Someone asked, "How do you deal with the soul torture of relatives during the New Year's greeting?" I always thought it would be nice not to answer, but it doesn't seem like that. The family reunion on the first day of the New Year has passed, from the second day of junior high school

Someone asked, "How do you deal with the soul torture of relatives during the New Year's greeting?" I always thought it would be nice not to answer, but it doesn't seem like that.

After the family reunion on the first day of the Chinese New Year, from the second day of the first year, they will visit relatives and friends to visit the New Year.

Mutual greetings become an indispensable part. I can try my best to grasp the measure of talking with my relatives, but I can't help myself how my relatives say it. Mutual communication is a normal way of communication between relatives.

However, if you have some problems that you can't solve, you always want to avoid the cross-examination of relatives, but if you don't know whether your relatives really care or really gossip, you will always intentionally or unintentionally attack the problem.

In the face of such an embarrassing time, turning your face is embarrassed, not answering and impolite, truthful answering and difficult to say. At this time, how do you respond to the soul torture of relatives?

If there is an old girl in her thirties at home, others have stopped using the word "marriage urging" to inquire, but want to stop talking, insinuate, and turn eighteen corners to know if she is in a recent situation.

If the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in the family are not in harmony, when the mother-in-law is at the mother-in-law's house and the daughter-in-law is at the daughter-in-law's house during the New Year, ask the daughter-in-law, "Why didn't your mother-in-law come?" Asked the mother-in-law, "Why didn't the daughter-in-law return?" "Is it well-intentioned or eventful?

There will be high-sounding reasons, can you say it? Will others believe it? However, will your reaction become an inadvertent tongue-in-cheek between relatives?

But even if you know that there will be such a situation, it is still necessary to see relatives, but you will carefully consider how to adapt to the inquiries you may encounter in advance, which will not hurt the relationship between relatives and do not make yourself feel embarrassed.

In fact, if you can digest anything yourself, the inquiries of others will be irrelevant. The so-called privacy or embarrassment is just a different perspective on the problem, what is absolutely not to see people? Accept what you have first, and then face others calmly!

Since ancient times, cannons have required a fuse, and if there is no fuse, even the most powerful cannon will not sound.

The same is true of the soul torture of the so-called relatives, if their souls are elevated, the relatives can no longer touch it, and what are they afraid of not torturing?

What's wrong with being single at thirty? What's the shame? What kind of life you choose, in your own hands, is bright, does not hinder anyone, and there is no so-called facelessness.

Children have the right to choose themselves when they reach adulthood, if they can't meet the right ones, it is better to be single, is this not a regret on the lips of all unhappy married people?

If you can recognize this correctly, are you still afraid of asking from relatives?

However, everyone understands the reason, but if you really encounter something, can you still treat it calmly? If there is really no strong support, then choose to stay at home and don't go out to see relatives and friends, why should you be unhappy with yourself.

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