Blind date, be patient

At the moment, for love, many people always seem particularly anxious.

Eager to meet once, they rushed together, directly determined the relationship, and even went through the whole process.

Especially blind dates, many people's attitude towards blind dates, it seems that they have always seemed to be particularly anxious.

A look of each other to come to the blind date, there is no need to talk about any feelings, since you need to find the object through blind date, you should not be picky, only should be quickly fixed.

Anyway, I want to save a lot of steps, and I don't want to be with different people all the time, so I just want to grab one quickly and randomly, and then directly with each other.

There is no patience at all, and there is no sincerity at all, it is just a particular sloppiness.

In marriage, many people are indeed like this, however, marriage is a lifelong thing, is such an important thing, in the blind date, we really should not be so casual, or should be patient.

Don't just meet, just say get married.

From time to time, there are some people who have just begun to chat with each other, who have only met each other for the first time, who have not yet understood each other's names, what they do, what their family situation is, and then they start talking about marriage.

They said that they hoped that they could get married within a few months, and that they could have children immediately after marriage.

There are really a lot of people, who are completely very anxious.

This practice, perhaps some people feel, is to show their sincerity in wanting to get married, but more often, it will just appear, just to find someone to marry and have children, to find someone to become their own tool person.

When we just come into contact with each other and say things so far away, it will not only not show that we have any sincerity, but will only make the other party feel that they have not been respected, and what we need is not love, just a willing opposite sex.

Moreover, that person does not necessarily have to be the other party, no matter who it is, as long as the other party is willing, it is the same.

Needless to say, once we talk about getting married too quickly, the other party will really be frightened, will not have any good feelings for us, and will not want to continue to get along with us at all, only want to escape far away.

People who are willing to be close to us, indeed, others are very eager to find someone to marry, but what the other party wants is not just to find someone to marry, or to be eager to have a love affair between each other and to be valued.

Learn slowly and then make a decision.

Maybe some people will not be so anxious at the beginning of their understanding, but in the whole process, they will always want to be able to promote each other's relationship faster and let everything settle as soon as possible.

In a relatively short period of time, but only have the most basic understanding, feel that the other party's appearance and conditions, are more in line with their own requirements, the other party is not disgusted with themselves, and then want to hurry up to get engaged, but also hurry to get married.

In a blind date, it is indeed a fortunate thing to meet people who are more compatible with each other in all aspects and have a certain good feeling for each other, but it is best not to decide too quickly to start a family.

Although we should hold back the joy in our hearts, get along with each other first, and look at each other's three views, each other's personality, and each other's way of life in the process of getting along, whether they can be compared and compatible.

Until you get to know each other clearly, really feel that it is appropriate, and then enter the marriage, it is really not too late.

Otherwise, just see something superficial, and then regardless of marriage, after marriage, we are likely to find that the other party is not the same as imagined, and each other's temper and disposition do not seem to be so compatible.

It is never easy to see a person, it takes time, and it takes some time to go through.

Before getting married, take more time to understand and think clearly, and after marriage, there will be fewer problems.

Stick to it and don't be discouraged too quickly.

I have to say that when others introduce us to objects, there are always times when the people we see are completely different from what we imagined, and they are completely different from what the introducer said.

From time to time, there are people who do not meet our standards at all, and even special and are even special.

Even if occasionally, we have a hard time meeting someone who feels good about ourselves, when we have a good feeling for each other, the other party may not be the same as us, maybe it is just not interesting to us.

It may be said that we have met many people, and in the end we have not really met a suitable person, and we have really had some contact with a person, but we have only seen a person disappointed once, and we are often doubting ourselves.

Blind dates many times, but still frustrated, we will inevitably feel some frustration, we also do not want to insist, we can have such emotions, but we do not have to be trapped in this all the time.

Don't think so much, just always be optimistic, always be positive, always believe, maybe next time, you will meet the right person, you can have a very good relationship.

Originally, blind dates are constantly trying luck, and the right person may appear the first time, may appear in the tenth time, or it may be after a long time of going around before finally coming to our side.

After all, it is a lifelong thing, so we just have to be patient and wait a little longer.

Adults, for blind dates, we don't have to refuse, we can give it a try.

At the same time, with people, we don't always have to be so impatient, just calm down.

Give yourself a little more patience and wait until you've seen the first meeting before you consider whether to continue.

Wait until you really know each other well enough, and then judge whether you really want to become boyfriend and girlfriend, or even become a life partner.

It doesn't have to be completely wrong because it's a blind date, and it doesn't have to be respectful because it's a blind date.

Blind dates, that and free love, are no different.

It also needs to be serious, it is also necessary to show sincerity, it also needs to be treated with heart, and it is also necessary to let everything slowly mature.

Text/Tan Meng

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