Not every woman loves money, but no woman likes a dime iron rooster.
In fact, women most appreciate men have talent, the most hate men are too stingy, the most afraid of men do not fight, a man can lack a little talent, but must have more atmosphere, can not be too contentious, but must not have too much temper, otherwise the road of life will only go narrower and narrower.
It is useless for a wife to have a cold heart and ask her husband
Li Qiang (pseudonym), who lives in Yanshi, Luoyang, met Xiaoying (pseudonym) through a group chat in 2016, and the two quickly fell in love, and after a year of love, they were licensed to marry.
Last year, their son was born, Li Qiang was still immersed in the joy of becoming a father for the first time, but he did not expect that his wife directly carried the child back to her mother's house on the day of her son's first birthday, and was never willing to come back.
Li Qiang admitted that in the past, his family may have been a little inattentive to speak, causing his wife to have opinions about his family, perhaps it hurt his wife, so the wife is now unwilling to let their family see the child.
In Li Qiang's view, after all, this is his own child, the wife is making trouble, and after a few days of anger, he should come back to live a life, but it was originally such a small contradiction, every time he went to find his wife, the wife refused to pay attention, and did not let him see the child, Li Qiang realized the seriousness of the matter.
Nowadays, Li Qiang wants to find his wife and make it clear in front of the gong, but he still hopes to live with his wife and give his children a complete home.
In order to prove that what he said is not false, Li Qiang also took out the chat record with his wife last night, and it is not difficult to see in the dialogue that there is indeed a lot of estrangement between the two, but what people can't understand is that since Li Qiang wants to save his wife, he also scolded his wife in the chat, he spent a lot of money for the child over the years, and the child was taken away by the wife and so on.
In order to find out the truth of the matter, and then under the leadership of Li Qiang, we also met his wife Xiaoying at her mother's house, but when Xiaoying saw that her husband Li Qiang was outside the door, her emotions were immediately excited, she was so angry that she trembled, and before she could say anything, she burst into tears and drove Li Qiang away, and said that she had nothing to say and did not believe anyone.
After more than an hour of appeasement, Xiaoying's mood finally calmed down, she is also willing to find a place to say clearly, after all, it has been so noisy is not a thing, after taking a seat, Xiaoying said that she is ready to take her own children, it is useless to ask her husband, yesterday she has deleted her husband, he does not need to exist in his own call book to occupy a position.
Xiao Ying's words are also confusing, but I can hear that she is very disgusted with her husband, as for what did her husband do to make her so disgusted? Xiao Ying was a little vague and reluctant to say more, perhaps she didn't know where to start.
In order to make Xiaoying open her heart, she can only find some clues from Li Qiang's chat records, not to mention, there is really such a sentence in the chat record: If you don't want to live, don't say remarriage, is this remarriage? Is it just a revenge for you?
Could it be that the two are now divorced? In the face of doubts, Xiaoying also gave an explanation, she and Li Qiang did divorce before, but in november not long ago, they remarried, but Xiaoying now regrets the decision to remarry, and Xiaoying does not speak again for why she wanted to divorce before.
At this time, through Li Qiang's mouth, he learned that he felt that Xiaoying was pregnant and in a bad mood, so he would be angry with him when there was nothing to do, and Li Qiang was also doing business in Gongyi at that time, the business was just starting, every day was very busy, in the face of his wife's quarrel, Li Qiang did not resist arguing with his wife Xiaoying.
Later, Xiao Ying's mother's family knew about this matter, and wanted Li Qiang to apologize, but Li Qiang was not willing to apologize, and said that he could not let Xiao Ying go back to her mother's house to live for a period of time, and Xiao Ying's idea was that she was 6 months pregnant, she could not go back to her mother's house like this, she had to divorce her marriage to return, Li Qiang felt that although he was unwilling, but the daily quarrels made him physically and mentally exhausted, so he divorced his wife Xiao Ying in a huff.
Xiaoying does not think so about the divorce, she said that when she was pregnant, she felt that this relationship could not be managed, although pregnancy is a happy event, the crystallization of love, but Li Qiang's approach is very chilling.
Li Qiang just feels that he is pregnant, nothing can be done, he needs to be taken care of, so he is troublesome, sometimes let him come back, he will not come back, he also thinks that pregnancy is too much, suspects that obstetric examinations are too expensive and too expensive, too expensive and too expensive, even he does not want to eat calcium, you say what use he wants him to have, so this will be divorced when he is 6 months pregnant.
I drop obediently, this statement is also incredible, so is this really the case? What people did not expect was that Li Qiang directly admitted that there was such a thing, anyway, at that time, he did not do well, but Li Qiang also had an excuse, he felt that he was doing business, every day from Yanshi to Gongyi, running back and forth was very annoying, he felt that some inspections did not need to be done, and there was nothing wrong with checking twice less.
I have to say that Li Qiang is really speechless enough, what is the use of saving hundreds of dollars, if the child has something to do, it is too late to regret it, obstetric examination is very important for women or for families, how can it be so inappropriate?
In the face of accusations, Li Qiang lowered his head and was silent, Xiaoying on the side took the initiative to complain bitterly, it turned out that after the divorce, Li Qiang's family did not care about Xiaoying anymore, and with the passage of time, Xiaoying slowly walked out of this failed marriage, she also gave birth to a child alone, but at this time Li Qiang began to ask for forgiveness.
Seeing Li Qiang's bitter pleading, Xiaoying's heart is not a taste, she was about to come out of this marriage, and she ended up falling into it again, she felt that the divorce at the beginning may also be some of her own impulses, and then see the young children, Xiaoying also began to consider the matter of remarriage.
But Li Qiang has no sincerity at all, last year's New Year,Xiaoying wanted Li Qiang to go to her house on the first day of the new year to make things clear, apologize and get forgiveness from his family, and then Xiaoying would follow Li Qiang to his home, but Li Qiang was not willing to go, and the reason for not going was that his parents-in-law would definitely scold him.
Even if it is Li Qiang's inaction, in the end, Xiaoying still chose to forgive Li Qiang, which chose to remarry a month ago in November, but what she did not expect was that what Li Qiang promised her before remarriage, the result was not done, which made Xiaoying regret that it was not OK, and she should have been fiercely hearted not to remarry in the first place.
Hearing this, Li Qiang began to make excuses for himself again, he confessed that he was really afraid of being scolded by his parents-in-law at that time, and another was that according to the custom, he should go to his own home on the first day of the New Year, rather than going to Xiaoying's house, the most important thing is that Xiaoying's tone is a bit like a command, he thinks that going to her home is natural, going to our house is not the same, and then angry, we did not go to her home.
However, for the promise promised to Xiaoying before remarriage, Li Qiang admitted that he really did not do it, that is, he promised Xiaoying that she and her children raised themselves all.
Before the words were finished, Xiaoying quickly explained that this is all required, saying that Li Qiang is responsible for all the expenses of the family before the child goes to kindergarten, not that Li Qiang has been responsible, which is also an opportunity for Li Qiang to make up for his mistakes, that is, he hopes that Li Qiang can put himself and the child in his heart, and as a result, after the remarriage, Li Qiang left all the promises behind.
Then Li Qiang continued to explain that these were indeed his promises to Xiaoying, but before he could start, there were contradictions again, which was not implemented. However, in the face of Li Qiang's explanation, Xiaoying insisted that Li Qiang's statements were all excuses.
Seeing that he could not continue, Li Qiang admitted that at that time, he wanted to remarry first, and then use a roundabout way to exchange the opportunity to remarry with Xiaoying, anyway, he sometimes spoke without going through the brain, nor did he think of deceiving Xiaoying, that is, he was kind enough to do the wrong thing.
The words turned sharply, Li Qiang also accused his wife Xiaoying of not, he confessed that he and his wife lived in these years, his wife Xiaoying's personality is very strong, every time is to say one thing, there is almost no room for maneuver, if you catch up with his wife's bad mood, it will only become more and more intense, which makes his heart very uncomfortable, but also become more and more silent.
The development of things has become somewhat clear now, that is, Xiaoying longs for the care of her husband Li Qiang, but due to her strength, Li Qiang has become more and more reticent.
In this regard, the crowd also persuaded Li Qiang, caring for his wife also needs to be expressed, if you do not express it, how will the wife know? The purpose of the work is also to live the life of the wife and children, the family reunion and harmony, but you forget the original intention, earn money not to give the wife and children flowers, but also dislike this trouble that trouble, this is the attitude that a man should have?
At this time, Li Qiang also realized his mistakes, bluntly saying that he would humbly accept these views and would try to make up for them in the future. The other side also began to persuade Xiaoying, through the hour of persuasion at your doorstep, I found that sometimes you have ideas in your heart, you have ideas, and when you are angry, you are really angry, which proves that as long as you are angry, it is simply that everyone in the world has failed you.
Listening to it, Xiaoying also laughed, but she confessed that she was not like this before, the reason why she would become like this, it was forced out by Li Qiang, because after getting married, all she felt from Li Qiang was disgust and unwillingness, every time she and her children needed Li Qiang, he might not be able to appear in time, and over time he did not have any hope for Li Qiang.
As the old saying goes, it is better to demolish a temple, not to destroy a marriage, with this purpose, but also for the sake of the children to think a little more, the mediators of the crowd after many persuasions, and finally Li Qiang and his wife Xiaoying apologized, and Xiaoying also decided to have something to say well in the future, no longer so strong, and then give her husband Li Qiang a chance to reform himself, just like that, the two reconciled as before.
But this marriage is still a long way, as to whether it can go to the end in the future, this also needs Li Qiang's change, if you can't insist on three days and two mornings, I think the days are still not good, after all, there is a difference between love and marriage, families with children, you must have more patience, more responsibility, more diligence.
Three major events in life, getting married and having children and buying a house
A family must be composed of the first three factors, the house, marriage, and having children, for women, especially marriage and children, must be given unparalleled love, so that they can leave a good memory, if the beginning of the contradictions, even bitter, then the future days will be much sadrer.
For Li Qiang, he did not leave a good impression on his pregnant wife Xiaoying, resulting in every time this matter was mentioned, Xiaoying burst into tears, which is a pain that cannot be forgotten for a lifetime, after all, even a calcium does not want to eat, which is already incomprehensible.
Even if Xiaoying is willing to give her husband Li Qiang another chance, but if she wants to recover the wound in her heart, this requires Li Qiang's real change, of course, although it is more difficult to make up for the pain, it is not impossible, everything still needs to be done with care, I hope he can do it.
There is a saying that is very good, the original intention of making money is to want to live better and better with their families, hope that a family reunion and harmony, for the family, normal needs we should be generous, too stingy will only make contradictions around, and no one will like.
What do you think of this marriage? Everyone is welcome to express their opinions and give different voices, thank you.