Unmarried young people are both looking forward to and afraid of going home for the New Year, looking forward to seeing their parents and Fa Xiao, sharing a happy time with everyone, and afraid of the interrogation of the seven aunts and eight aunts, especially the fact that there is no object, which is even more maddening.
Especially young men, isn't being single the norm? But the relatives don't think so, they are more anxious than the parties, it is really "the emperor is not anxious eunuchs are anxious." Some relatives will also set "punishment" measures for those single dogs.
On February 5, Mr. Chen of Liuzhou, Guangxi Province, was "punished" by his relatives at home once because he was unmarried: washing the dishes and chopsticks of 40 people, Mr. Chen washed for two hours, shouting: You are driving me away, I want to run away from home.
According to insiders, Mr. Chen is 28 years old this year, working outside all year round, usually very busy, no time to find a partner, so every year back to his hometown for the New Year, Mr. Chen is a person back to his hometown.
People who are about the same age as Mr. Chen have been married and have children, and every year when they go home, the children of the same age are called Mr. Chen "uncle" or "uncle", which makes Mr. Chen even more helpless, plus the marriage of the seven aunts and eight aunts, which is even more head-scratching.
Mr. Chen's family is a large family, and every new Year's Day, dozens of people gather to eat together. When the relatives saw that Mr. Chen was still alone and returned to his hometown, they smiled and said that they wanted to "punish" him, let him remember sex longer, and get married early.
Relatives asked Mr. Chen to wash dishes and wash the dishes for 40 people, and Mr. Chen thought that the relatives were also joking to scare him, so he agreed. Mr. Chen boiled hot water, washed the dishes three times, and washed them for two hours, during which no one came to help.
Mr. Chen found that this "punishment" was indeed a substantial "punishment", not just talking, and could not help but laugh at himself at the relatives standing next to him: You are trying to drive me away, I am going to run away from home.
The relatives looked at him with a smile, and none of them paid any attention to him. Mr. Chen only then knew that not getting married was originally abused in this way, is this what people say about abusing single dogs? I finally experienced it myself.
Netizens saw that Mr. Chen was abused to wash dishes, and they couldn't help but be both funny and deeply touched, and they left comments one after another.
Some netizens said: Brother listen to a word of advice, single or not has nothing to do with anyone, they are not qualified to laugh at you. Next time you go home, don't be single and do these things they ask for (unless we help the family share the chores ourselves and do it as we wish).
Some netizens said helplessly: Is the world so malicious to single people?
Some netizens feel the same way: I can understand that the sisters and sisters of the entire family are married, and I am not married.
Some netizens shouted: Mom, there is a reason to run away from home.
Mr. Chen's encounter is not an isolated case, some time ago I wrote an article about unmarried young people in Ganzhou, Jiangxi Province, who were arranged to wash wells, which is also aimed at unmarried young people, which shows that single dogs are abused everywhere.
In fact, I believe that many single young people do not want to find a partner, but the object is really difficult to find, and the cost of marriage is also large, so many people hold a natural attitude, they seem to be less enthusiastic about marriage.
The anxiety of parents and elders can also be understood, as the saying goes, "men should marry, women should marry", when they reach the age of starting a family, of course, they must start a family, and if they miss this time period, they may be left behind.
However, marriage events are not urgent, if you do not meet the right person, reluctantly married is not necessarily happy, rather than getting married and going to divorce, it is better to carefully consider before marriage, cautious marriage.
Marriage is a lifelong thing, not sloppy, not sloppy, or that sentence, belongs to you sooner or later will come, does not belong to your demands can not come, so, maintain an optimistic attitude, wait for the person in life to appear.