I am 60 years old and married to 54-year-old Deng Xiaoyi. Just after taking a shower in the evening, Deng Xiaoyi impatiently pulled me into the bedroom. We lay on our sides. Xiaoyi touched my face and asked me kindly

I am 60 years old and married to 54-year-old Deng Xiaoyi. Just after taking a shower in the evening, Deng Xiaoyi impatiently pulled me into the bedroom. We lay on our sides. Xiao Yi touched my face and asked me kindly for a request. I thought about it and declined. So, Deng Xiaoyi returned to her daughter's house this morning. She didn't answer my call. This puts me in a dilemma.

I have a monthly pension of 8,000 yuan after I retire. My ex-wife died of illness three years ago. I have a married son. I lived alone for more than three years. Because of retirement, I suddenly found that every day was empty, unaccompanied, and had nothing to do. Suddenly idle. Very uncomfortable.

It seems that I am really old. Like all old people, go square dancing. After dinner in the evening, I went to the park next to the community to dance and exercise. My partner is Deng Xiaoyi. She is 54 years old. But the maintenance is good. Looks like a woman in her forties. I seemed to be in love with her.

Before I met Deng Xiaoyi, I didn't want to remarry. Through many in-depth conversations. I know that Deng Xiaoyi only has one daughter, and she divorced her ex-husband many years ago. My daughter now has children. Now Deng Xiaoyi lives with her daughter. Because she does not have a pension, she is at home every day to help her daughter do housework and take care of the children.

Living expenses are also provided by her daughter. Since then, I've started pursuing her like crazy. Deng Xiaoyi did not accept me at first. But who made me cheeky. After my frantic pursuit, she was finally touched by my persistence. Then we date a lot. I went to see her almost every day, invited her to dinner, took her shopping, and even went to the movies together.

During the festival, I will also prepare small gifts for her in advance, giving her gold necklaces, Hetian jade bracelets and other jewelry. After a few months, I think the time is ripe. I plucked up the courage to propose to her. Surprisingly, she agreed without hesitation

The next day, I told my son and daughter in this message. My son and daughter-in-law are very happy. They think I'm looking for a wife at home, I don't have to be so lonely, some people are nice. Deng Xiaoyi's daughter and son-in-law are also very happy.

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After getting married, the two children gave us a sum of money to go abroad, so I went to Bali for a honeymoon with Deng Xiaoxing. This was the first time I traveled for the first time. I am happy. She felt like I was coming back to you. I always say I don't know a lot more than her ex-husband. I feel like I'm favored every day.

But everything seemed to suddenly become too sudden, so unreal. I always thought that Deng Xiaoyi agreed to my proposal because we really loved me and I would agree. Later I found out that the relationship between her and her husband was very tense, and Deng Xiaoyi just didn't want to live with her children. His family will not come back either. The supervising daughter-in-law also has her own parents held up there. So the taste of marrying me will also depend on it

Last night I just took a shower and went back to the bedroom to rest, Deng Xiaoyi held my hand. She said that she wanted me to give her a stipend of 3,000 yuan a month, and it didn't matter if I didn't give it, just write her name on my property deed. She said she wanted a nanny at home to take care of me every day

She said she had no source of income, no sense of security, was very scared, I left earlier than she did, and then she really didn't obey.

After I listened, I was still a little unhappy, after all, getting married, both big and small expenses are paid by me. I would also help with housework, but why 3,000 per month. What is it? Salary?

We are husbands and wives. In addition, my ex and I bought this house, which I will leave for my own children in the future. Writing down your name is absolutely impossible. Deng Xiaoyi was not happy. I didn't communicate, I didn't communicate, two so fell asleep. The next morning I found deng Xiaoyi leaving, and she returned to her daughter's house. I called her, but she didn't answer.

Am I doing something wrong?

@Enthusiastic Zhang Ziqi I would like to say

Everyone has different ideas. When she has no income, she feels insecure. This mood is understandable, but the way things are done is wrong. You can get her to spend some living expenses at home. When you're healthy, you can do something and make more money. It is unreasonable to offer some protection for her future life, what the name of the house is, your son does not agree to contradict, but there is no need to divorce the people, it is not easy to find the other half of them. #情感 #