When the famous performance artist Zhao Lirong remarried, she was strongly opposed by her brother Zhao Lianxi, because Zhao Lirong's remarriage was her ex-husband's brother, that is, her little uncle.
Zhao Lianxi was too feudal, believing that Zhao Lirong's marriage to his younger uncle was too cold, so that later, Zhao Lianxi and Zhao Lirong lived in the front and back yards and no longer spoke, that is, as the saying goes: old and dead do not interact with each other.
Zhao Lianxi opposed his sister's marriage, and his whole heart was that his sister had corrupted the Zhao family's door style and had a bad reputation! Face can't hold back! He did not consider Zhao Lirong's happiness in life, which was really a bit selfish.
In life, there are many people like Zhao Lianxi, who are conservative in their thinking and do not know how to cope. I don't care about the feelings of others, and I delay the happiness of others for the so-called door style and face.
My aunt is such a person.
My mother has five sisters, and she has four sisters on top of her, and she is my eldest, second, third, and fourth aunts.
The second aunt died of illness at the age of 50, leaving her second uncle and three children. Because the second uncle worked in the city and did not have time to take care of the family, the family became a little messy.
A year later, my mother went to visit my second uncle's house and saw her fifteen-year-old little cousin eating cold food and cold food, and her clothes were dirty and torn, and she couldn't help but feel sad.
When my mother thought of her second aunt's life, she regarded her little cousin as a pearl in her hand, cherished and loved her, and did not let her little cousin suffer a little grievance. But now the little cousin, because there is no one to take care of, lives a life of lack of clothes and food!
When the mother returned home, she went to find the third aunt in the same village, and wanted to discuss with the third aunt whether she wanted the second uncle to find a wife to take care of the family and cousin.
The mother and the third aunt talked and reached an agreement. They thought that there was a person who was very suitable to marry my second uncle, and she was my fourth aunt.
When the fourth aunt was thirty-eight years old, her husband died in a car accident. She took a son and a daughter with her and struggled to survive. She was gentle, hardworking and simple, and kind-hearted, and my mother and third aunt liked her.
My mother and third aunt felt that the second uncle worked in the city, earned a lot of money, and had good family conditions. If my fourth aunt marries him, she will not suffer too much. Moreover, my fourth aunt will definitely be good to the children of the second uncle's family.
The two sons of the second uncle's family have become a family, only the little cousin needs to be taken care of, and the fourth aunt will treat the little cousin wholeheartedly.
After my mother and my third aunt discussed it, she was full of joy and felt that if this marriage became a success, the two families would be a happy life! What the best of both worlds!
Therefore, two people did not stop, one person looked for the second uncle, one person looked for the fourth aunt, and asked for the opinions of two people.
Although the second uncle rarely saw the fourth aunt, he agreed to it when he thought of the child. The fourth aunt originally disagreed, but under the persuasion of the third aunt, thinking that the second uncle was a reliable man, she shyly agreed.
My mother and third aunt, full of joy, thought that this marriage could be done, but they did not expect that my aunt was very angry when she learned of their practice!
My aunt said: The sister-in-law marries her brother-in-law, it is really not like words, it will make others talk nonsense, I do not agree! I came out and went in, and I still wanted to face it, and I didn't want others to point to the back of the spine and embarrass the ancestors.
The eldest sister is like a mother! My aunt didn't agree, and my mother and third aunt had no choice but to turn the page on this matter.
Many years later, my mother said to me, your aunt is too feudal and too domineering, and if she had agreed to your fourth aunt's marriage at that time, your fourth aunt would have suffered less and enjoyed more happiness.
My mother said: She once saw the second uncle's remarried wife, dressed in beautiful clothes, with a white and fat face, and it was a very happy look at first glance. My mother was particularly sad, because it should have belonged to the happiness of the fourth aunt!
The fourth aunt has never remarried. It is hard to raise a son and a daughter into a family. At the age of sixty, she fell ill with overwork and died.
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