For women, marriage is the second life, and only by marrying the right person, there is happiness to speak of after marriage, in order to live the life they want, but the world of feelings is very complicated, sometimes think that they are married to love, but in the end they find that their true heart is not a person, some people are good to you but have no other intentions, so if you really want to get married, you must be cautious, weigh the pros and cons before you can make the right choice and judgment, rather than being blinded by a momentary good feeling and passion, if you choose the wrong person, Marriage may become a cage trapping one's life, and even if you can escape, you will have to pay a heavy price.
Xu Lin and Wang Peng are acquainted at work, in Xu Lin's view, Wang Peng's sweet mouth can talk, strong ability, treat everything very seriously, and take special care of himself, Xu Lin is also very fond of Wang Peng, and later under Wang Peng's active confession, the two people also came together smoothly, but this relationship was opposed by friends and parents around, the reason is that Wang Peng is divorced with a baby, Xu Lin married to the stepmother, and the second marriage is far less than the first marriage, and there will be more problems to deal with, If it is not handled well, it is easy to cause contradictions.
The worries of relatives and friends, Xu Lin does not think so, but feels that men who have had a failed marriage will be more cautious about feelings and know how to take care of people, and in daily life, the boyfriend is indeed obedient to himself, and he is responsive, which also makes Xu Lin more determined to marry him, and she believes that her vision will not be wrong.
Parents but she had to agree, Xu Lin also married love as she wished, but when she thought that a happy life was about to start from here, she found that her husband's enthusiasm dropped sharply, far less enthusiastic and active than marriage, as if marriage was his task, once it was completed, she became a hand-throwing treasurer, Xu Lin proposed that the two people go on a date together, go on a trip, Wang Peng said to her: And not just a young man in love, the whole is so complicated to do, and then say that it costs money, tired and troublesome, it is better to stay at home, And the child also needs your care, don't always think about going around.
Xu Lin wanted romance and happiness before marriage, are squeezed by the trivialities after marriage, but also denied by the husband, followed only by housework and taking care of children, Wang Peng is a macho person, think that housework is what women should do, feel that they only need to be responsible for making money to support the family, Xu Lin is very dissatisfied, but no matter how to say that the husband is not moved.
If housework is the beginning of the contradiction between husband and wife, then the child is the last straw to end the marriage, in order to integrate into the family, Xu Lin strives to play the role of a good mother, but the child is not close to her, never gave her a good face, but also disobedient, Xu Lin said that as soon as he said him, he complained to her husband, and even called his grandmother to say that in order to please the child, Xu Lin bought him a gift, and he could also throw it away directly in front of his face.
Xu Lin is also helpless, and her efforts have also been seen as a matter of course, for the sake of the child, she went to work either late and leave early, or had to take leave, because her husband said that the child needed to be taken care of, and also needed someone to pick up, this task naturally fell on Xu Lin.
After a long time, Xu Lin also had dissatisfaction, often quarreled with her husband, especially under the child's complaint again, Wang Peng also angrily rebuked Xu Lin and said directly: He is still a child, can you be more patient, even if there is something wrong, you can't bear it? Xu Lin was angry with him, but Wang Peng said more and more vigorously, and his voice became louder and louder, and even said: I marry you for two purposes, to help me take care of housework, and to take care of children, if you can't do it well, then why should I marry you?
Hearing her husband's words, Xu Lin completely broke out, and directly replied: In the future, your children will take care of themselves, the housework will be done separately, I will not be your nanny, if you can't go on, then get divorced, and I will not serve. Under Xu Lin's strong tone, Wang Peng was silent, and although he had not divorced afterwards, the marriage had ended prematurely.
Gorky once said: Marriage is the spiritual union of two people, and the purpose is to overcome all the difficulties and hardships of the world together. Indeed, marriage is not more than love, there is not so much freedom, some are just heavy responsibilities, will face more pressure and trivialities, need two people to face and deal with together, if you do not give each other enough trust and respect when getting along, then this marriage is doomed to not go to the end.