From childhood to adulthood, I was a well-behaved girl, when I was a child, my parents arranged my parents to study and live, and when I grew up and got married, I didn't have to worry about anything, the big and small things in the family were the masters of my in-laws, and the things that earned money to support the family had a husband. I went to work safely and steadily, and at that time I felt very good and happy, and I didn't have to worry about my children, money, and so on.
But with the accumulation of time, I slowly got used to this feeling of being controlled by others and arranging everything. Now that the children are grown up and gone out, the in-laws are old and can't help us, when these things are in front of me, I feel powerless, I can't adapt, I don't know where to start.
Now everyone has their own pursuits and their own goals. But I still want someone to arrange everything for me, whether it's work or life. When I want to be independent, when I want to be my own master, I realize that I am so helpless, I stay at home alone and do not know what to do, what to do...
I think the current social phenomenon is very similar to my way of life, most of the children now are also particularly dependent on their parents, but also waiting for their families to arrange everything for them... So I especially want to remind those parents that they can give their children the space to be independent, so that they can have their own judgment and execution ability, and become healthy, independent individuals...
