My wife urgently needed surgery, so I discussed with my son and daughter: "The operation fee and the hospitalization fee are shared equally between your brothers and sisters, so that one person will be sixty thousand, and you will also bear it." "I didn't expect my daughter to be

My wife urgently needed surgery, so I discussed with my son and daughter: "The operation fee and the hospitalization fee are shared equally between your brothers and sisters, so that one person will be sixty thousand, and you will also bear it." I didn't expect my daughter to say, "I can't pay for the operation, you now know that your son and daughter are evenly shared, why didn't you think so six years ago?" At that time, I told you not to look for me in the future! ”

My daughter, who has been raising me for so many years, was able to say such a thing to me, and I was so angry that my head was dizzy, and I said, "I am now asking you to pay for the operation for your mother!" Not a sightseeing trip! If you don't want to give, I will not have such a girl as you! Your conscience is letting the dog eat it! ”

I am sixty-seven years old this year, my wife is two years younger than me, and we have not had any major problems in our health, but after all, we are older, and many things are not enough. But fortunately, when we were young, we struggled with a house, there were eight or nine million savings, originally thought that these were enough for us to retire, but the day did not go according to people's wishes, a year ago, my wife suddenly fell ill and was hospitalized, and then the doctor suggested that we first treat conservatively, and after being discharged from the hospital, we took medicine for more than a year, but recently it was suddenly serious, and the doctor said that it could only be operated on as soon as possible, otherwise there would be a danger to life.

But we only have eight or nine million savings, one is not enough for surgery, and the other is that we don't want to use up our pension money, so my wife and I decided to let the two children share the cost equally. But I didn't expect my daughter to disappoint me so much.

I have a son and a daughter, my son is called Bin Bin, and the unit where I stayed before changed from a private enterprise to a state-owned enterprise, and there is a career establishment. The daughter's name is Yan Yan, she is an accountant, and her income is also very ideal.

In the past, Yan Yan ran home without anything to do, came back to eat the meal made by our old two mouths, said that it was good to eat this bite, and did not eat for a few days to panic. Now our relationship has developed like this. I also know that Yan Yan is still blaming us.

Six years ago, our old yard was demolished, we divided a million, at that time Bin Bin just gave birth to a second child, want to change to a bigger house, we thought we wanted this million is useless, did not consult with Yan Yan, gave a million to Bin Bin. We didn't think much about it, after all, the old saying is to raise children and prevent old age, saying that the son can count on giving us the old two pensions, and every household in our side also thinks so, and the money is left to the son.

But thinking that Yan Yan has been taking care of us, daughter, more careful, we don't know how to open our mouths. When we were not ready to tell Yan Yan, Yan Yan knew about this matter first, and ran home and asked us angrily: "I originally thought that this million came down, you two old people took it, enjoy the happiness, I did not have the idea of playing this money, but why did you secretly give this money to my brother without me?" If my brother hadn't slipped his lips, how long would you have been going to hide it from me? The same parents, why are they so partial to my brother? Just because my brother is a son? ”

We also felt a little guilty, so we explained: "Yan Yan, your brother just gave birth to a second child, you know, they used to be in that house, and when the children grow up, they can't live in it, so they are anxious to change a big one, I and your mother think that it is useless for you to ask for money now, so I will give it to your brother first." ”

My daughter then cried and said, "Mommy and Daddy, listen to what you say, who in this world will ask for money and be useless except for the dead?" What things don't need to spend money, my children are also going to school, you don't make excuses for your eccentricity, even if you give me three hundred thousand, give my brother seven hundred thousand, even if you have an account for me, so many years, your health has not been very good, my brother works in the city, how many times a year can you come back? Aren't I taking care of you? I have no credit and hard work, right? You actually don't think about me at all, take ten thousand steps back and say, even if I don't care, what do you want my in-laws to think? You've let me down so much. ”

Our old two were unable to say a word from Yan Yan, and when Yan Yan left, she coldly said to us: "Since you only recognize your son, then don't look for me in the future, look for my brother." ”

We know that she is wronged, but we thought it would be good to live for a month or two, but we didn't expect that since then, Yan Yan basically didn't come back to see us, only to buy something on the second day of the New Year and come back to sit down, and it didn't take long to leave. My wife and I are really sad, we are her parents, hard work to raise her to grow up, life has never been missing anything from her, but she is now even unwilling to pay for her wife's surgery because of this matter, and she is too unconscionable, and her wife's condition can no longer be delayed, what should I do?

@ Single journey: Parents are sick, children should take their parents to see a doctor, but what you did before is too eccentric, when you give money, you only think about your son, and when you want money, you want your son and daughter to share equally, which no one will accept. You said that you have not lacked anything from her in life since you were a child, but you certainly have not lacked anything from your son, as a parent, you can't say that you should pay for your children, but at least you must do a bowl of water, right? Your wife's illness can not drag on, it is recommended that you first let your son pay all the cost of the operation, and then sincerely get the forgiveness of your daughter, a family, harmony is the most important.