Whether in ancient times or now, women have always been keen to move up to marriage, most of them looking for a similar one, and finding a worse than themselves is rare.
Recently, there was an incident that was very hot, the cause was that a young woman posted a short video, and the content of the shooting was a real-name report on the ex-mother-in-law.
At the beginning, this video did not have any traffic, but as soon as it was forwarded by various media accounts, it immediately rushed to the hot search, triggering a fierce discussion among netizens.
The woman said that her former mother-in-law, Xia Xuehua, was an employee of the Agricultural Development Bank of China, but she could receive a monthly salary if she did not work for many years, which is what people call empty pay.
Such a working family has 8 properties, 9 shops, 4 cars, eats and wears all kinds of big brands, lives a very luxurious life, and the family's huge property is of unknown origin.
A reporter called the bank, and the other party said that there was indeed Xia Xuehua, an employee, but because the problem was sensitive, the reporter asked Xia Xuehua himself, and then hung up the phone.
The woman who reported her mother-in-law said that in May 2017, the former mother-in-law saw a property worth 5 million yuan and wanted to buy it.
However, since the former father-in-law is the leader of a certain unit, and his children also work in a certain unit, the real estate naturally cannot be hung in the name of these people.
Therefore, the former mother-in-law coaxed herself, who was 8 months pregnant at the time, to apply for a fake divorce and prepare for buying a house, although she was a little reluctant at the time, she finally agreed.
Who knows that the other party's fake drama is really done, the fake divorce has become a real divorce, and the other party has also moved his hands and feet on the divorce agreement, and he has become the person who has come out of the house.
The man doesn't even need to pay child support, which is a very outrageous thing, but some people probably have seen similar things, but the matter is far from over.
In February 2021, the former mother-in-law actually sued herself, saying that she borrowed 3 million yuan from her to buy a house, and before suing, she also said that she had a relationship and could be judged as much as she wanted.
The results also seem to confirm the mother-in-law's statement that this woman was really sentenced to repay 3 million debts, and for no reason she was saddled with a huge debt.
Due to the depreciation of the house, the ex-mother-in-law's family is ready to get the property through a low-price auction, and then sue her for not having the ability to raise children on the grounds that she owes more than 2 million yuan.
If this woman's report is true, it is basically the legend that after eating all the meat, it will crush the bones, and even the bone slag will be swallowed into the stomach.
Now this matter has triggered a fierce discussion among netizens, although there are some responses, but they are basically flashing words, and netizens do not buy it.
Fake divorce becomes a real divorce, not only to get the house in hand, but also to let the woman bear a huge debt, the money is estimated that the woman will not be repaid, this is just a means of fighting for the custody of the child.
Seeing what happened to this woman, I can't help but think of another similar thing.
A woman met the shop owner while shopping, and although the two slowly developed into a couple, during the pregnancy, the woman found her husband chatting outside and was angry and returned to her mother's house
The man did not pick up his wife until the woman gave birth, and the husband and mother-in-law did not go to see it, but when the child was just over ten hours old.
The man actually took the child, and also blackmailed her with the child, and returned the dowry and the cost of the marriage, otherwise he would not want to see his son.
The woman who returns the bride price is acceptable, but even if the cost of marriage is refunded, it is a bit of a bully, and the other party is obviously the wrong party.
The two sides had a fierce dispute over this, and finally the man said that he wanted the woman to return the money, and they also wanted the child, and the woman was asked to leave the house.
This woman's situation is quite similar to that of the woman above, and the woman angrily reprimands her husband, who is also the father of the child, how can she threaten herself with the child.
And the child has just been born, need to do a variety of tests, so hastily take out, is simply disregard for the child's health.
As a result, the man's side instead hit a rake, saying that the woman did not love her child and did not go to see the child, but the person who had just given birth to the child could get up to see a child who did not know at what point.
The husband's words provoked the woman, the husband is to use himself as a fertility machine, let himself give him free surrogacy, such a practice is too shameless.
The woman exposed this matter on the Internet, forced by pressure the man to return the child, and said that he was for the child, saying that he never wanted to divorce, wanted to give the child a complete home, so that countless netizens laughed off their teeth.
There was also a woman who met a master of finance, and after giving birth to two children, the other party actually played missing, and also with other women, so that the other party was also pregnant.
In order to save her marriage, the woman borrowed 200,000 yuan with relatives and friends, and the woman was quiet, and afterwards the husband actually said that this was all a plot of the wife's fantasy, and said that the wife was a drama.
In the face of various evidences presented by his wife, the man said that he and his wife had no feelings at all, but he looked down on his wife, the little sister who served tea, and the family also looked down on him.
At that time, because the other party was pregnant, his parents let the two get married, and they were going to let each other leave after giving birth, but the other party has been pestering.
Although the man seems to have good conditions, many of them are not as good as he said, and even the compensation promised to the woman has changed again and again.
In the end, after consultation, the man compensated the woman with 200,000 yuan, the woman promised to divorce, the two took a child, and the woman said that she would not marry again.
A rural girl went to the city to become a nanny, and the other party nominally recruited a nanny, but in fact she was looking for a wife for her son who had some problems.
The girl knew but went anyway, she felt that working in the city was more decent than doing farm work, and the two were also successfully married.
But after marriage, she was not happy, and even lived worse than many rural people, was guarded by her in-laws, and worked hard for decades to be beaten upside down by the other party, and she had to be cleaned out of the house.
Unable to accept everything, she began to defend her rights, and after so many years of marriage, she realized that although she was a daughter-in-law, she was actually a free nanny.
There are many examples like this, and now many people pay too much attention to material things when talking about marriage, and ignore feelings and the examination of the character of the other half.
Recently, a very hot Internet celebrity has publicly stated that women who marry either look at the man's character, or look at each other's money and family lineage, they just chose the latter, there are many such people, why should everyone scold me.
Material things can indeed greatly improve our lives, but no amount of money can buy a sincere feeling, money is always outside the body.
Women generally like to move to marriage, and there are not a few who want to change their fate through marriage, but if they do not have the corresponding ability and strength, most of them are guilty.
The life of the giants is not good, and even says that there is a lack of freedom, and it is good that the two sides are evenly matched, if the difference is too large, most of them have no status after marriage.
Wronged in marriage, the mother's family is unable to help, and even the mother's family has to be bullied.
Whether it is a man looking for an object or a woman looking for an object, it is enough to find a similar one, or even find a person who is worse than himself.
Why is it so difficult to find a partner now, in addition to the crisis of trust, the Internet has allowed us to see more and receive a lot of things that do not match the age.
As a result, many women are now staring at the best 5%, even if they know that it is a moth to put out the fire, there is no shortage of people who want to try it.
In a women's insight report in her 30s, the woman puts the man's material conditions in the first place in the marriage standard, which is equivalent to marriage becoming a sale, the other party's price is appropriate, and the feeling is only a secondary thing.
If you talk about feelings before marriage, take more time to understand each other, many crises can be found in advance, how can such a thing happen?
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