In 2003, actor Yu Rongguang's father was diagnosed with liver cancer, which had reached an advanced stage and could live for up to three months, Yu Rongguang told the doctor: "We are not treated, go through the discharge procedures and go home." ”
The doctor was astonished that a famous actor did not spend money to treat his father,and he was too filial, and the people around him also pointed out to him.
Yu Rongguang, born in Beijing in 1958, his father is a famous Peking Opera performance artist Yu Mingkui, Yu Rongguang has been influenced by art since he was a child, singing and sitting and playing have a set, learning Peking Opera martial arts, and becoming a national second-level actor at the age of 20.
After entering the acting world, with excellent acting skills, he served as the protagonist of many film and television dramas, representative works are "Kapok Robes", "Three Kingdoms", "King qian", "Chinese criminal police", "Wushen Zhao Zilong" and other more than 80 movies and more than 40 TV series, shaping more than 100 screen characters, not only that, he also did a director, in the entertainment industry for decades, there is no shortage of money to spend.
The relationship with his father is also very deep, and his father is in good health.
Once, when he was filming, he received a call from his family, the news that his father was sick and hospitalized, he was very anxious, hurriedly came home from the field, rushed home, came to the hospital, and asked the doctor about his father's condition.
When he rushed to the hospital, he saw that his brother and the family had a very heavy heart and a very serious expression, and hurriedly asked: "What disease did my father suffer from?" ”
The younger brother said: "My father has cancer, it is already advanced, and the doctor said that he can only live for two months."
He couldn't believe that when he left home, his father was in good health and had suffered from an incurable disease in just a few months.
Rushing to the doctor's office to inquire about his father's condition, he asked the doctor, "Doctor, how long will my father live?"
The doctor told him: "Because the old man is old, the current treatment can only be two programs, one liver replacement, one is chemotherapy, both programs are dangerous, if the operation is successful, it can prolong life, if it fails, it may not be able to get off the operating table."
Yu Rongguang asked, "What if it is not treated?" ”
The doctor said, "That's about two months at most,"
Yu Rongguang did not dare to imagine that if according to the doctor's plan, whether his father had surgery or liver replacement, it would not only be very risky, but also suffer great pain, and after painful thinking, he said to the doctor: "Since this is the case, then go through the discharge procedures, let's go home and treat it conservatively."
Despite the doctor's persuasion, Yu Rongguang took his father home.
He did not tell his father the truth, and he asked him, "What disease have I suffered from?" Yu Rongguang said to his father: It is a small problem, otherwise how could the doctor let you be discharged? Let's have a good drink in the evening, celebrate, and wish Dad a speedy recovery."
Since the son said so, the doctor let himself be discharged, Yu Rongguang's father also completely relaxed his heart, believed in his son's words, there must be no major problems in the body, and drank with his son, drank freely, and the mood was much better.
In this way, Yu Rongguang accompanied his father, talked to his father, took his father for a walk, and accompanied his father through the last time.
As a result, Yu Rongguang's father actually lived 7 years longer than the doctor said, and really earned every day.
In 2010, when Yu Rongguang's father was almost 80 years old, the cancer cells had spread to the whole body, and he told his father the truth, and his father not only did not blame him, but thanked him very much: "Son, thank you, if you had told me the disease earlier, I may not have lived now, these seven years, you earned for your father."
Later, people learned that Yu Rongguang had good intentions, he was really filial to his father, and he did this, and Yu Rongguang's mother also praised her son for his true filial piety.
@ Blue Sorrow The real filial piety is to make the individual less painful when the elderly are sick and painful, try to alleviate the pain of the elderly, accompany the elderly, and let the elderly spend their last time less painfully.
Before Ni Ping's grandmother died, the doctor asked her: "Do you want to get on a ventilator?" Ni Ping said: "Say no", she knows, on the ventilator, the old man will be very painful, she can't bear the old man's body full of tubes in the pain of struggling, her grandmother, soon died, will never suffer again.
Ma Weidu's father was suffering from terminal cancer and was full of tubes, and the father begged his son: "Son, I can't cure this disease, don't cure it, I'm too uncomfortable, pull out all the tubes."
Despite the opposition of his family, Ma Weidu obeyed his father's words and pulled out the tube, and four days later, his father died, and the old man could suffer less.
True filial piety to the elderly, we should let the elderly when they are alive, time to accompany the elderly, let the elderly spend their old age at ease, in the last moments of the elderly, do not let the elderly so painful, do not leave regrets. Are you saying that's the case? #娱鉴计划 #
