Art is a hypothesis that brings us to reality—Picasso
The famous Spanish painting master Picasso said the importance of art, so nowadays, everyone's economic conditions are better, we will also put more effort and energy into children, of course, in order to cultivate children's interests, many parents will cultivate children's interests such as painting.
Of course, in the process of children's growth, they also slowly increase their ability to understand the paintings, and they will put a lot of emotions into the paintings, so that their paintings have a "life" as if these paintings can "speak". Then parents can understand their children through their own children's paintings.
Psychologists say that when children are hurt by a certain kind of harm, they usually dare not express themselves due to threats or inner fears, and can only express their inner world abstractly through painting, while snakes symbolize darkness and terror, and can show the fear in children's hearts from the side.
Le Le (hereinafter all pseudonyms) is a 3-year-old introverted little girl, usually relatively silent, but unusually interested in painting, and her parents also try to develop their daughter's talent for painting from this aspect.
Due to Lele's hard work and talent for painting, he often went back to participate in various competitions and often won awards, and Lele's parents were also very proud and proud of Lele.
Although Le Le will pour a lot of energy into painting, Le Le rarely communicates with outsiders, and even refuses to talk to his parents, and after a long time, his parents lead their children to a psychologist because they are worried.
Psychology experts have carefully understood the relevant situation and found that many of Lele's paintings will appear in various snakes, and the painting style is dark. Experts immediately communicated with lele's parents about this discovery, and said that "the child may have been violated in some way, and it is recommended to call the police." ”
Lele's parents heard this news like a thunderbolt on a sunny day, but still insisted on investigating this matter, and sure enough, they found some clues in Lele's school, it turned out that there were classmates in Lele's school who often bullied Lele and threatened her, which caused the child to dare not speak, and could only express his fear silently through painting.
Therefore, if the child likes to draw snakes for a long time and the style is dark, it is likely that the child has been greatly hurt or stimulated, but the child does not dare to express it.
When we first mastered the art of painting, we were willing to paint a small house, but different houses also represented different mental states.
For example, children with relatively high IQs, most of them like to paint high-rise buildings; painting houses like temples, may be two extreme people, may be talents, or may be other whimsical and absurd emotional expressions;
The edges and corners of the house, even brick by brick are painted very carefully, representing his pursuit of perfection and detail; there is no chimney on the house, indicating that the child lacks a sense of security; like to draw a circular arc of the house, may be more dependent on parents, this time to cultivate the child's independent ability.
Of course, not only can the objects in the child's painting express the inner world, but the color of the color pen that the child likes to use can also allow parents to understand their children more deeply. Like different colors, the actual meaning of the representation is also different.
01 green
Green represents close to nature, children like green means they like nature, like free life, will also like a variety of small animals, parents can let children better explore nature.
02 Red
Red represents passionate, most of the children who like red are more extroverted, new things are more attractive to them, most of these children are not afraid of birth, the growth rate is faster, but such children may also be more impatient. Parents should correctly cultivate their children's acquired character.
03 blue
Blue is a more melancholy color system, if the child likes blue, the child's inner personality may be a little introverted, but such a child is also more sensible, the mind will be more delicate.
04 black
Children who like black are usually more aggressive and aggressive, and even have some violent tendencies, so children are less willing to communicate with other people, and this time parents need better guidance and education.
Review:
Painting is not only an artistic expression, but also a realistic reaction and sublimation. So what we usually draw, from the side will reflect a lot of psychological problems. Therefore, art has become a kind of carrier for us to express our inner thoughts. As parents, we should learn to deeply understand the child's inner state through the child's art works, and we should communicate with the child more to let the child grow up healthy and happy.
As an art form, painting not only enriches personal lives and experiences, but also makes people more confident and patient. Excellent personal qualities can be cultivated. As individuals, not only can we express our ideas with paintings, but we should often communicate with our families and talk about our inner feelings, so that we will develop physically and mentally.
The author | Jiang Yongzi
Edited | Jiang Yongzi
The image | the source network
References | Cognitive psychology/ Journal of experimental child psychology