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Getting along with the opposite sex is actually very sensitive.
As the opposite sex, we must know how to grasp the measure, because a little bit of measure is not good, it may affect the relationship between each other.
Get along with people, be self-conscious, and say whatever kind of people you want.
No matter how good the relationship between the opposite sex is, it is necessary to maintain a certain distance.
Everything is too close to the relationship, in fact, is not a good thing, once the bottom line is touched, it will affect each other's feelings.
In the heterosexual relationship, for smart people, they often know how to relax and know what to do and what not to do.
Therefore, between the opposite sex, once these topics are frequently chatted, it may affect the relationship.
Chat about private topics
In this world, each of us has secrets, but we generally do not easily mention them to outsiders.
Most people only give their innermost side to the people they trust and love the most.
Personal privacy, private topics, will not be told to outsiders, even if the intimate relationship, there will be some concerns.
If we talk to each other about these topics, then the relationship may change.
You know, people who can talk to you about private topics are actually trying to test your mind and understand your inner thoughts.
Many relationships, once broken, are difficult to return to the way they were before.
In order to embarrass each other and cause trouble to each other, it is best not to mention some things easily, and the relationship must be grasped no matter how good it is.
Otherwise, frequent conversation will only make the other party get used to it and rely on it in the relationship.
Talk about emotional experiences
In fact, everyone will have their own past emotional experiences, and some people will choose to put them in their hearts.
For most people, they don't casually tell others about their past feelings.
People who can talk to you about the past frankly want to get closer to you in this way.
Between the opposite sex, once they become intimate, they may cause other unnecessary thoughts.
Sometimes feelings are very wonderful, when you have taken a person as the object of conversation, in fact, you will slowly get used to the existence of the other party, you will want to rely on, this kind of thinking is very dangerous.
Imagine that what was originally just a friendship relationship suddenly transformed into the other party's familiarity with your past, your emotional experience, and understanding the real you, which will cause trouble and misunderstanding to each other, and it will be very awkward to get along with.
Talk about everyday life
As friends, it is normal to chat occasionally and pour out your emotions.
But frequent chatting, always complaining, and seeking comfort from the other party is actually very easy to affect the other party.
You know, life is your own, some emotions have to be digested by yourself, and you can't have much to do with others.
If you rely on someone in this way, you will not only have empathy for yourself, but also let the other person have other ideas.
Feelings are not accurate, often talk about life, understand each other, it is easy to produce feelings, so that the relationship between each other has other substantive changes.
As a couple, you can be intimate, you can talk about anything, and the other party will follow your emotions.
But as the opposite sex no one is obliged to listen to your complaints, to digest your emotions, and to grasp them a little bit, which may ruin each other's lives.
summary:
In fact, between the opposite sex, normal interaction is OK, but everything can not be excessive, to distinguish their own lives, do not completely rely on each other, trouble each other.
Sometimes feelings are easy to get used to, and they may change subtly.
Therefore, it is best not to be too closely related to the opposite sex, which is easy to have unnecessary effects.
Grasp the measure, do not cross the line, the relationship between each other will be long-lasting, life will be more harmonious and happy.