Jane Austen says that rich bachelors always have to marry wives.
In fact, even young people of the right age who have no money are going to get married. At a certain age, men marry women, which is the life that most people choose.
However, there is always a part of men or women, for one reason or another, who end up delaying the optimal marriageable age and becoming the part that is left behind.
Watching the people around them get married and have children one by one, and live their own small lives, the leftover men and women do not need to be urged by others, and a sense of urgency will also be generated.
For men, getting married a little later has a relatively small impact. But the older you are, the less friendly it is to women, after all, the physiological structure is not dominant in all aspects.
On the issue of choosing a marriage partner, some people say that men mostly like young and beautiful girls, even if they are leftover men, he first considers younger girls, not leftover women.
Therefore, the older leftover woman is ultimately faced with an increasingly difficult marriage to the right person, even if she is in good condition.
But is this really the case? When men get married, are they only concerned with the age of women?
After interviewing dozens of single men, the same question was asked to them: "Which one would you marry a 32-year-old high-income leftover girl or a 22-year-old young girl?" ”
Only to find that men's answers are very different from what we imagined, and their views on this issue are really realistic.
@Mr. Huang 32 years old
Mr. Huang is the backbone of the company's sales, because he is busy with work and has a general economic foundation, so he is left behind.
When it comes to the person he married, he said that he now earns a fairly good income and provides for the house, and he hopes that his future partner can create a good life with him.
Compared to that, age is not the biggest issue. The 32-year-old leftover woman, who has a certain experience in society and is more reliable in the economy than the 22-year-old young girl, will consider the former.
Being of comparable age, having a common language, and having equal incomes on both sides, living together is definitely the icing on the cake.
Most of the 22-year-old girls have just entered the society, and their qualifications and connections are relatively poor, although there will be infinite possibilities in the future, but it takes too much patience to get married and live and wait for a person's growth.
Mr. Huang's words, while realistic, illustrate a problem. When men choose a mate, they will weigh the pros and cons in advance, and appearance and age are not the first.
For men of average income, there are often too many realistic factors to consider, which is related to the quality of life thereafter.
In addition, marrying a young girl who has just graduated, the age difference between the two is large, and men are bound to take care of women more in life, whether financially or otherwise.
But for men in their thirties, it is the best years of hard work, it is impossible to put all their energy into the family, in the long run, not only the feelings of husband and wife are affected, but also cause disharmony and stability in the family.
@Mr. Zhang 35 years old
Mr. Zhang has a successful career and a good economic foundation. He was in love several times, but because he was not in a hurry to start a family, he did not end it.
Seeing that the age is getting older day by day, parents and friends are urging. Most of the partners who used to play together also had families and children, and in this case, Mr. Zhang also decided to get married.
Regarding the person to marry, he hopes to be a younger girl. Because young girls are not deeply involved in the world, their emotional experiences are simple and relatively easier to control.
The best fertility period for women is 23-32 years old, so Mr. Zhang believes that from this perspective, he prefers to marry young girls, which is relatively easier to have children.
And if a woman is young and has a lot of energy with children, then her heart will be less, and it will be relatively easier.
I have to say that Mr. Zhang's treatment of marriage is really realistic. Men with a certain economic foundation are more profit-oriented in terms of marriage and will cover all aspects of the factor.
@Mr. Chen, 30 years old
Mr. Chen is an ordinary migrant worker with an average income, no house and no car, wandering in a huge city.
When it comes to getting married, he is actually quite anxious, but what can he do. One can't afford to buy a house, and the other can't afford to take on the responsibilities of a family.
He said that girls are quite powerful now, whether they are young girls or leftover women, marriage is the primary condition. He doesn't pick on whether he's an older leftover girl or a young girl, but people pick him.
Mr. Chen said that the elderly leftover women with high incomes often do not put such a dick in their eyes, they will pay more attention to the man's hardware, he wants to marry a powerful one, the problem is that people cannot marry him.
It is relatively easier for young girls to fall in love, but if they get married, they may eventually be defeated by reality when they talk about conditions.
Is there a wider market for older leftover women, or are they younger girls? This question really cannot be generalized.
In comparison, the older leftover women have rich social experience, and the economic income is more stable than that of the girls who have just entered the world, so in the case of relatively similar conditions, the marriage market space for the older leftover women is still good.
However, there are also some elderly leftover women who have a relatively bleak life, or can't see their own reality, blindly improve their mate selection standards, which will only put themselves into a more embarrassing situation.
Young girls' choice of mate, as long as there are not many problems with themselves, most of them are no problem. After all, young, there are endless possibilities for the future.
Although the social experience is insufficient, but there is enough vitality and enthusiasm for life, there is a lot of room for career development, and there is also time for yourself to slowly choose the right marriage partner.
As for which type of women men like, most of them will make corresponding judgments based on their actual situation.
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