In 1996, Chen Hong knocked on the door of Ni Ping and Chen Kaige's house with a big belly and said to Chen Kaige: "I am pregnant, if you don't marry me, I will jump from here." ”
Chen Kaige turned to Ni Ping and said, "She is pregnant, I must be responsible for her, please forgive me!" ”
In 1991, Chen Kaige divorced Hong Huang, a famous leper, and met CCTV Hua Dan Ni Ping.
That year, Chen Kaige was 39 years old and Ni Ping was 32 years old, and Ni Ping was deeply attracted by Chen Kaige, who was full of talent, and the two were soon together.
Ni Ping was extremely popular at that time, but in the face of love, she could not care about the outside world, and directly moved to live with Chen Kaige's family and him.
But such a "public lover" is willing to be the woman behind Chen Kaige, she takes care of each other's life, reduces the workload for each other, and even in the eyes of Chen Kaige's parents are the existence of a daughter-in-law, Chen Kaige is a busy director, his father is sick and has no time to take care of it, Ni Ping will do filial piety for him before the bed, until the old man dies.
Ni Ping had been waiting for Chen Kaige to give her a decent wedding, but she did not expect that Chen Father's funeral had changed the trajectory of their relationship.
Chen Kaige's father, Chen Huaikai, is a well-known director in the mainland, and his funeral is naturally indispensable to the colleagues in the industry to come to the funeral, and it was also at that funeral that Chen Kaige met chen Hong, the daughter of his father's deceased friend, chen Kaige said in a later interview: I am particularly sorry for one thing, my mother does not know Chen Hong!
As soon as such words were uttered, Ni Ping, who had always regarded herself as a daughter-in-law, did not know how to feel? Coupled with the fact that Chen Hong was also a fan of Chen Kaige and indulged in his charm, the two began to darken Chen Cang since then, and soon after Chen Hong had two children.
Chen Kaige found Ni Ping with Chen Hong, who had a big belly, and proposed to break up.
After the breakup, Chen Kaige turned around and married Chen Hong.
Not long after the two were married, Ni Ping wrote a book, so that the marriage of Chen Kaige and Chen Hong was criticized by everyone.
One has become a negative person, and the other has become a "little three" that everyone shouts and beats.
In her autobiography "Days", Ni Ping described her relationship with Chen Kaige for eight years:
"It was a time of no self-esteem, a time of loss of self, a day of trampling on the order of life, a day of degradation of life, a day of soul surrender.
It was as if his intestines had been washed with ash, because he had told me many times, marry me, and follow me!
He said so sincerely, so persistently, so sincerely, that is, he delayed mentioning the marriage. ”
Later, in the program, Lu Yu interviewed Chen Hong!
Lu Yu was not afraid of death, and dared to ask anything: "Do you know how Ni Ping wrote about you in the book?" ”
Chen Hong nodded, and then said very indifferently, "I know, but most of what she wrote about her and Chen Kaige was something about sesame rotten grain." ”
Lu Yu threw out a "bombshell"!
"In the book, she (Ni Ping) seems to mention that you are a third party in their feelings, what do you think about this matter?"
Chen Hong smiled slightly: "Some people write books to make money, and deliberately write him as a negative person that little girls like." ”
"But actually, none of those women have ever been loved because I know him so well that it only shows that the women in this book don't have the charm to make men fall in love with them."
In a word, there are needles hidden in the cotton.
A sentence domineering side leak.
The victorious gesture of the last laugher is in front of him.
And what is even more admirable is that after marrying Chen Hong, Chen Kaige did not have a warbler and swallow around him, and he was also obedient to Chen Hong, winning the reputation of a strong woman with a magic husband, which made people sigh.
@Dahao's life
Ni Ping blindly paid humble and silently in love, but did not exchange Chen Kaige's sincerity.
Love is equal, it needs mutual respect, blindly humble, in exchange for the other party's dislike and abandonment of you.
Only by not being humble in love and being yourself can you find your own happiness.
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