On February 22, 2019, a woman had just finished a four-hour dialysis session at the Zhongnan Hospital of Wuhan University.
She lay in bed exhausted, and since she had suffered from this "undead cancer," she had not been able to contact her husband again.
The woman lying on the bed was named Wen Yifan, and today was her 63rd day in the hospital.
Looking at the empty door, Wen Yifan was still thinking, did the man really leave himself behind and never come back?
It is said that the husband and wife are originally the same forest bird, and the great disaster is about to fly separately. Now that Wen Yifan finally understood this sentence, she sighed and did not look over her shoulders to look out the window.
At that time, the sky in Wuhan was gray, and Wen Yifan could not get up, but could only glimpse a little sky through the narrow window.
The city she had lived in for more than twenty years had become so foreign for the first time.
Not only that, what makes Wen Yifan more and more strange is his inhuman self in the mirror, and her husband Xiong Ershun, who has no news.
A tear slipped from the corner of Wen Yifan's eyes, with bitterness and bitterness, at this moment she regretted very much, she was in love with the wrong person after all.
Youthful online dating
The relationship between Wen Yifan and Xiong Ershun began on the Internet.
Born in 1996, Wen Yifan lives in Macheng, Wuhan, Hubei Province, and has been regarded as a pearl in the palm of his hand by his family since he was a child.
Young and ignorant boys and girls always look forward to a wonderful and moving relationship, which is mostly like a green apple, sweet with some sourness.
The same is true of Wen Yifan, who faces heavy schoolwork and the pressure of further education every day, and she always begins to fantasize about whether there will be a Prince Charming in her life.
At that time, Wen Yifan's favorite thing to do was to read a variety of youth romance novels and play the hottest online game on the computer - QQ Flying Car.
The wonderful experience in the game is not brought to her by the boring school life, which has become the sweetener of her youth.
In the QQ flying car, she can drive a variety of cars on the colorful map, and even fall in love and marry others in the game.
Also in 2009, Wen Yifan met Xiong Ershun, a boy from Hunan, in the game.
At that time, Wen Yifan was 13 years old, and Xiong Ershun was three years older than her, both of whom were minors.
In the beginning, the two people just played games together and formed a couple to do tasks.
But as they get to know each other, the two will share some of their daily lives, and their topics are not only games, but also their own lives.
Over time, Wen Yifan and Xiong Ershun fell in love, and the two upgraded from lovers in the game to lovers in reality.
For Wen Yifan, this online love is her first love, and she is extremely excited in the first love, full of hope for the future of the two.
She is even more addicted to the Internet, often sneaking to internet cafes and staying all day.
Sometimes she doesn't even go to school classes, just to be able to spend more time with Xiong Ershun on the Internet.
Wen Yifan, who originally had a medium grade, began to plummet in her studies, and every day she knew that she was staring at her mobile phone and giggling, and her mother soon realized that something was wrong.
She flipped through her daughter's chat history and found that her daughter was rubbing her ears with a strange man every day online, which made her angry.
On the one hand, she felt that her daughter was in love early and was too addicted to it; on the other hand, she was afraid that her young and ignorant daughter would be deceived.
Therefore, she confiscated Wen Yifan's mobile phone, and reduced her pocket money so that she had no money to go online, and entrusted the teacher to discipline her more.
But adolescent child, the more you discipline, the more rebellious she becomes.
Wen Yifan not only did not listen to the family's words, but also often quarreled with his parents, and the relationship with the family was very stiff.
Seeing that they could not be persuaded to go in, Wen Yifan's parents had no choice but to give up.
The two are just online love, the time is long, the daughter's freshness will pass, naturally it will not be tired again, her parents think so.
But who would have expected that the two had never been separated and continued to maintain a romantic relationship.
Now Wen Yifan's mother recalls that all that remains is regret.
She regretted that she hadn't been able to break them apart with tougher means, leaving her daughter to suffer for the last part of her life.
Wen Yifan, who had just opened her love sinus, ate a sweet and sour green apple or a poisonous apple that drank and quenched her thirst, and she herself did not know.
The days were as fast as turning a book, Wen Yifan had already turned over quickly before he had read it, and in the blink of an eye, she and Xiong Ershun had been together for five years.
Wen Yifan wants to become a husband and wife with Xiong Ershun and be together forever and ever.
But Wen Yifan's mother firmly disagreed, Xiong Ershun came from rural Hubei, the family was very poor, and there was an older brother.
Although their family situation is also average, at least they will not let their daughter suffer, and the two are still online dating, and the specific situation of the other party is not known.
Therefore, Wen Yifan's family resolutely disagreed with the two together, but before they could come up with a new way to separate the two, the daughter's words made the husband and wife two gods and six gods.
"Dad, Mom, I'm pregnant."
Children who insist on staying
Wen Yifan's parents instantly felt that the sky was about to fall, and their daughter was actually pregnant before marriage!
At that time, Wen Yifan was only 19 years old, and her parents scolded Xiong Ershun for not being a thing, while crying and blaming her daughter for being confused, how could she do such a thing.
Her parents blamed themselves, because they did not discipline their daughter well, so that Xiong Ershun was ruined.
The most urgent thing is to take Wen Yifan to the crowd first and beat the child in the belly.
But Wen Yifan did not know where the courage came from, and continued to hold on to her stubbornness, and she cried and knelt down to beg her mother:
"Mom, let me give birth to the baby!"
Seeing their obsessive daughter, Wen Yifan's parents also fell into confusion, but they were still afraid that their daughter was confused for a while and took the wrong road, and still advised her to fight it.
Wen Yifan chose a path to go to the black, saying that she had to give birth to this child.
There is no way, even if they can't look at Xiong Ershun anymore, they can't let their daughter become an unmarried mother and be judged by others, right?
In desperation, they can only take the initiative to contact the Xiong Ershun family and discuss with them the marriage of the two children.
When the phone rang, Wen Yifan's parents told Xiong Ershun that Yifan was pregnant.
But Xiong Ershun behaved lightly, as if this was not a big deal.
In the discussion of the later marriage matters, Xiong Ershun did not care about anything, and when he was a hand-throwing treasurer, the Xiong family did not even pay the bride price.
In this way, the two people got married in a hurry, but the two were in online dating most of the time, and there was not much contact in real life, and the marriage was mainly for this child.
Therefore, life after marriage is not as beautiful as Wen Yifan imagined.
Unhappy marriage
After reading so many youth romance novels, Wen Yifan thought that the fairy tale shone into reality, and she thought that Xiong Ershun really loved her, but she was miscalculated after all.
After getting married, she found that Xiong Ershun was not as good as she thought, but an irresponsible and irresponsible man.
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From pregnancy, to waiting for delivery, to giving birth to a child, only Wen Yifan's parents were accompanying her, and even when the child was born, others did not know where they were.
To the confinement and raising children in the back, for three whole years, the Wen family is fully responsible.
One of the two is in Hubei, the other is in Hunan, and the love that was once built with the network cable is finally crushed by reality.
In the three years after marriage, the two have only seen a few faces, perhaps for this man, Wen Yifan also had some expectations, but three years of disregard or let her be defeated by reality.
Xiong Ershun called her, not caring about her body, nor asking how the child was, but forcing her to repay her online loan.
Involved in such a marriage, Wen Yifan's life is only left with endless numbness and despair.
After the marriage, Xiong Ershun's inaction made Wen Yifan's parents very dissatisfied, and they always believed that the man did not assume the responsibilities and obligations that a husband and a father should have.
Wen Yifan had suffered the bitter fruit of her impulse, and now the only hope in life was her two-year-old child.
No matter how bad Xiong Ershun is, but the child is innocent, looking at the petite and cute son in his arms, Wen Yifan revealed a bitter smile.
Maybe their marriage will eventually fall apart, but she will definitely take care of her children.
Unfortunately, Heaven made a joke on her again.
"Undead Cancer"
One day in December 2018, Wen Yifan was sitting on a bus and was about to arrive home.
But suddenly, she felt the sky spinning, her brain was blank, and her body lost control in an instant, and it took a while to ease up.
Wen Yifan didn't know what was wrong with him, after playing that, his body was often uncomfortable.
First I felt back pain and weakness, and then I had some red spots on my body.
On December 22, with a nervous heart, Wen Yifan went to the hospital for a check-up, but the doctor told her that this was not a simple skin disease and needed to go to a better hospital for examination.
She told her mother about it, and Wen accompanied her to the Zhongnan Hospital of Wuhan University, where she conducted a laboratory test.
The test results came out, Wen Yifan was suffering from "systemic lupus erythematosus" known as "undead cancer".
They were all confused at once, Wen Yifan was only 22 years old, how did he get such a disease?
However, reality is always merciless, in order to treat, Wen Yifan's cherished and beautiful long hair was cut off, and life became painful and difficult.
Every day, she had to draw blood, get injections, infusions, and bone marrow punctures, each of which greatly tortured her physically and mentally.
Although it is not easy to kill people, it cannot be completely cured, so it is called "undead cancer".
The constant treatment overwhelmed the whole family, and the expensive medical expenses and hospitalization costs were about to crush the whole family.
When Wen Yifan was sent to the ICU for treatment, Xiong Ershun played and disappeared, ignoring her and turning off his mobile phone when he called him.
So far, she has spent a total of 200,000 yuan on treatment, but Xiong Ershun has only paid 19,000, and the rest is borne by the Wen family.
Wen Yifan's family completely recognized this man and did not expect him, but the relatives around them also borrowed one by one, and they really couldn't afford to pay for treatment.
There was no way, they had to go online and ask for donations.
Netizens knew about this matter, on the one hand, they were distressed by wen Yifan's tragedy, and on the other hand, they angrily rebuked Xiong Ershun's ruthlessness, and everyone criticized this "scumbag".
Disappearing husband
In the rescue on December 27, 2018, Yifan survived, and Xiong Ershun, who could not get through the phone at the time, also appeared.
He and Wen Mu looked at each other, saying that he accidentally broke his mobile phone before shutting down, and did not take care of Yifan because he wanted to work to earn money to repay the online loan.
But the money he borrowed online did not spend a penny on Wen Yifan.
In Wen Yifan's 350,000 medical expenses, Xiong Ershun spent only 20,000 yuan on her, and he did not spend money on Yifan and his children.
Mother Wen said that the reason why Xiong Ershun dropped the mobile phone was to take the child away, but they did not agree, and he dropped the mobile phone in a huff.
When Yifan was sick at the beginning, Xiong Ershun ignored it, and now he even wanted to take advantage of the void and take the child away.
But later in the face of the interview, Xiong Ershun still defended himself:
"I work in other places, and I have to pay back 6,000 yuan of online loans and 2,000 yuan of car loans every month, and the total deposit is 4,000 yuan." From wen Yifan's illness to now, I have been there two or three times, and once I went to take care of it for a week.
The only 4,000 yuan I had left was given to her to buy medicine, and at that time, there were 40 yuan under Hun's body, and I couldn't even eat a meal, I hadn't eaten for two or three days, but my mother-in-law knew it and scolded me for living it. ”
Xiong Ershun said that he had done a lot for Wen Yifan and was doing everything he could to be good to her.
But the nurse at the hospital said that Wen Yifan had been hospitalized for so long that Xiong Ershun had only visited once.
Their already unhappy marriage was torn apart by Yifan's serious illness.
The taste of bone marrow puncture is very uncomfortable, Wen Yifan will suffer greatly every day, and her only hope is the son of the family.
After the son knew that his mother was ill, he did not cry or make trouble, and stayed at home quietly.
Once he was on a video phone call with Yifan, looking at his mother in the hospital bed, the little child took out a green plastic pump to cheer yifan up.
Wen Yifan's only wish is to live.
Unfortunately, on March 6, 2019, after more than two months of treatment, Yifan finally failed to survive.
Her clock was forever stopped at the age of 23 and would never turn again.
At this time, her son had just turned three years old, and she was not at ease with Xiong Ershun, holding her mother's hand before dying, "Mom, you must help me take good care of my son."
It has been 3 years since Yifan died, and her parents still have not paid off the medical expenses owed, and they are living a destitute life.
But even so, Wen's father and mother are still reluctant to give up fighting for the custody of their children.
However, according to the law, after the death of the mother, the custody of the child will be given to the father, and Wen's father and mother are helpless after all.
Wen Yifan's story makes people sigh, the person who loved her to death and lived in the beginning actually left her when he needed her most.
In the face of danger, the partner may be instinctive, but the anger and unforgiveness of the other party are also instinctive.
I only hope that if there is an afterlife, Yifan will not love the wrong person again.