Tutored the child with an assignment and almost sent me away! The doctor silenced me for three months [tearfully] I was the father of a second-grader who was busy at work and couldn't take care of the family. Wife one

Tutored the child with an assignment and almost sent me away! The doctor silenced me for three months [tears]

I am the father of a second-year student, and I am usually busy at work and cannot take care of the family. The wife was alone with two children, a second grader and a two-year-old.

Originally planned to wait for September this year, Xiao Bao went to kindergarten to let his wife go out to work. My wife was very happy and discussed with me: when she went to work, we would take turns picking up the children and helping with homework. However, something happened recently that completely changed my mind!

Recently, the weather has been hot and cold, Xiaobao has a cold and fever of 38.8, and his wife wants to take the child to get injections. Call me to pick up the boss and stress let me watch him finish his homework.

I readily agreed. Won't you just pick up a child? When he got home and asked him to do his homework, he said that his mother always let him drink water first. Then drink it! Pouring him a glass of water, he walked around with the glass, putting down the glass and poking the toy, poking at the green plants in the house.

Half an hour has passed, and the water is cold, and there are still half a cup left! I watched from the side in a hurry, "Don't drink if you are not thirsty, hurry up and write your homework!" I forced my temper and was pleasant to him.

He put down his cup, picked up his bag and went into the study, and I followed suit, and I always remembered that my wife let me stare at him to do my homework! I saw him put his bag on the chair next to his desk, grop inside for half a day, and then he took out the books, stationery bags, and homework books.

My temper is on the verge of erupting, can you please hurry up? Finish your homework and eat! Hearing my words, he sped up and placed his bag on the ground next to him. Open the book, open the book, take out the pen, stare at the homework book, and start biting the tip of the pen!

"Isn't it going to be done?" Come and show me "I suppressed the fire in my heart." "No" He started writing math problems, and everything was like slow motion! Good thing it's here to start! After ten minutes, a problem was completed.

"I want to go to the toilet" "Go" Stayed in the toilet for ten minutes! I couldn't help but say, "What are you doing in the toilet?" Homework still not done? He agreed, and came out of the toilet.

Sitting at the desk, the second question was not finished, and he said, "Daddy I want to drink water." Okay, then I'll go and pour him water, pour a glass of water and put it next to him, grind and rub it and drink it for another 10 minutes.

I looked at the table below, and an hour had passed since school, and I had only done two math assignments, and I hadn't written in Chinese and English yet. I felt like my blood pressure was starting to rise.

Start doing the third question "Daddy, I won't do this problem", it won't matter, I can still tutor in the second grade! The topic is a graphic problem, a right triangle with two different sides of different lengths, what shape can not be spelled out? A, triangle; B, square; C, rectangle

This problem uses my knowledge to explain that he must not understand, I can only let him tear such paper to try the puzzle. That's it! The paper was torn for ten minutes, and the puzzle was also grinding and chirping, so and so on. After playing a problem for half an hour, I asked him if he would? He shook his head!

My fire is coming up! Can't help but yell, "What graphics did you just spell?" It's been half an hour, do you still do it? Just don't do it! ......”

The child was crying and my throat hurt! At seven o'clock my wife came back, and I saw that I had not yet cooked, I was yelling, and the children were crying. Ask me what's going on? Drove me to the kitchen to cook, and she came to help the kids with their homework.

I saw that she first comforted the child, sat next to him and watched him do it, and when she saw that he was embarrassed, she asked if it would not be? Then help him explain one question after another...

Xiao Bao was quietly watching TV, I was cooking in the kitchen, and the house was finally back to the way it should be!

The next day, my throat hurt so badly that I couldn't make a sound, so I went to the hospital to see a doctor. The doctor said I was too hard and hurt my vocal cords, prescribed me medication, and advised me not to talk for three months! If you really can't do it, try to whisper as much as possible. It's less than three days now!

This is the real experience of the neighbor Lao Wang. I am very familiar with his wife, today I went out and met them, when I said hello, I found that his voice was not right, and my husband asked him what was wrong?

His daughter-in-law told me what had happened and asked how the children were doing? Saying that his child is studying hard, is it a problem to choose a school? Or is it the problem of their class teacher? Or the child's own problem!

For this matter, I think: second-grade children learn some basic knowledge, and the teacher's problem should not be big! It may be that there is something wrong with the child's learning methods.

Children like her do homework, and she sits next to her for one problem after another. The child became dependent on her, and the child's father completely let go of his hand when tutoring. The child's inability to adapt has caused the problem of procrastination!

Obviously, the child's father is also a hot temper. There is no good guidance for children's learning, just a vague demand and compulsion! Let the child be rebellious.

I think that in the face of the procrastination of homework, we cannot discipline him in a vacuum. According to the homework situation, he can be given a certain time, tell him to stop and not do it until the time is not finished, and the reason for not completing the homework will be explained to the teacher tomorrow.

Of course, if you encounter a question that will not be in the middle, you can ask me at any time. If the topic is really difficult, you can extend the time appropriately. Slowly let him develop the habit of completing homework independently.

Dear netizens, do you have any good ways to procrastinate your homework? Welcome to share.