Xiao Zheng bought three apartments and a car in the city, and when he returned home for the New Year, his relatives asked him how much he earned, and his wife lied that Xiao Zheng's monthly salary was only 5,000, and Xiao Zheng was despised by relatives.
Ten years ago, Xiao Zheng just graduated from college, his first job as a programmer in an Internet company, the monthly salary at that time was not high, he worked hard in this company for two years, sweated countless, did not expect that the boss only gave him a salary of 500 yuan.
Later, by chance, she met her peer Sister Zhong, the owner of a small software development company who was forced to inherit the company after the death of her husband, and she struggled to maintain the company's operation by her own efforts.
Xiao Zheng's company and Sister Zhong are on the same floor, after the two met, Sister Zhong felt that Xiao Zheng was an honest and willing to work hard, so she poached Xiao Zheng with a monthly salary of 8,000.
At that time, just in time for the dividend period of software development, the full rise of smart phones made mobile phone software development become the mainstream, and Xiao Zheng immediately proposed to Sister Zhong to transform the company.
Although Sister Zhong knew nothing about the industry, she had complete trust in Xiao Zheng, so the two hit it off and immediately hired a group of professional mobile phone developers, because this decision changed the lives of the two people.
After that, companies large and small began to realize the importance of mobile APP, orders flew into Sister Zhong's company like flowing water, and created tens of millions of profits for the company in the first year, and Xiao Zheng turned over and became the company's hero.
Sister Zhong thanked Xiao Zheng for her efforts, gave him 20% of the company's shares, and also introduced her sister to Xiao Zheng, who became Sister Zhong's brother-in-law, and then Sister Zhong handed over the company to Xiao Zheng for its overall management.
Over the years, with Xiao Zheng's hard work, he already owned three houses and a car in the city, and after struggling for 4 years without returning home, he also wanted to take his wife home to meet relatives.
This year's New Year, Xiao Zheng took his wife home, the first thing is to prepare for his wife to make up a huge wedding, but the wife refused, said that at home to set more than ten tables on the line, the rest of the free.
On the wedding day, Xiao Zheng and his wife came down to eat with their relatives after toasting each other, and the aunt who ate at the same table asked curiously: "You haven't come back outside for several years, how are you mixed now?" How much is the salary? ”
Xiao Zhenggang wanted to answer, but he did not expect his wife to grab the words: "His salary is not high, just 8,000 yuan, plus my salary is only more than 10,000 yuan a month, the cost in the city is also large, and I can't keep any money." ”
Xiao Zheng looked at his wife confused and did not know why her wife was lying, but it was not good to dismantle her wife's stage, so she acquiesced to her statement.
The aunt asked doubtfully, "I see the Mercedes-Benz you drive, this car is not cheap." ”
The wife said, "That's what we rented back, and we happened to be married, and we used this car as a wedding car." ”
After listening, the aunt said with a disdainful face: "Your salary is so low and you have to rent such an expensive car, isn't this a face punch to be fat?" For a wedding car a month's salary are put in. He sighed.
That night, Xiao Zheng lay in bed and asked his wife, "Why are you lying to my aunt?" Isn't that a disgrace to me? ”
The wife smiled and said, "You say too well about yourself, the relatives are jealous, and even more seriously it may affect the feelings between you, and you are too good, the relatives ask you to borrow money, what do you say?" ”
Xiao Zheng then said: "Relatives ask me to borrow money, I will definitely borrow ah, my family used to have things to borrow money from relatives." ”
The wife replied to him: "If there is really an emergency, then of course you have to borrow, but the risk of borrowing money is also very large, whether you can come back is a problem, but you do not borrow and appear stingy, if you borrow, if you do not come back in the future, then this relative still does it?" ”
At this time, Xiao Zheng finally understood his wife's thoughts.
Regarding Xiao Zheng's wife's approach, do you agree?
@Fu Sha Job y:
For his wife's approach I agree, from the perspective of his wife's style of preparing for the wedding, she is a very low-key person, some people like to show off everywhere after they have achievements, such a practice will undoubtedly attract the envy of some people, these people want you to hurry up, once they see you in distress, they will definitely add fuel to your fire, so they still have to be low-key.
When the people around you know your true income, it may be that they are looking for you to do things or borrow money, borrowing or not borrowing is trouble, putting you in a dilemma, bringing endless trouble. Therefore, only by making others wonder about you can you avoid many troublesome things.
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