The man's wife returned to her mother's house and agreed to come back one day, but came back a day earlier, he felt strange, and asked what was going on? The wife said that she remembered the wrong day, and the man did not care. The next day,

The man's wife returned to her mother's house and agreed to come back one day, but came back a day earlier, he felt strange, and asked what was going on? The wife said that she remembered the wrong day, and the man did not care. The next day, another wife came home, and he was so surprised that he looked for the one from yesterday, which was gone.

The man's name is Zhang Rusheng, who thinks that he is erudite and talented, pays great attention to science, and usually follows the rules and has never made any mistakes. But there is only one thing, this person is too arrogant, and he likes to blame others at every turn.

There was a friend who married a virtuous and virtuous wife at home, but the old mother in the family always deliberately embarrassed his wife and embarrassed his wife, this friend endured for a long time, and one day, he finally spoke for his wife. The old mother cried for three days and three nights because her son spoke for her daughter-in-law, and the noise was well known.

After Zhang Rusheng knew about it, he wrote a letter accusing him: "The younger generation has provoked the elders to be unhappy, and the elders have a few words of reproach, so they talk to the elders, and they really married their daughters-in-law and forgot their mothers." Mencius said: The supremacy of filial piety is greater than that of a relative, and it is not to be a relative, nor to be a person; to be disobedient to a relative, not to be a son. Because my friend thinks it is advised, I remind you, how are you going to write back to me? ”

After a few years, the friend's mother died, and in August she took off her filial piety, and in October she planned to marry a concubine. After Zhang Rusheng knew, he wrote a letter to this friend, accusing him: "Your mother has just died more than three months ago, and you plan to marry a relative, it seems that you have been planning for a long time." During the period of service of a court official, if his parents died, regardless of the person's official position, from the day he learned of the funeral, he must resign and return to his ancestral home to observe filial piety for his parents for three years. Because friends have an obligation to advise, I remind you, how will you answer me? ”

At that time, the motive was extremely strict, and although men did not marry at the time of mourning, they were equivalent to marrying during the mourning period. His views are similar to this, quoting scriptures, embarrassing people, but he does not know it.

One day, Zhang Rusheng's wife returned to her mother's house, agreed to come back one day, but returned a day earlier, he felt strange, so he asked his wife why she came back early, the wife only said that she remembered the wrong day, Zhang Rusheng did not care. The next day, another wife came home, and he was so surprised that he went to look for the one from yesterday, but he couldn't find it anymore.

From this day on, Zhang Rusheng became increasingly emaciated, describing it as withered. In fact, the fox girl pretended to be his wife, ingested his essence, and consumed a lot in one night.

When the friend heard about this, he also wrote him a letter saying: "Xiao Beisheng is newly married, the two little couples are separated for a few days, the wife suddenly came back a day in advance, two people doing husband and wife things can not be said wrong, fox charm pretends to be your wife, you really have no way to know, but you are very hurt in one night, to say that it is not excessive indulgence, it will not be so, right? Can't husband and wife restrain themselves with etiquette in this matter? I have heard that Fox Charm never infringes on virtuous people, such as Zhou Dunyi, Zhang Zai, Zhu Xi... How come I didn't hear they had encountered a fox charm? This fox charm blatantly offends Mr. Mo is not Mr. Morally indebted? Sir is a sage, and it is the great purpose of "Spring and Autumn" to blame the sage for perfection. Friends have an obligation to advise, and I cannot fail to speak my mind. How are you going to answer me, sir? ”

Zhang Rusheng received the letter and quickly said that these were all man-made rumors in the township, and there was no such thing at all.

Xiao Jiu said: "Han Feizi Difficult One": "The Chu people have shields and spears, and the reputation is known: 'The strength of my shield, can not fall into it.'" It is also known as "the benefit of my spear is not in everything." Or: 'How about attacking the shield of the Son with the spear of the Son?' 'Its man, Fernsworthy, should also be. ”

This is the so-called spear of the son, the shield of the attacker, right? Many people like to stand on the moral high ground and reprimand others, saying in a beautiful name: I am for your own good. Then grab someone else's pigtail and hold on, as everyone knows, such an approach will make the friends around you very uncomfortable. #民间故事 #

With the spear of the son and the shield of the attacker, the absurdity of the other party's point of view is exposed, so that the other party lifts the stone and drops it on his own foot.