My husband was sick and hospitalized, my daughter came to visit with her fiancé, and we were raising money for the surgery. I took the opportunity to propose to my daughter's boyfriend: "Your family is so rich, can you take it out first?"

My husband was sick and hospitalized, my daughter came to visit with her fiancé, and we were raising money for the surgery. I took the opportunity to ask my daughter's boyfriend: "Your family is so rich, can you first take out 120,000 yuan to operate on us?" "Unexpectedly, he rejected me, and I let my daughter break up on the spot, but she didn't want to."

I am 60 years old, pension 3000, my husband and I are in a similar situation, we are from the same state factory. We only have one daughter, just 30 years old, graduated from graduate school, very beautiful and in good shape. She has been a well-behaved girl since she was a child, and she is also the child of other people's families in the eyes of neighbors and relatives.

When my daughter is in school, many boys pursue it, but we ask my daughter to try not to fall in love during school. The daughter was very obedient and did not fall in love even when she was in graduate school. It wasn't until the second year of graduation that I talked about an object. Listening to the daughter, the boyfriend's family is very rich, the mother-in-law is a company executive, and the father-in-law has a small company. Annual income of several millions. The boyfriend is currently exercising in the big company where his mother-in-law is located, and he will also start a business in the future, and the future is immeasurable.

We were very happy, and my husband praised my daughter for her good looks.

Before, everyone was very busy and had not paid attention to it. After my husband fell ill this time, I specifically asked my daughter to bring her boyfriend over and let him do his filial piety.

My daughter said that her boyfriend originally had this meaning, and I was very happy to hear it, which is also a sensible child.

On that day, he came with gifts, a very delicate fruit basket, and a bouquet of flowers, and at a glance, he knew that he was a person with a very exquisite life. After the formal meeting, he also gave my husband a big red envelope to let us buy some nutritional products, which is conducive to the recovery of the body. Listening to my daughter's meaning, it is enough to have 8888 yuan. The shot is very generous.

Taking time, I chatted with the young man, and when it came to my husband's condition, I casually asked: "Can you lend us 120,000 yuan, and when you have money later, you will pay it back." ”

Frankly, in my opinion, there is nothing wrong with it. According to the daughter's meaning, the situation in the boyfriend's family, don't say 120,000, I think 1.2 million can be taken.

As a result, he refused.

I was dumbfounded, and I didn't even know what to say. The atmosphere was really awkward, and he said to me: "Auntie, the economic power of our family is in my mother's hands, and I estimate that this money will be difficult for me to come out." After a pause, he said, "I still have ten thousand yuan myself, or you can take it first!" ”

I refused the ten thousand dollars.

I'm here to borrow money, not to ask Hanako to ask you for money.

I was a little angry and said, "Your family is so rich, 120,000 is nothing to you, right?" Why can't you say yes? You are a 30-year-old person, and you can't even do this little thing in the family, how can I rest assured that I will hand over my daughter to you! I said to my daughter, "That's what you told me, he loves you?" ”

The daughter said: "Mom, Xiaojun also has his difficulties, besides, you don't want to trouble others in our family's affairs, I will find a way!" "The girl is outgoing, the daughter speaks for him, and I am getting a little angry." I said, "You're not married yet, you're like this, you've forgotten how we're good to you." ”

I scolded my daughter a few times and said to her boyfriend, "Actually, I just tested it to see if you were really committed to my daughter." Now I'm almost certain that you didn't love her that much. I'm just making a small request, you have the ability, but you're not willing to do it. ”

I said to my daughter, "Do you know what a good man is?" Do you know how to judge whether a man loves you or not? A man has a mountain of gold, but his reluctance to give you flowers is in vain. A man has only a few copper coins, but he is willing to give them all to you. What kind of men would you choose? ”

The daughter was silent. Again, I would also like to ask you, how do you choose?

Okay, back to the point. When I asked the question, my daughter was silent, but her boyfriend said, "Auntie, these are meaningless questions." I really love Xiaoyue, but I really don't have the financial power of the family now, but you can rest assured, uncle's illness, I will not ignore it, I will find a way to go back. ”

"Huh!" I chuckled softly, a person with a lot of wealth would not even borrow 120,000, but he made a big fuss about trying to find a way. Such a duplicitous man, I am most disgusted. I said to my daughter, "From now on, you can break up with him!" ”

The daughter was stunned for a moment, and then said: "Mom, I will not break up." Growing up, I listened to you all the time, and I wasn't in love when I was in college or even in graduate school. At the age of 30, I know the taste of love, I found the boy I liked, and you actually let me break up. ”

The more my daughter spoke, the more excited she became: "You never think about me, and you never ask me, what do I really want?" I'm 30, not a 3-year-old kid, I have my own mind and I know what I'm doing. ”

I said again, "Don't tell me these useless, such men are useless, you saw things today." His family was so rich, but they were not willing to help even a little. Are you serious that he really loves you? ”

The daughter's boyfriend said: "Auntie, to put it bluntly, we are not yet married, the first time we meet you to make such a rude request, do you think it is appropriate?" "I told him to roll, but my daughter went with him.

Let's talk about it, can such a man marry? Who's wrong with that?

@Taitai emotion said

Hello friend! I can understand your feelings, your daughter has rebelled against you, as a parent you must be very uncomfortable. But I have to say that you can't really figure it out. It's true that your daughter's boyfriend has money, but why would you ask for such a thing? There is a saying that the boy is right, they are just in love, not married yet?

Of course, your daughter's boyfriend is also a bit rude to say such a thing. That's right, but it's out of date. Frankly, I don't think much of your daughter's boyfriend either, and I don't know if it's a problem of emotional intelligence or the sense of superiority that family brings to him. I feel like he doesn't take you seriously at all.

Marriage is about the door to the door, I think you can communicate with your daughter, this 'high climb' marriage, the future may not really be happy.