Theme: What are some truths in life that you regret not knowing earlier? Parenting before self-parenting: I used to think that children would grow naturally, follow the traditional way of education, and listen to the educational experience of those around them

Theme: What are some truths in life that you regret not knowing earlier?

Parenting before self-rearing: I once thought that children would grow naturally, follow the traditional way of education, listen to the educational experience of the people around them, and copy the pattern in the book.

Thinking that I can follow the guidance of the teacher, my parents advise, my academic performance is also good, and there is no big problem in the relationship with the people around me.

The occasional relationship is not harmonious and does not have much impact on their own lives, isn't that the case with a husband and wife relationship? Even our family relationship was not bad.

I have also been aware of some of my own patterns, wondering if I have done nothing wrong, but being criticized by others, or somewhat despising others, and so on.

Naively thinking that these are just my own patterns and will not affect my lover and children, but I neglect to grow up.

Knowing a lot about psychology early on is actually important for guiding us, being aware of the behavioral patterns behind our emotions, and understanding our relationship with the world around us.

I am the root of everything, the famous psychologist Zhang Defen said: Dear, there is no one else outside, only yourself!

Relationships with the people around you, intimate relationships, personal relationships, relationships with yourself come first, relationships with yourself are good, and everything else goes well.

I remember reading an article that said that a father was going to give a speech, the child was playing on the side, the father was conceiving, did not want to be disturbed by the child, and let the child spell a map of the world.

However, the child was quickly put together, and the father felt incredible. Asked how the child can put together the world map so quickly, the child said that the back of the world map is a portrait, the portrait is spelled, the world map is correct.