when I heard that, and then I started spitting out a mouthful.

Then I took a taxi to the train station and bought a train ticket back to the company, because I was really embarrassed to go back to my home, I was afraid that this matter would disappoint my parents, and I didn't want the new year to make the second old man angry. On the train I texted my boyfriend, I was disappointed in him and never contacted again, and then deleted WeChat. I blocked the phone, and then I got a call from a stranger, and I knew it was him, so I hung up.

Now that I think about it, going home with him is not entirely wrong, at least let me recognize the essence of this scumbag, so that I still have room to turn around, everyone is right?

#Mother-in-law ##婆媳关系 #