The preferred article of the Jane Book is recommended for article 627
The author of the jane book is | Rose Maiden
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The biggest headache is going home
I don't know when our biggest headache is to go home, especially after returning home, a group of so-called relatives who don't know where they come from will be extremely "enthusiastic" to "boo and ask for warmth." ”
From their academic performance as a child to their current work performance, their sense of smell is a must, because they always appear at some untimely time.
From your company's dress code to your company's future development plans, you will even suspect that this is an undercover relative rather than a boss?
We have also gone from being well-behaved at the beginning to the current example. To put it bluntly, the thickness of the skin has increased qualitatively.
Especially when the results of our out-of-the-road wandering for several years are not so satisfactory, these greetings can be called hospice care.
And now for those of us young people (because we are really not young anymore), there are two of the most deadly questions that we are most afraid of being asked. One is an income salary, and the other is nothing more than a personal issue. Once these two issues are mentioned, the parties who have a good mix of family members will not be counted. The most shocking thing is nothing more than the "dick silk" in this kind of society like me.
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The most annoying thing was asking
I don't know how other people cope with the flow or are not afraid of boiling water.
I myself am definitely not afraid of boiling hot fighters.
I used to go home and hear my neighbors ask me when I came back, and how much money did I earn this year? Earn a lot of money for your parents. Then revealed a mysterious smile, when I was young, I really thought it was a comforting smile, and now I see that smile only "meaningful", worthy of the "Mona Lisa's smile" of the 21st century, but it should be called "meaningful laughter".
Before I went home and asked about this, I first smiled at the countryside with a thick rural simple smile and then answered honestly. Every time at such times, I see a touch of "love" in the eyes of my parents that "you still have a face to say".
And now in society, people who are crawling and rolling are struck by reality with a hammer and then drilled with an electric drill. Then after the tempering of stabbing and stabbing with a dagger, there was no longer the simple and thick countryside smile of the past. In its place is a calm and sophisticated "treacherous laugh".
What is not good is that the money is not earned, but the face is getting thicker and thicker every day.
My acting skills have also become more and more pure, and I feel that I can get the best group performance when I go to Hengdian.
Then I hear those "eager" voices ask me, "How much did I make this year?" I immediately put on a polite and polite smile and opened my mouth to say, "Average, not particularly good, it's just two hundred thousand." Then you will see the enthusiastic person's facial muscles twitch a few times, and then he will ask in a sharp voice, "Did the boyfriend talk?" When will I get married", a few cold hums in my heart is my signature smile "Hmm... Not yet, I'm afraid he'll take my money." The enthusiastic man left behind an embarrassed and determined back and left.
After people leave, their faces are immediately blue and white, sometimes mixed with some purple.
The fact is that a dime deposit has not been repaid hundreds of thousands of debts, and banks and lending institutions call me every day to sue me. So far, I am stable and single, I like my own disdain, and people who look at me do not want me. It was hard to be happy with each other and thought that they had met love, but the other party asked me if I wanted to invest. In addition, the circle is particularly stable, either the company or the house, and I just want to lie down when I rest, and I want to rest as soon as I go to work.
When it comes to making money, it is better to say that as long as people are healthy, they are not afraid of not making money. If you can't make a lot of money, can you still starve yourself to death, it doesn't exist.
But... Speaking of feelings, when it comes to marriage, what is wrong with us?
Is it really too busy to have time? My job is really busy enough for you to break up with someone. Several times the object of introduction by others proposed to eat and get to know each other, I said that I would work overtime, and the other party dropped a sentence of "Then your salary is very high" and disappeared. And my salary almost never sees the figure of 8.
Is it true that no one likes it? How could it be, I'm not ugly.
Is your vision too picky? No, I didn't ask him to have a home and a car deposit with 6 figures, I didn't even ask him to be handsome. I just want him to know how to take care of me, when I'm sad, when I'm wronged, when I need him. Can give me a sense of belonging, a warmth to me working alone in the stone forest, this requirement, is not excessive, right?
3
What you crave most is love
So, why are we all single and unwilling to get married?
I think it is the pressure of this society on young people, it is really the end of countless disappointments, and it is too disappointing to most of the examples of love.
Now man's love begins extremely hastily, and ends so easily.
I've seen the phrase "When I saw a strange man and woman kissing fiercely at the wine table because of a game, I felt that the love of this era was really disgusting." "I can't deny that I cried when I saw this sentence.
When the male and female protagonists in "Descendants of the Sun" came to life from television, so many people said they believed in love, and when the marriage ended, it was almost the same group of people who said they no longer believed in love.
You see, the love we want comes from the influence of idols.
The happiness of a few friends around me when they got married was really enviable, and they wondered if they would look like they would be in a white wedding dress one day. And then, still alone.
It didn't take long for the divorce of the divorce, the affair of the affair, and the scene was also extremely embarrassing.
This society is harsh on men, requiring him to have a house, a car and a deposit in his early 20s, obedience and filial piety and gentleness. But why have you been merciful to women? Require women to be white and beautiful, require women to be three from four virtues, will dress up and not appear frivolous, go to the kitchen under the hall, earn money and take care of the home, loyal and unswerving, it is best to understand the husband's flowers and plants. I would like to ask, which one of us is easy?
This society will never sympathize with you because you are weak, nor will it care for you because you are pitiful.
This society has always been the predation of the weak, and even if you take a break, you may be eliminated.
The mutual use of friends, the hostility between girlfriends, the open and secret struggles in the workplace, the competition between colleagues, and even the entanglement of interests between lovers. Whenever we have time to find love, we are exhausted from patronizing and playing with life. Love became a spice, not a necessity.
In the past, the two parties to the marriage had never even met, there was no sky-high bride price, no luxury car and bungalow, and our fathers and fathers had supported each other all the way through, from green silk to white hair.
The current marriage requires hundreds of thousands of dowries, and the caravan must add my name if it is not enough. Despite this, many people get married within three days of marriage. Marriage becomes a buying and selling transaction, no longer the companionship and comfort of two people.
I have seen too many because the man can not take the bride price at the wedding scene to turn the face and break up, and I have seen too many girls accompany the boy's nothing but be dumped when his life shines, you say who is wrong and who is right? Are you saying it's love?
I love you all my life before going to bed, and we don't fit in after we get out of bed.
I will definitely marry you to put on the wedding dress for you, and later, the person who should have put on the wedding dress sat on the stage at the wedding scene and cried tearing his heart and lungs.
Love, love is even the feeling of love.
Marriage, a marriage in which the sale and purchase transaction is carried out in the name of love.
Why don't we want to get married? Is it because we have no feelings? No. Is it because we don't need love? No. Is it because there is no love? No. Is it because you can't get married without money? Nor is it.
It's because we're all scared.
We are afraid of being deceived, afraid of really paying in the end to become a joke, afraid of serious people losing first, afraid of feelings being ruined, sincerely being squandered, forever becoming a distant place that cannot be reached, and promises have become a weapon of ridicule. We look stronger, but we are actually more vulnerable and timid. We are all afraid of love and can't help it, and we don't have a disease.
We are all tempting, all measuring, all calculating. We no longer have pure love, so how can we start marriage?
We are more afraid that we will get used to that person, understand that person, adapt, be down-to-earth, decide, but suddenly be thrown away.
We are afraid to re-understand with a person, to adapt, to run into... Cycle. Really tired.
It's not that we don't want to get married, it's that we're all afraid. Is that right?
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