"In the World of Man" Zhou Jia Bai Nian said two truths, the reality is sad, and the heartache is Bingkun and Zheng Juan
Twelve years later, the Zhou family once gathered together for the Spring Festival, watching the scene of their neighbors greeting each other, evoking memories of 70 or 80 years. At that time, the New Year had a New Year's flavor, and now the New Year has no New Year's flavor at all, and there are few people on the street, either to play everywhere or to play mahjong.
Zhou Zhigang took a family to visit the New Year, and the scene was really spectacular, neatly arranged with a large family, including two Peking University students, a poet's son-in-law and the daughter-in-law of a provincial governor's daughter.
However, it is the Zhou family who go door to door to visit the New Year, telling the two truths of reality and heartache, and the heartache is Zhou Bingkun and Zheng Juan.
First, even if the children who are not filial piety are liked by their parents, the children who are not filial will be ignored
After the New Year's Greeting, Zhou Bingkun held his breath in his stomach, talking to his brother and father were yin and yang, and the last big family was unhappy and dispersed. In fact, clear-eyed people know what is going on, and it is obvious that Bingkun is inferior and aggrieved.
First of all, the eldest brother and the second sister have a career, to the family, parents to win glory, only they are just a worker, not to mention that the north and Dalian serious universities have not been admitted. Of course, the premise is that he did not go to the exam at all, because a large number of children are dependent on him to take care of, how can he have leisure time to review the exam!
Neighbors praise the two children of the Zhou family every time, you say that as an old knotty Bingkun, can you not be awkward in your heart? Parents are also smiling on their lips, no one has mentioned the difficulty and hardship of the younger son, which is the second Bingkun feels wronged.
Obviously, they are carrying the weight for the family, otherwise how can they study and take the exam with peace of mind, but in the end, no one is alone. It's not that Zhou Bingkun's heart is small, it is originally such a truth, this family counts him and Zheng Juan to pay the most, but no one mentions how it is possible not to be wronged.
They all say: Where there are good years, it is just someone who carries the weight for you. Bingkun is the one who carries the weight of the Zhou family forward, and even his wife is also ignored by people with hard work.
Don't say that Zhou Bingkun himself is willing to talk like this, he is willing to be his business, you can't feel that you should take it for granted, you can't just black and white without mentioning it. Whether or not someone is willing to give, the rest of you still have to be grateful for what he has done to this family.
This may be the reality, the child is no longer filial piety as long as there are parents like, it is because to give them a face to win the glory, and the child around the child who is not filial piety will be ignored and not valued. But in the end, the most bitter, the most tired and unflattering is the filial piety around him.
Second, only the other half can accompany and hurt themselves
When the neighbor praised the two college students in the Zhou family, Zhou Bingkun was obviously uncomfortable because he had low self-esteem. But at this time, the parents enjoyed the glory brought by the eldest and the second, and did not care about the feelings of the younger son at all, and the others were also happy, except for Zheng Juan and Zhou Nan who gave Bingkun a little comfort.
The first time Zheng Juan noticed Bingkun's discomfort, but she did not react to it, afraid of stimulating him more and more, just looking at her husband in pain. From this look, it can be seen that Zheng Juan is a good woman and a good wife, she understands her husband and feels sorry for him.
But the sting of Zhou Bingkun can be more than this time, because to give everyone a New Year's greeting, as long as every prayer will be exaggerated once, the damage to Zhou Bingkun will deepen again. Watching her husband become more and more uncomfortable, Zheng Juan tightly held Bingkun's hand, and even Zhou Nan understood her father's embarrassment and difficulty, so she extended her small hand into Bingkun's big hand.
Holding the hands of his wife and children, Bingkun felt more or less comforted in his heart, he was not nothing, with his beloved people by his side and such a caring son, he was greatly comforted.
Therefore, the person whose parents are close to your brothers and sisters, who can accompany you and understand that you are not easy, is only the person next to you after all. Can accompany you throughout your life, only your wife, which is one of the reasons why you should be distressed and stand on the side of your wife, of course, the premise is to see whether this woman is worth it, Zheng Juan is too worth it.
Watching the Zhou family's parents and the eldest and second eldest accept the praise of others with peace of mind, while Zheng Juan and Bingkun silently went home to cook and carry water, it was really painful.