There are many couples in "The World of Man", just take the three children of the Zhou family, Zhou Bingyi and Dongmei, Zhou Rong and Feng Huacheng, are all enviable marriages. But Dongmei and Zhou Rong were not happy. Dongmei was caught between her mother's family and her in-laws' family, and Zhou Rong wanted to be close to her daughter, and they all envied Zheng Juan at this time. Dongmei envied that she could get Zhou Zhigang's appreciation, and Zhou Rong was jealous that Yue yue liked Zheng Juan.
In fact, in the whole drama, the most pitiful is Zheng Juan, but the happiest person is also Zheng Juan. She is really the one who can swallow the suffering and finally let it blossom.
1, do not forget the original intention
Zheng Juan did not expect to marry Zhou Bingkun at first. In the eyes of outsiders, she was the murderer's wife, a widow, with a child and a blind brother, with no job. How can she be worthy of Zhou Bingkun, who is a worker?
However, she missed Zhou Bingkun for her efforts and always wanted to repay him. At this time, Zhou's mother was lying on the bed with a cerebral hemorrhage, and Zhou Bingkun needed help, and she stepped forward.
For two and a half years, she has been conscientious and unslack, even if Bingkun is imprisoned, she has not neglected Zhou Mu and Yue Yue. She always helped Bingkun support the Zhou family with gratitude.
Later, she was recognized by Zhou's father and finally married Bingkun, but she did not forget her original intention. She still handles the housework of the whole family, serving Mother Zhou and taking care of Yue Yue. In the New Year, everyone returned, and they laughed and laughed in the house, while she was pregnant and Chinese New Year's Eve a large family.
Think about it, how many people can be the same as ever? Many people do treat others with gratitude at the beginning, but after a long time, he will slowly forget his original intention, so he complains, and then his heart begins to be unbalanced, he begins to calculate, gets angry, and keeps turning his face with people.
And Zheng Juan? She has never forgotten her original idea, even if she becomes the "pillar" of this family, she is not pampered and proud, and still silently supports this family.
Do not forget the original heart, often with gratitude, so that Zheng Juan did not complain, only pay, the heart has always been calm.
2. Contentment and happiness
Zheng Juan's happiness also lies in her understanding of foot and happiness.
The three children of the Zhou family, Zhou Bingyi read Peking University, and his daughter-in-law Dongmei was still the daughter of a high-ranking official; Zhou Rong read Peking University and married a famous poet; their brothers and sisters were beautiful in front of outsiders, while Bingkun and himself were looked down upon. In the face of such "inequality", she never cares, but quietly guards her own little happiness.
She helped Bingkun sell tobacco and alcohol, made money, and added gifts to everyone, and she said happily: It feels good to spend the money she earns.
In the New Year, Zhou Zhigang took everyone to visit the New Year, and others praised his eldest son and daughter, but she did not have an imbalance in her heart, but found an opportunity to cook with Bingkun.
In fact, human suffering often comes from comparison. Take Zhou Bingkun's six little gentlemen, at the beginning everyone started almost the same, so they can play happily together, but later with Qiao Chunyan's promotion, Chuan and Lu Yang admitted to college, the gap between everyone is getting bigger and bigger, so some people feel that they are no longer happy.
For example, Wu Qian, when she saw Qiao Chunyan living in a building, and her family of eight nestled in two rough rooms, her heart was unbalanced.
But Zheng Juan would not. No matter how beautiful and happy the eldest brother and Zhou Rong lived, she did not envy, let alone be jealous, but to find a way to run her own little life.
It is also her contentment and happiness that makes Bingkun have the courage to resign and start a business, and their life will get better and better.
Contentment allows you to calm down and choose the path that suits you. And jealousy can only make you lose your way and overwhelmed.
3. Strong inside
Zheng Juan's happiness comes from her inner strength.
At that time, she encountered misfortune and did not seek death and life, but accepted it calmly. She said that in the face of suffering, others can get by, and they will certainly be able to get by.
She was pregnant and did small odd jobs to earn a meager income. Although she lives in poverty, she also has to live a decent year, so she will remove and wash the cotton clothes and quilts, and only then will bingkun fall in love with her at first sight.
Later, she took the child to help Bingkun and did not care about the pointing of others at her. She said to the light, don't listen to that, sing.
Bingkun was arrested, did not know when to come out, she did not cry, but with the strength of one person to support the whole family, carefully calculated, 200 yuan after half a year.
In the preview, Luo Shibin appeared, and he saw that Zheng Juan had later given birth to a son, so he thought of returning his son. Zheng Juan did not want to give it to him, so Bingkun accidentally pushed him downstairs, so he went to prison and was sentenced to 13 years.
In the face of such an encounter, anyone will lament the injustice of fate. But Zheng Juan was not knocked down, and still took good care of the family, waiting for him to come out.
In the whole drama, Zheng Juan is unfortunate, but she lives the happiest. Because she will not compare herself with others, do not expect things that do not belong to her, but keep the happiness she has and live her own little life.
Only by paying attention to yourself can you reap happiness.