You may sometimes worry about being eliminated by society because of learning partial subjects, maybe sometimes you will break the jar because of body anxiety, or you may sometimes be hurt by workplace struggles, followed by pain, helplessness or wandering, lamenting the injustice of fate. How exactly should we face a complex life?
The book "Han Xie: Fearless Truth" can let you find some of the confidence of life, the courage to face suffering, the ambition not to be afraid of violence, find the path of your own growth from the past of others' lives, do not tangle, do not disguise, do not shrink back, fearless and true, let you not love in the past, do not mix in the present, and do not welcome the future...
Learning about someone else's growth from a book is a very high return on investment. The author of this book, Zhao Han, grew up in Beijing and studied overseas, from an ordinary student who studied partial subjects to a scholarship, from a bullied little fat man to a well-known video blogger, from a non-committal workplace white counterattack to the real self who dared to say no to his boss. Her growth formula: "Wait + accept + change + let go = growth" is worth our good study and thinking, let us face all the opportunities of life with a peaceful mind, stable emotions, and atmospheric pattern in every ordinary day.
This book reveals the counterattack path of an ordinary person from a female perspective, but the author Zhao Han is not as perfect as the heroine in the novel, on the contrary, a person who is born with too many regrets. The most worrying thing is the pain of her body.
Meniere's syndrome makes her head feel like a time bomb, and she doesn't know when to fall ill and when to lose her freedom like a normal person. The book describes a lot of details about her illness, and if it were someone else, she might have given up many things a long time ago, broken cans, and illness and illness have achieved nothing. But in the past few decades, taking medicine and taboos have been common to her, and she can use them as a practice. Ask her how she has survived the pain of her body over the years? She said: "Thank you for making me sick. "Learning to laugh at your illness, tragedy has become somewhat joyful.
Another imperfection is body anxiety. It was from childhood to adulthood that accompanied her anxiety. Perhaps because of her fatness and other reasons, she was bullied by others during her time at school, which is now a school bully. This had a huge impact on her psychological growth. Her philosophy of life is "less comparison, less self-abuse, less thinking about a hundred years later".
After the college entrance examination, Zhao Han chose to go abroad to study at the university. This was followed by the ups and downs of overseas study and the career path at Phoenix TV. By chance, with the rise of short videos, she began to become a video blogger, sharing her life and work insights, and becoming a KOL who dared to speak out. The book also shares a lot of her thoughts after experiencing various things, which can connect us with our own experiences and feelings and find answers to life.
She said, "I still want to be myself – to pursue life feverishly, to love myself affectionately, to heal life warmly." ”