"I didn't expect my baby to be an acute child." Xiaoying, a new mother after the 90s, looked at her newborn child and sighed: "There are still half a month before the due date, and this little guy will come out impatiently." ”
In the middle of a cold and windy night, Xiaoying found that her stomach began to contract and ache, and she realized that she might be about to "start", so she hurriedly packed up her things and rushed to the hospital without stopping.
After arriving at the hospital, the doctor examined Xiaoying and found that the uterine opening had been opened with 2 fingers, and an hour later, Xiaoying successfully gave birth to a baby boy. Xiao Ying, a new mother, could not hide her joy and used her little remaining physical strength to announce good news to her relatives and friends.
After the joy, Xiaoying encountered a tricky problem. Due to the early "check-out" of the little guy and the sudden visit, Xiaoying and Xiaoying's husband are not ready for everything.
Both she and her husband are a little overwhelmed by how to take care of their new lives and how to confinement.
Xiaoying's mother-in-law learned that her daughter-in-law had successfully given birth to a baby boy, so she worked tirelessly overnight to take care of Xiaoying.
Who knows, the mother-in-law just arrived at the ward, began to count Xiaoying: "Confinement is most afraid of freezing, easy to fall into the root of the disease, you quickly wear more clothes, you must learn to cover." ”
Hearing her mother-in-law's criticism, Xiaoying was actually touched in her heart, after all, her mother-in-law was also out of concern for herself. Although there was heating in the ward, Xiaoying still listened to her mother-in-law's words and put on thick socks and a thick coat.
The mother-in-law still seems to be dissatisfied, took out the thick hat she prepared in advance for Xiaoying to put on, and repeatedly stressed the importance of "covering" with Xiaoying, so that the body can recover well.
Xiao Ying, who was suspicious of her mother-in-law's words, did so out of the pressure of her elders. But the heating in the ward made Xiaoying very uncomfortable and difficult to sleep, and the thick dress made Xiaoying sweat so hot.
She wanted to take off her hat and coat, but she was hindered by her mother-in-law's face and still insisted on "covering" until she was reprimanded by the doctor during the next day's round.
The doctor who came to check the room saw the sweat oozing from Xiaoying's forehead and accused Xiaoying of ignorance: "How can confinement wear so much?" Sweating is more susceptible to colds. Xiao Ying, who has always been filial and obedient, has words of suffering, and she can only take advantage of her mother-in-law's lack of attention to take off her hat to breathe.
Who knows, Xiaoying's blind obedience, but let the next confinement time more and more difficult, due to the lack of understanding of scientific confinement, let her step into a lot of confinement "misunderstanding" and suffered a lot of sins.
Many post-90s young mothers, like Xiaoying, do not understand how to scientific confinement, and blindly listen to the experience of the elders in the family. As everyone knows, there are actually many misunderstandings hidden in the experience of these people who have come over, and they have suffered a lot of sins.
Winter confinement is exquisite, just by covering can not do, avoid these misunderstandings, mothers do not suffer
Myth 1: Confinement depends on "covering"
Winter temperatures are low, and confinement in winter does require a greater test for mothers. The process of childbirth is arduous, and the mother is weaker during confinement.
If at this time, a cold wind blows or is frozen, it is more unfavorable for the recovery of the mother. Therefore, during confinement in winter, it is necessary to keep warm.
But keeping warm is not the same as "covering" in the older generation of the population. In the case of Xiaoying, where there is heating in the room where she is located, there is no need to listen to the old man's words and wrap herself into a "ball".
Postpartum women are already weak, prone to sweating, and with too much clothing, it is difficult for women to rest well.
Too much sweat will also make the mother cold, so the first big mistake to avoid in winter confinement is blindly "covering".
[Small suggestions]: In general, the indoor temperature that is more suitable for confinement is 20 degrees to 24 degrees, if there is heating or air conditioning in the room, there is no need for mothers to "cover", and mothers can sit in cotton comfort pajamas. Another advantage of pure cotton pajamas is that it is breathable, which meets the requirements of maternal confinement for clothing comfort.
Myth 2: Confinement must be able to endure "dirty"
In addition to "covering" all the time, not being able to brush your teeth and take a bath is the second requirement that your mother-in-law puts forward to Xiaoying.
The mother-in-law believes that the woman in the confinement is very weak and cannot touch the water, let alone brush her teeth and take a bath. Such a request makes Xiaoying miserable, although the temperature in winter is low, but frequent sweating makes Xiaoying feel uncomfortable. The mother-in-law stared at Xiaoying and did not let her touch the water, and even brushing her teeth was "explicitly prohibited".
The mother-in-law's original words are like this: "You have to endure the dirt, and you can enjoy happiness in the second half of your life." "This is actually the second biggest misunderstanding of confinement."
【Small suggestion】: One to two weeks after giving birth, the mother can take a bath and wash her hair. This will not be very harmful to the mother's body, and keeping one's own hygiene and cleanliness is conducive to the recovery of the mother.
In addition, not being able to brush your teeth is nonsense. After giving birth, women can brush their teeth and wash their teeth with the support of their families, and brushing their teeth every day is very necessary to protect their teeth health.
Here to remind mothers, during confinement to avoid infection, the preferred way to bathe is to shower.
Myth 3: Confinement should eat "meat"
In addition to the above two, confinement also has a misunderstanding that is to eat "meat". Many pregnant women believe that the process of childbirth consumes so much physical energy, and they need to make up for it after childbirth and treat themselves.
After Xiaoying gave birth, her mother-in-law intimately prepared a variety of meat soups for Xiaoying to drink. The mother-in-law believes that drinking meat soup after childbirth is most conducive to milking, but Xiaoying suffered the pain of milk blockage, which made Xiaoying miserable.
[Small suggestion]: In fact, after childbirth, let the mother supplement and drink too greasy meat soup, which has a great impact on the postpartum recovery of the mother. The week before confinement, it is best to eat lightly, and then supplement when the body recovers better.
epilogue
Many people think that winter confinement, maternity is the most comfortable, but in fact, winter confinement, pay attention to a lot, novice mothers must learn in advance, avoid these misunderstandings, in order to make themselves less guilty.
What aspects do I need to pay attention to in winter confinement? In addition to the above three misunderstandings, what other misunderstandings do new mothers need to avoid in time?
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