On April 13, 2024, a 27-year-old female netizen got her 21-year-old brother's mobile phone. His brother had jumped off a bridge two days earlier. From her brother's mobile phone, the sister learned how miserable her brother's life had been for more than two years. All the 400,000 yuan he earned by playing games was given to his girlfriend but was abandoned, and he himself just ate 10 yuan of takeout every day.
Here's the young man's sister got the chat history from her brother's phone. There are many such records, and her brother gave his money to this so-called girlfriend step by step.
Many netizens said that if you earn 500,000 yuan in 2 years, are you afraid that you won't be able to find a girlfriend? Once he falls in love, he will not trust anything else, only his so-called girlfriend. Only when he wakes up from a dream will he wake up,
As for whether the matter is as the young man's sister said, the girl involved (the young man's girlfriend) is unwilling. According to the girl's description, the amount she recognized was about 350,000. After the young man jumped into the river, the woman returned more than 136,000. A settlement was also signed at that time.
At the same time, according to the girl's description, she also loved the young man. But this young man is easy to do some extreme things for love and scares her, so he makes up his mind to break up with this young man.
In any case, it is difficult to explain between men and women, and it has been so for thousands of years. And since this young man jumped into the river because of love, it has nothing to do with this girl in any way, after all, love is your own decision. No one can force someone to do something they don't like, not even love. From this point of view, the girl cannot be held responsible. Moreover, the girl and the young man's family have signed a reconciliation letter, so there should be no more harm to each other.
For this young man's sister, since she has signed a settlement letter and her brother can't come back, she is still struggling with some things that are not facts. To let go of others is actually to let go of yourself.
This incident also tells everyone that once you meet a love brain, whether it is a man or a woman. It's not necessarily a good thing, for this kind of person, the topic of love is often what people call a tendon, and it's easy to do something extreme when something happens. Many of the love tragedies we see in our lives are caused by one party being a love brain.
This incident also tells everyone that when encountering this kind of person, whether to approach or stay away needs to be grasped by everyone, but it is necessary to have a clear understanding and psychological preparation.