Recently, the boyfriend and his parents came to our house to discuss marriage matters, dad asked the boyfriend's family for 300,000 dowry money, did not expect the boyfriend to happily agree. As a result, on the day of the wedding, my father did something that made me unable to lift my head in my in-laws' house...
My name is Gao Xiaoxiao, I am 27 years old, after graduating from undergraduate, I worked as an English teacher in a school. I am the child of a divorced family, and my parents divorced when I was 9 years old, so I especially longed for a love that would never be lost.
My boyfriend and I are college alumni, we met at a student conference, and he was one of them when I spoke on behalf of the student council.
After the meeting that day, the president waved to me: "Little, introduce a new member to you, this is our professional school grass, Li Wei." "Weizi, this is the successor of the president of our student council, Little."
Li Wei and I met in this way, and later because of the contact with the student union, we became acquainted with each other. One day, he invited us to dinner in the whole dormitory, and in front of everyone, he confessed to me, and we began to fall in love from a meal. Of course, there was also a breakup in the middle, and then we went around and we came together again.
At the New Year, Weizi asked me: "Little, we have been talking for three years, it is time to settle down, I want to take my parents to your house to propose, you see, how many bride price we should prepare is appropriate." Hearing himself mention the marriage matter, I was very happy, and quickly replied: "My eldest sister got married last year was 100,000 dowry, dowry 50,000, my married father must not hope to be lower than her, then your family will give 200,000 dowry!" The boyfriend listened and nodded, without saying anything.
A week later, the boyfriend came to our house with his parents, his father and uncle brought Weizi to the living room, Weizi's parents just sat down, the father spoke: "Weizi, this bride price, Xiao Xiao told me, said you discussed 200,000, but I considered it, 200,000 is a little less, I am a father and a mother, it is difficult to raise her, send her to college, this year and year, she finally went to work to earn money, and she can also do a filial piety for my father." But this has only been in society for a year, and I am going to marry you, and after this marriage, it will be your family. In this way, you will add 100,000 more dowries and give 300,000. ”
When hearing the 300,000 bride price, Weizi's parents instantly darkened their faces, and Weizi's face became ugly. The uncle saw the situation and immediately said: "Big sister, ask you for a dowry of 300,000, it is not for us, after all, this is for the small, the little and The Weizi are two mouths later, this money is not equivalent to the Weizi well!" And then we will also give a small 150,000 dowry, so that we both have face. You say yes! ”
Weizi's parents wanted to say something, but they were stopped by their boyfriend. The boyfriend smiled and said: "Uncle, OK, according to what you said, we have a dowry of 300,000, then you will marry 150,000, today's meal is even if we set a meal, the dowry money on the wedding day, I took the cash to pick her up." At that time, you will also take out 150,000 cash to Xiaoxiao, so that everyone can see it, we all have face, right! ”
My father and uncle immediately agreed when they heard this, and they happily closed their mouths. I was also very happy, I didn't expect to talk for so long, finally we are going to get married, the boyfriend is still so good at things, so we set the wedding on May Day, at the Royal Hotel.
After the parents met, my father, uncle and aunt began to prepare for my marriage. Relatives and friends know that the boyfriend's family gave us a 300,000 dowry, and my father also had to marry 150,000, all said that I was so powerful, and I became a little rich woman at the moment of marriage, listening to their jokes, but I happily closed my mouth.
The time flew fast, and in the blink of an eye, I got up early to put on makeup, and my father also prepared 10 wedding cars, which really felt so happy at that time.
At eight o'clock, Weizi's kissing car successively entered the village, a total of 20 Audis, the people in the village looked at me and envied that I had found a good boyfriend, and my heart was also happy to blossom.
As soon as Weizi arrived at my house, he went to my father to perform a ceremony, and took out the 300,000 cash that he said, causing the people in the village to exclaim, his father was just about to take it, Weizi said: "Uncle, this money is for xiaozi, I want to see you even add 150,000 cash you said, personally give it to xiaoxiao, do you see it?" ”
"Weizi, I have a national commemorative medal, this is used as a dowry, and the appreciation space in the future is immeasurable!" Definitely a lot more than 150,000, you can rest assured! "I didn't expect my father to say this at the critical time, and everyone in the village felt ridiculous, and I felt that I couldn't accept it after hearing it."
Although Wei zi did not say anything on the surface, his face was full of unhappiness. Although the wedding was held as usual, the atmosphere was extremely awkward. Because of my father's foolishness, I could not lift my head at my mother-in-law's house.
Now I cut off contact with my father and told him not to come to my house in the future, and I would not ask him about it anymore. Do you say he didn't take my daughter seriously at all?
@Xiao Wang is very self-motivated SzqZ This is the real situation of my sister, in response to her things, I would like to say what I think:
(1) What your father did is really wrong, marriage is not a sale, nor is it a transaction, and the promise must be done. You can't just say no, it's not good for your daughter's marriage.
(2) Your boyfriend's approach is too direct and has not considered a little bad consequence, which is also the reason for the deterioration of your relationship, and also let everyone find the topic of gossip.
(3) Filial piety comes first, you and your father cut off contact, what you do is too extreme. Although he is at fault, he is your father, and as a child, he has the obligation to care for him and cannot ignore your father.
(4) Women's marriage is not a sale, not a child's play, want to marry never lose contact, each other must be honest with each other!
Women are married, there is too much helplessness, the mother's family is not doing well, the in-laws will often nag; in order to live better, we must often comfort ourselves, the text is small because of the dowry money, she is not a person inside and outside.
If it were something like this, what would you do?
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